My name is David
People say im old but my body isnt
I read (WoW)
I study medicens, law, news, the human mind, Buddhism, the art of Zen, amoung many religions for a better understandment of people.
I dont belive ive gaven bad advise
But do belive that the given sometimes cannot, will not, should not understand
I belive the truth will save us in the end so why not say it
Im kind hearted, even if you cant see it
I love all the children of mother earth
But doesnt mean ill treat them with illogical actions
I know theres a such thing as what people want to hear, and need to hear, i sometmes say both to make the one in need feel slow and confused =]
I do it only to get them thinking on what is best for them only, and if they choice the bad one, eh
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I have been quiet for almost my whole life. I'm not really shy, but I am a little bit. No matter what I said either people don't hear me or they ask me to say it again and it is really getting on my nerves. This is sort of an odd question, but is there some way that I can get in the habit of talking louder? (link)
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Well, I was always the quiet kid in shcool myself, I just parctise talkin gettin my tone right, Then just talk louder. Worked for me, Just buld up that self convindence.
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ya i already have a question about this but anyway i have a good friend of mine and hes a really cool and i started to like him a lot like more than a freind and i dont kno if he likes me back because me and a group of friends were chillin the other day and when he was talkin like to the whole group he always looked at me when he was talkin and when me and my friend went in her house he kept staring at me.. but i dont know its weird becuse i dont think he does like me because hes into those really pretty girls and im not like that im a tomboy and we both act alike and i dont want to change but i dont know i think he stares at me a lot because im always doing goofy things but i dont know im mad confuesed but can someone help me (link)
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Well, I myself can find any girl ugly to the most prettiest thing alive depending on who they are. I think he might like you. Just act a tad girlish and ask him or something. If yall have been hanging out for a long time then its more likly he does. Or start flirtin with him or stare back! And smile! Good luck.
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My sweet sixteen isnt untill feb. but i like planing things ahead of time or at least starting to think about them and i dont know what to do yet. any ideas for a party? i was thinking maybe doing it with one of my friends bc her bday is in feb. too. any ideas of what to do? we dont want too high of a budget. (link)
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Well,(all the links are at the bottom) You can always make lots of hebal teas and sweets to get everyone nice and buzzed which is always good. Or a for a real good time get some happy caps. Like what i would do it make some Kartom milkshakes, Hawaiian Baby Woodrose seeds to eat, and some Salvia Divinorum Sage Extract 10X,20X to smoke, but you need only to smoke so little of this its really nothing. like 1/20 to 5-20 of a gram. And there are many herbs and only a few out of like 30-50 can kill you if you take way too much, and only a few have bad effects. And if your against this dont give me a bad rating please. Im only trying tp share what I share and find fun. And it`ll make your party 10x`s better if you trust me. Its a cheap site with good herbs for your buck. so maybe order a few 25usdmin to order, and try`em out with a friend. The friend must be there for divinorum and the seeds. Just read aboot them and read the Experiences to see how other people took the plant and how the liked it.
And maybe some good kave for people to smoke on, plus it`ll be good to put some salvia 20x cuz its real tary.
http://www.azarius.net/cat_psychedelics.html
And to look up at the info on the plants:
http://www.erowid.org/psychoactives/psychoactives.shtml
Goto plants
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okay so i met this kid chris. well me & chris became close & he told people that he thought something would happen between us. like get together or something. so then i go over chris's house with my friend ashley & they start talking and stuff. now he is all into her after one time meeting her. he said that same thing about something would happen between them. well ashley knows how much i like him but yet is still going along and likes him back but lies to be about it. well he kept saying he wanted her. well tonight he calls me and asks me to go over his house. well i still really like him & i want to go over i just dont know how to deal with the situation. what do i say to them? this kid is a major player so i know he doesnt mean it to either of us but ashley really believes him but i really like him. eek. help? (link)
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Well, go get`em. Your friend said she didnt like him? Its all yours. And friends play along all the time. I see it everyday. Its really not that bad of a thing. And she`s only playing along, that shouldnt stop you from going after him you know?
