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we'll call her leslie...we used to be best friends, until this year, i made a ton of new friends(being involved in a lot of stuff helps) and well she doesnt get involved in anything, and she complains about people all the time and talks trash about people, and is obsessed with really retarded things, like TPing is like her favorite thing and she keeps asking me to go TPing or spray painting with her, and well shes kinda childish...we're both 16 but im the only one who has the liscense and if we hang out i always have to drive and gas is really expensive, and overall shes just really annoying. how should i let her know that we're not really best friends anymore? (link)
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Tell her that you've changed alot over the years , and well you dont want to break it down bad but just be like "Leslie, i'm sorry to say but i've changed , and obviously you havent and well i have met more new exciting friends to hang out with , sorry !"..And if she's talking trash about people,its going to give you also a bad reputation like for instance they might say "Why are you her friend,she talks alot of shit about alot of people "you know what i mean ? and well yeah TPing is fun , but if she wants to do it all the time , then yeah its childish ! But yes , gasoline nowadays IS very expensive !!! Hope i helped ,Vic♥ If you have any questons just feel free to ask !
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I have this friend, she's 2 years older than me (I'm 13 and she's 15) but she says I'm mature and she always wants to hang out with me. She went out with my bro's bff twice then after he broke up with her the 2nd time, she was depressed and I helped cheer her up, that was last summer, then when school started she went to the high school and i'm in the junior high, she became friends with my bros and their friends, it felt like she used me to get to my bros, cuz she'd come over talk to me for 5 min then be like where are the guys? Now she and this guy are going out again, and everytime I hang out with her she's cool but when the guys come back home, she ditches me and hangs out with them.. I know she's older than be but I love her to death... what do I do? Do I drop her or do I keep her and hope she changes?
help~thanks! (link)
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Keep her and hope she changes.Trust me i know how you feeelllll :-/ ..To find out if she's using you say"whose more impotant , me .. or my brother's friend" and if she sais your brother's friend , then dont even waste your time on her, because obviously you dont mean a thing to her if she sais your brothers friend's mean more.She's just using you and thats not a good friend.! my best friend always did that to me and everytime she'd ditch me i'd go to my room and lock it nd start crying and then when my parents came home they'd ask why i was crying and i'd explain but they'd always go on her side :-/ , but yes i know how you feel and i hope my advice helped ! ♥Vic
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When my friends and I are in a group and talking, it's easier for me to make a conversation and i'm comfortable talking to everyone. When I'm one on one with a person, it's very uncomfortable and I don't know what to talk about so there will be this awkward silence. Why is this happening? What can I do? (All girls by the way..) I have no boy-friends..How do I make them? I'm incredibly shy and soo insecure! (link)
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Hmm i'm just like you , i feel comfortable when theirs alot of people but when its just one on one it feels very WEiRD but lately i've just been talking about anything .. like me and my friend ,hannah, we always laugh at movie lines and stuff like that .. Hmm do you have anny brothers ? maybe if you hung around him (( if you doo )) you can start having his guy friends , as your friends ! haha thats how i have many CUTE/guy friends !! its beter to have guy friends though because they dont BITCH ! lmao haha but if you feel shy talking to them ,then talk to them on aim , and maybe the next day yall will run into each other , and yall say hi , and the next thing you know is .. yall are really good friends !thats happened to me before !! so try it , you never know ! i hope i helped if you havea any questons , feel free to ask ! ♥Vic
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I'mm stuck in the middle of my two friends... they always get in fights and its extremely annoying...i m better friends with one then the other, but i dont wanna take sides... wat do i do to stop this?
thx.
annoyed & in the middle (link)
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Tell them to shut the fuck up ! lmao j/k no but really .. Hmm get with them in one place,and let them talk out their differences and yes , it is very good;; dont take sides because the other one is eventually going to be sad/mad and not going to talk to you ...but but but i consider you talking their problems out ! if you have any questuons please feel free to ask ! ♥Vic
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