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Q: I am 13 years old. I am in grade 8 and life is getting somplicated. Almost all my friends are guys and now the most popular girl in school say I flirt a lot with all the guys. She spread a nickname for me called "Boy Toy" and now I cant talk to a guy without anyone making a big deal about it. One of my most trustworthy friends is a guy and ill admit I kind of like him now but its just too weird. But now shes got even my best friend believing I flirt with him all the time and hes starting to avoid me some more. What I mean is usually when we see eachother he gives me a giant smile and stuff and stops and talks to me. Now he like looks away. I dont know what to do. Its not like im a huge flirt (I think) Ive never even truely gone out with a guy. What should I do?
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Hmmm.I believe everything will be ok so just try to talk to your guy friends and explain to them what this girl is doing,or go talk to a teacher a parent or any adult or do both
If you need to talk to this is my e-mail
christiangal1993@yahoo.com
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Q: 16/f
i'll just get to the point..
so pretty much exactly a year ago i went out with this boy named johnny, whos a grade higher than me. we went out for a while like two months, but we both kinda mutually realized we still liked our exes. Since then we had been great friends, but neither of us did end up going with our exes. durring the summer we were talking and he asked if i wanted to hook up some time, just for experience, because ive been kissed and everything but i dont really make out with just anyone, so i never have before. well then i was like , friends with benefits? and he was like yeah, i guess, so i said sure why not. a week later a boy named chris asked me out, and we went out for four months, but he was kinda an ass, so we broke up. then a couple weeks later johnny was like how are you and chris, and i was like ohhh, we broke up a while ago.. sorry i didnt tell you we never really talk any more :( and he was like i knoow we should hang out next weekend, and i was like deffinitly . then he was like so do you want to do that friends w/ benefits thing now :) and like i guess i want to for experience, but i told him i like someone else, and hes like thats deffintitly not a problem. lol, so we arent going to go past second , but can i have either some advice on what to do since we dont even like eachother like that, like how do i let him know to start making out with me? or like can i have advice on what else to do besides making out, like where to put my hands to tease him or other places to kiss :)
thanksss for advice, i apreciate anything
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I woudn't because you say you guys are just friends.It sounds like he just wants to just hook up with you.I think his horemones are jumbling up and he may like you too.But remember if you guys want to be just friends.
God bless
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Q: Lately i have been feeling left out from my best friend, she hangs out with all these other girls and i am really glad she has lots of other friends but she dosent even talk to me anymore. I feel like she is to Big for me. You know what i mean? She brought me to a school basketball game with her and she didnt even sit by me or talk to me. She always has to be in the middle of the cirlce. It just makes me feel small and unprepared for something. I dont know what though. Again, i am glad she has friends but i just feel this way. I know i can hang out with my other friends but they are all are her really good friend now. They get sad when they cant sit by her at lunch and i havent sit by her in a long time. Any suggestions besisdes talking to her (tried that in the past, to long of a story).
help?
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Hmmmm. It sounds like you two maybe outgrowing each other but you still be friends but not best friends.But try to make other friends.But remember this is normal.But it could be something else she may wants to be more populor if that is true probably you need to let go of her( I went trew just something like that and geuss what it hurt but I made new friends and rejoin my with old bestfriend)So be cofident and trust God and pray Ok.
If you want to talk with anything else contact to me christiangal1993@yahoo.com
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Q: 13/F
this GIRL likes me at my school.
how do i get her to leave me alone?
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This gal really needs help in spiritualy way just pray for her ok but if she tries to get personal or something then tell her your not like that
If you need advice contact me anytime
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Q: Basically there is this girl, Nikki nobody likes her. She had friends at one point and then everybody turned on her including me. I'm friends with a 'popular' girl Lindsey. And Lindsey is rude and snobby but she's kind to me. I'm not 'populer' me and Lindsay just hangout during school. I dont like Nikki either, and she knows it. But today I was hearing Nikki and her friend talking about, Nikki cutting herself. I saw it was true, I know it was she showed her friend her scars [I saw them there is two]. And I dont know why I did thing..to Nikki and anybody who's going to sit there and think they never made a bad decision knowing it was wrong and did it anyways is a lair, we've all done it. I told Lindsey, It was a bad idea she's going to tell everybody she hasent, yet. I'm about 50% sure she will. But I know Nikki started cutting because of Lindsey, I know it. I don't know what to do, Suggestions? comments? I feel awful that she cuts herself and I know Lindsey, And Some what of Me and her own self image issues affect this cutting.
I'm in middle school 8th grade.
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Hmmm tuffy.The only thing I can say be kind to her to show that you care about her,she probably thinks no one cares and sometimes that is why some teens cut them selfs(Oh I'm 13 and in 7th grade so want to become pen pals you know where to get me)but be christlike toward her who knows you could change a life
But if here is hotline I got from a carolweston page 1-800-855-HOPE
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bio
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I'm really nice with a touch of a mean streak.But I'm the advise giver with my friends
at school and I love advise colmns in magazines and websites so I hope I can help with with anything.
P.s. I specialize with sprirtualy ,relationship,and friendships but if have any problems remember to contact me
God bless
April
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Info
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Tennesse Age: 13 Member Since: November 9, 2006 Answers: 33 Last Update: January 3, 2007 Visitors: 3464
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