My name is ashley im 15 & i have this friend leanna .. we both liked the same person for the same about of time just about .. then she started goin out with him .. is that right .. i think if two friends like the same person neither of them can have that person cause its not fair .. she always uses the excuse against me that its happend before & she tells me im not a goodfriend and im selfish & if i was a good friend that i would be accpecting of this .. am i right or wrong in this situation? .. i feel betrayed because of her .. i never would do something like that to her .. so what do u think .. am i right to feel that way or am i wrong ?
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Well, I hink that what you said about two friends liking the same guy isn't fair....well, I honestly don't think that is very fair to say, because if he had gone out with you, would it have really made any difference to you? Just thikn if it was your friend, I think that/ hopefully, she would accept it, and you should too. And you shouldn't feel betrayed, because you can't make decisions for her. It was her choice to go out with him, but it seems more or less like you are kind of jealous. But sooner or later the same thing will happen to your friend. It just kind of happens, to be jealous, and you can't understand why. But the only thing you can do to make you stop feeling this way, is to accept the fact that, yea, she is going out with him. But if you really care about your friend, you will find the way to accept it.
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there is this girl that i've liked since 2nd grade and i like her even more.i am now in 9th grade and i think she is the one but i am afraid to ask her out because i am afraid she will say no. so what should i do?i am a male.
Ok, if you really like this girl, and you care about her, ou will take the risk of asking her out. What could it hurt? I mean, you like her, and I hope that if you ask her and she says no, that you will accept that. Because she might just want to have a friend, and that she might just like that better. But who knows, she might feel the same way, and just is too worried what you would say.
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I recently just started dating someone that I like soooo much but my friend is pissed off at me!i did tell her that if he asked me out then id say no bc of how he acts but when he asked me out i just couldnt say no!shes now saying..."how could you choose him over me?"when i never did that!shes acting like i ditched her but i would never do that!!!what do i do?
Ok, so your "Friend", should except the fact that you are going out with this guy. But it was your job, that if you were to say anything, like make a promise not say yes, then stick to it. But I have a feeling you were only doing it to not get your friend mad, for the time being, because if he didn't ask you out, then you would still have the friendship to lean on. But Don't go making promises that you are unsure of keeping, it will only screw things up more. But If you really like this guy, then you should just kind of worry about this for a while, but not ditch your friends. I have a feeling that if you let things sink in, it will get better.
P.S. I hope your friend can understand
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