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iM jESSiCA x3 i'M ONLY 15 AND HAVE BEEN THROUGH A TON OF TUFF SHiT FOR MY AGE. WAY MORE THAN I SHOULD HAVE EVER HAD TO GO THROUGH. BUT iM HERE TO HELP YOU WITH YOUR PROBLEMS AND TRY MY BEST TO GIVE THE BEST ADViCE i CAN x3
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A lot has happened to me: parents have cancer, getting a divorce, was rapped (twice), have depression do drugs, smoke and i told my friend alex and he can relate (depression and sorda my supplier) and i told my BEST FRIEND allie and one more person cuz she said she new ppl who are on drugs and i needed some more..and she told.a bunch of people AND the school councilor alex tells me she was trying to help but ive been getting a lot of questioning lately and i hate it.but then again, i wanted an adult to know, but i dunno if i should be mad at her i mean i AM REALLY PISSED!!!!! but still..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
much love..
im confused about who told on you?
you obviously know now that you cant trust that person. and if you are going to continue to do drugs. i wouldnt have them in your pocession on school campus. just in case you get searched.
Sometimes, my friend Liv tends to make a huge deal out of things that don't really matter. It's also hard for me to talk to her because she doesn't talk well, she yells and gets mad and is mean. What can I do?
i am supposedly that way. because im senstive and take things to the heart and think way to much about it. im bipolar and i blow up when i get easily aggravated.
ive had my friends tell me that i go all hysterical when we have a conversation that upsets me.
most of the time its from keeping something bottled up and when an oppurtunity comes to get it out it justs happens even if you dont want it to.
ask her if theres anything she wants to talk about and let her know your always there for her. and when you want to talk to her about something let her know before hand and you want it to be serious with no yelling and no going out of control if she asks why you said that tell her that well get more accomplished that way and its easier to talk calmly to get things out and yelling at your friends shouldnt be a way to release anger.
basically, talk to her.
if she doesnt stop it. then dont talk to her.
it should drop a hint.
its dropped quite a few for me.
I realy realy need some help. My friend has been cutting herself, and i don't know what to do to help stop her. She did stop, when she was dating this guy, she said "he made me feel beautful". I realy realy want to help her, but i don't kno how. I tried to get stop, but she won't listen to me. Also she's not afriad of cutting herself, because one of her friends, friend died from cutting herself, and my friend kno's this. I realy realy want to help her stop. But i don't kno how.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
first of all. a website made by scientist isnt going to help. they may think they have scientifically proved those things but they havent because they think they know how to understand the teenage mind which is impossible for the simple fact teenagers thereselves cant understand it.
that was a response to the other answer someone gave you.
im a previous cutter. and ive had friends just tell me to stop. and thats all. all they want is for me to stop and thats all they say. just because you want her to stop isnt going to make her stop. dont tell her to stop. ask her why she does it. when she does it. and whats going on. let her know that your always there for her to talk to and you wont betray her or backstab her. most cutters dont trust many people. and this may sound weird. but if she trusted you enough to tell you then you mean something to her. and a cutters worst fear is letting someone in and then having them walk out on her. its just makes things worse. they feel like that pyhsical pain relieves the emotional and pyschological pain. and it does. its a horrible way to relieve pain and take it out on yourself. so you need to help her understand without telling her to just stop because then they feel like they are being ordered around. they just want someone to be there. and let her know that your worried about her hurting herself and that you wish she would stop but its her decision. but let her know it hurts you when she does it.
also. if she doesnt cover it up and she tells everybody and doesnt try to hide it. shes just looking for attention. let her know you care and that your there for her even if she just wants people to notice her.
sorry for such a long answer.