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Ok my bf duznt like my bestest friend and neither duz his friend and it iz hard cuz my friend talks shyt bout my bf then i oviously stick up for him then when my bf talks shyt bout my best friend i stick up for her and im sick of bbein stuck in the middle it aint a nice position to be in i mean im not gunna like not be friends wid her juss bcuz my bf duznt like her and im DEFINATLEY not gunna liek break up wid my bf cuz my best friend dont like him it juss really sux and all my friend duz iz complain bout me alwaiiz talkin bout himn shyt but wat duz she excpect im flippin IN LOVE wid him and i can NEVER get him off my mind!!!! so how can i get them to not like talk bout each otha n try n get along n shyt like dat??????? sry so long

I would say talk to them both. Explain to them that you know they dont like the other one and that you dont like them talking about them infront of you. To try and make them get along i would find out why they dont like eachother and try and fix that. Hope i helped.

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Okay Herez My Deal:
My friend and I have gotten into lotz of fights before well one time she gave me this girls p/w so i went on her s/n real quick to get this boyz s/n and then i signed off and never went on it again well my "friend" told the girl and she called me a female dog in her profile and said never go on my s/n again and its mostly emmie! and then she got mad at them because they went up to her house carlee,gabby(the one's who p/w i had),and mallory and carlee said to emmie why r u leaving mallory out and emmie said cuz i don't like her! and then gabby said im on emmies side then carlee started saying funny stuff and gabby said im on carlee's side now and well emmie told me this on the phone and hung up! but i have had lotz of good times w/ emmie but shes really fat and no one likes her!what should i do? Please HELP!

Okay, first of all jsut because this girl emmie is fat and no one likes her doesnt mean that you cant be her friend. It doesnt matter what other people might say about you being her friend or what she looks like. But with what she did doesnt seem to me like she is a good friend. You say no one likes her, maybe she is doing this to try and fit in? I think you should talk to her and find out why she is doing and tell her how it makes you feel and take it from there. If she continues to do it after you tell her how it makes you feel dont be friends w. her anymore.

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I have this friend and I have been friends with her for like 5 years, and recently I met this guy and I like him a lot, and I told her that. And this guy told me that he liked me too. Well now she is going out with him. He still calls me and say that he loves me and wishes he was with me. I don't know if I should talk to the girl or if I should stay a way from her since she stabbed me in the back. What should I do?

I know this is going to sound kind of weird, but here it goes. Even though this girl stabbed you in the back you were friends with her for 5 years, so i would say talk to her and let her know what this guy has been doing..she probally wont believe you and say your just jealous because he likes me.Im not saying be friends with her again, just tell her for the reason that it might make you feel better.

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Ok...so i'm really popular and everyone thinks i'm hott and i really want a boyfriend...but none of the guys give me the time of day...WHAT AM I DOING WRONG! PLZ HELP!

I would say that if your really popular and since everyone thinks your hott, that your not doing anything wrong. The guys are probaly intimtated by you and are afraid to make a move on you because they are afriad of being let down by such a popular pretty girl. Dont worry about it, maybe if there is a guy you like go ahead and ask him out, and dont think there is anything wrong with a girl asking out a guy because that is NOT true, it just shows that you are mature. Hope that helped.

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hey well @ my "BEST FRIENDS" house thers alot of drama with me and this one gurl bc her bf likes me so the gurl hates me!! shes HUGE and threatens to beat my ass if she sees me around ther nemore...my best friend was scared and told me not to come over anymore bc this gurl can fight and would prolly hurt me alot....so i was scared....and so my best friend is even intiminated by this gurl..so the gurl tells my best friend to call me and ask me tocome over so she kan beat tha shit outta me!! so my friend told me to make ^ an excuse that i cant come over...wel my best friend has been not talking to me or anything lately....on aol she doesnt IM me or nothin...but she kalls all the time n will b like O HEY WHEN R U COMING OVER?? but i no the drill and say o no im grounded!! i cant come over!! and shes like ooo ok bye!! she kalls bc the gurl tells her to call....but shes been doin it alot lately im feeling so down about this bc she only calls me for that reason..she doesnt ever wanna talk or nothing....everyone has been saying how she has changed lately...wat shoul.d i do? do i just let her go? or do i try to keep our friendship?

This is def. not your fault that this girls bf likes you! I would say that if your friend doesn't take the time to call you when that girl isnt around or even IM you on AOL then she isnt such a good friend. Even though you cant really go there because the girl will beat the shit out of you, she could atleast try and make time to go to your house so that you can see her. I would say talk to her about it and find out why she has kind of separated from you. Hope I helped! much love

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