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im fifteen. im not gonna say my name because it doesnt matter & my friends would feel weird asking me for advice lol. im a girl so i know the answers to girls problems lol and i can help with practically any question you might ask. if you dont like my advice then just dont ask me for it or dont listen to what i tell you, everyone's entitled to their own opinion.
i am hoping to be a psychologist some day but im not sure if that dream will come true because im only a sophmore in high school so i still have a long way to go before i choose a career.
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My friend Tracee has had a couple boys this past year. I have not really, but I am not jealous. I don't try to get guys to like me because I haven't really found anyone I really like this past year. Thing is, I've heard that she's been saying stuff behind my back about it. That supposedly like no boys like me and I have no "expierence" and I don't know guys at al she supposedly said to my one friend. Like, if I don't care about it, why does she? Should I say something or let it go?
Be careful about it because you don't seem to know for sure that she said anything. Just approach her and casually ask her about it. Or just bring up the subject and be like "hopefully the boys will be better next year" or something so she doesnt think you have no experience.
ok well i found out that my best friend shane really liked me and he liked me like the whole year and i thought that was pretty kool and i kinda liked him to so i asked him out well then he was like wayy over obsessive and all and i didnt no wat to do so i dumped him 3 days later and now he seems really mad at me and its been like 2 weeks i wanna be his friend again so badly but he just doesnt wanna talk to me right now.. What should i do???
well tell him that your sorry that the relationship didn't work but it was moving too fast for you.. you would rather take it slow
as for the 'he's upset with you' thing.. he's probably just feels bad that you dont want to be with him but he'll get over it sooner or later.. just keep trying to talk to him and he'll forgive youu
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I met this guy in like beg of october last year at a campground ((family campground)) and we like have so much funn together and we like kissed and well i have been talking to him like online and over myspace ever since and in december he got a girlfriend, and this past weekend we both went camping again, ((he still has the same gf)) and well a few days before she went onto his myspace and was like 'back off he doesnt miss you' and all this shit, so once i got to the campground i tryed avoiding him but him and his friends approached me and my friend and you know he asked if we could like do stuff but keep it from his gf. and i was like yeah. so we like did, and he called me beautiful and told me he loved me more than his gf. and now i like cry everytime i even like think about him because i like him so much, and it scares me.
but i like almost never see him and i dont know how to get over him...
any suggestions?
PS- i will rate 5's to anyone that even tries
well.. if he already has a girlfriend and did stuff behind her back then he was cheating on his girlfriend and that's a very bad quality in a boyfriend. if i were you then i would basically think of that as the main reason not to want him near you as much. get a boyfriend near your house and sooner or later you'll forget about the other guy..
i know i sound harsh but thats the only way i know how to put it..
Okay, so I'm having a party for the end of the school year and I want to invite guys. Here;s the problem, the ratio of my close guy friends to close girl friends is about 5:15 or 1:3. Thats'a going to be a realy awakrd gap for the guys because some of them aren't great friends with the others, but I still want to invite the guys. Should I add at the bottom of the invitation, "Invite some of your guy friends, or it will be uneven numbers, but tell me whose coming."?
it would be risky to have guys you dont know at your party but for some of the girls you invited, have them come to your house before the party and ask them if they know any guys who would like to go. Make sure they're nice boys and once you have confirmation from your friends that they are then invite them too. Other than that, if you really want the numbers to be even, then have all the girls bring a date