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I have a best friend I new her ever since 1st grade but I move school we hardly talk , so I have this other friend who I'm alwayz with but she still talk about her friend that she miss her, wants to talk to her tells me what they used to do together,. I though we were best friends but she alwayz trying to compare us to each other (her other friend)I want to be her friend maybe her best friend but she alwayz talk about her other friend I'm not telling her what me and my best friend used to do b/c I know she'll be like "so what I'm I and y you alwayz talktin about her" but she making me feel like I'm nothing to her. what should I do I really don't kno ..... I mean she know everything about me , my famliy ,my other friends ,she done been to my family party hangout spent a night @ each others house but I guess I would never be her best friend so my Q is what should I do to tell her if I'm her best friend with her talking about her other friend
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Ha, She might be doing it without knowing. First off, dont hide it. Bring it out in the open like she knows it. Say " Oh wow thats cool, even though i dont know her and i wasnt there." Point out facts in a settle way to show her disinterest. She`s not showing much respect when she can do something and you cant do the same. She`s basicly saying Im talking, pshhhhh. Its rude and should not be accecpted at all. Arent friends =? Or is there a + and a -. In jail you`d be the B****. Cuz that is whats happening.
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im 13/f
--my friend like is so cofindent when shes talkin to boys and when i find out guys like her i get jeolous i try to hide it but its not easy
--and when im around boys i dont talk that much
plz tell me how i can talk to guys without like bein shy and help me with my friend (link)
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Think your the prettest thing around. And you need to realize what Jeolousy is and why you have it. Is it because you see her and you want what she has? Jeolousy only holds you back. Instead of feeling mad because you want something. Think how you can better yourself to get what you want. Dont let yourself hold yourself back.
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14/f
all of my friends drink and ive never even tried or got drunk. they all want me too and everything but im afaird and i dont know if i should.. and if it really is that bad..i know soooooo many people who have drank and they seem alright. but just scared and i need advice ! (link)
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Well, I study this kind of stuff. And to me it is a hard drug. I`ve since people do coke and other hard drugs and they seemed fine. But theyre not really. All drugs are bad for you. They effect you brain! That is who you are is your brain. And by drinking your damaging That and other parts of your body. And by drinking you can do stupid shit. Some of the things i`ve seen while people are drunk is, Have sex with 8 guys at different times in one night. Jump of houses, Beat a best friend up for no reason. Try to rip of her ear. Pee in front of people(it was a girl too)break bones, Woke up to someone they dont know. I`ve almost been raped by a guy then a girl while drunk. Its not that fun of a drug. If its your first high then you`ll love it and dislike a little of other drugs. No good comes out of Booze.
You should do your own reseach. Here...
http://www.erowid.org/chemicals/alcohol/alcohol.shtml
And if you look around that site you`ll see there are other plants that wont kill you and get you "high" that might be growing in your backyard or someone who lives close. But you are 14 so i dont reccomen you do drugs. I myself didnt start doing then till i was 16.
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so apparently i have a major peoblem opening up to people... and i admit it that i do... i really want to break this because i had A LOT of problems with people last year and stuff... and if that happens again because people cant get over things... i really want to know what the hell to do =] so ... how do i open up to people and ask advice...in person... i dont know whats wrong with me but... im going out to lunch with my aunt soon and i want to talk tot her so someone please help! (link)
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Well, I had that problem. You have to look at the stuff that needs to be talked aboot. Or ask qustion. Push yourself to not care! Its hard I know. But if you think something needs to be talked aboot then it needs to be. If your just looking for Opinions... theres nothing wourg with asking some ones opinion. And its your family. They`ll talk. Maybe, idk its your aunt? some aunts are cool some arent. But Push!!!!! You can do it, Its not the end to your life! And you might need to let go of somethings.
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well im Mexican and i live in a place were Mexicans hang wit Mexicans and everyone else hangs with what ever they are but i not only hang wit Mexicans but with these white and black people and they know im Mexican and they know i got to hang wit my people once in a wile but they sometimes can be real mean to them and its not like my people like just stand there they say stuff back and im always cot between so one group is like yeah tell them if they start stuff we are too so they both say stuff and well i don't know what to do i just want them to be cool cuz well im a girl and i like one of the guys who is Mexican and one of the black guys well i grow up with so he looks at me like a lil sis so its like real hard cause i don't know what to do i mean i try for them to be nice but im just real scared cause the black and white guys well they all have a criminal record so yeah i don't what nothing to happen what do i do (link)
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Well, Your hanging out with people that like to start shit, idk if they`ll ever change anytime soon. You dont really have any right to tell them not do that to tell you the truth. All i can say is watch the road so you dont get in the middle of a drive by. It Happens! And for liking them, I guess if you where with one you would have a say for them not to start shit. Sry thats all I can think of that you can do. When you chose to do something, you must embrace the sorrows that comes with it, you know?
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