Hey Guys! My name is Laci, I'm 18 years old. If you send me a question I will try and answer it ASAP :-)
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i didnt know what to put this under but whatever. i want to have a BIG 16th birthday ( im 15 ) my birthdays in july. What should i do? I dont want to have a pool party or anything. But can you give me some ideas..like where to go..if i should stay at home and invite people over or where to have it. ( if youve already had ur 16th birthday reply! ) but if you havent thats alright lol. thanks (link)
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You can do anything you want! You could take a limo into your capital. (Mine's Boston) and go out to eat at your favorite rest. Or you could go to the beach, an amusement park, a water park, movies, your turning 16 so if your friends are all 16 already then you could go to a club. Most clubs around me are 16-21 for that age group. I don't know where you live so I might not eb any help. You could also have a sleep over at your house and when it gets really late and its dark and if its hot out still you can go swimming, but you said you didnt want to have a pool party. Hope I helped!
*Laci
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hey i have this problem with one of my friends because whenever i ask her to sleepover she says ya i can and then like 30 minutes later shes like i cant go anymore my dad said that we have to do family things and then the next day i find out that she is at someone elses house and she always almost always does this to me and she ditched me on my birthday and she always makes up an excuse and it always sounds so convincing so i just say ok but inside it bugs me and i dont really know what to do should i stay friends with her and see how it goes or should i not be friends with her anymore?
thanx! (link)
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Thats unfair of what your friend is doing. Your ebst bet is to sit down with her and confront her of her actions. Tell her that it really bothers you that you ask her to do things and shes says ok and plans are made but then she breaks them with an excuse and goes over someone else's house. Ask her why she is making up excuses, or why she doesn't want to sleep over your house.
*Laci
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ok well there is ths girl and i have liked her for a while and i finally told my best friedn that and then he went and asked her out and now the girl found out what happened and how my best friend did that and now she is askin me stuff like would i ever get wit her if they broke up im jus confused as hell
some 1 please tell me wut 2 do (link)
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Depending on your age, some girls will say yes to a boy when they ask her out just so she can ahve a boyfriend. Or she might of liked you but didnt think she had a chance with you. So when your friend asked her out she might of said yes to get closer to you. I'm not sure I dont know that for a fact though.
I think your best bet would be to talk to your friend about that after you think about it yourself. Would you want to be with someone that was wiht your bestfriend? Would your bestfriend get mad? How good of a girlfriend is she? etc.
Hope this helped!
*Laci
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THanks.
I will tell him when he get home from his camping trip.. him and I go camping one night and talk. thing is he did had gf for 3 year and now once of while we together we get this feeling when we make out. becouse we miss eather and stuff... He did told me that I need go out other guys.. But thing is something bout me be hard for me find a guy. becouse of my deafness and disblitty..
I kinda have another advice.. I um did something frist of summer this guy I use had little crush on after my brake up with traivis i gusse i took my slef to serlousy. well i send him mail ask why drop out of school and stuff i didnt mean to but i say something rude if he didnt tell me.. I not mean to. he wrote back and say he getting married nad having kid and saying that he will charge me hassment him i not do anything. he bad guy and jerk to. I like know how i make my senior year the best becouse I have no delire be deppress becouse i am happy person get little hyper people think i need clam down but i just happy that all... nobody would want see me mad i would be if people put me down..
Amanda sorry lot to say right now i miss all my freinds they away vactaine and camp.. i gusse i bored and have lot on my mind.. i sould be getting job some day.. I dont like boredness i like doing things...
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That's ok that you didn't mean to send him an e-mail being mean. It was probably just a misunderstanding or miscomunication. Don't sweat it.
Yaaa its not fun when your friends are all away on vacation or camping. Its boring.
Hope this helped!
*Laci
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Thing is me and travis dated for three years and broke up my freshman year. he kinda 2 years younger then me.. now i am 19 and senior and he is sopmore 16... i know age not matter but matter is that I never went out any othner guys. and i do know other guys... see we thinking we are soul mate like we feel we belong together and we both get along and feel so comble with eather family. but problem is I am not in love with him and I sard that i maybe find someone else for a reason.. I do want go out other guys and i dont want lose my best freind... we been friends forever. thing is i dont want waste his school year and stuff.. sorry if this sound conffuseing i trying explaime question i try writ but if this not enought just email me and i try put out more... thanks
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First of all I agree age doesn't matter too much. That's ok that you never went out with any other guys before. If your not inlove with him then it isnt your fault. People always fall in and out of love, with no explanation or reason. It's just what happens. I don't think you will lose your bestfriend if you guys were that close and still are. Just explain to him everything that you feel and tell him that you need to experience other guys because you might end up realizing you do love him and wnat to be with him. Do you understand what I'm saying?
I'm kinda confused on how you typed this but I'm trying to give it my best shot!
Hope this helped!
*Laci
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wat do u do if ure friends b/f is flirting with u??!??!?!??!?!??!?? help me wat do i do!!!!??? quick!!!!! (link)
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Personally, I think friendship is more important. You should tell him that you don't appreciate him goin out with your bestfriend and flirting with you and then you should tell you bestfriend. If he can flirt with you and your her bestfriend then he can flirt with other girls. Hope this helped!
*Laci
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