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Well, im 5'5 i have brown/blonde curly hair, i love to dance. i have no idea what i want to be when i grow up, hehe. i love giving advice!!!!! iv been threw alot and i love helping people do the right thing ;).

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SORRY THAT IT'S LONG

Today my friend and I were sitting together in the gym and we were getting in our groups for our graduation trip. We promised each other we'd stay in the group together - just us, we actually even needed 2 more people in the group -since about three months ago. Well, we wanted to be in a group with 3 other girls, but you were only allowed four per group, but they made an acception of five if you really had to. My friend and I asked if we could room with them- they said no - two of the three girls like me.

About 5 minutes later.. she gets called over by them. I'm sitting there by myself talking to other people and she "sends a message down" saying that she's gonna stay in their group. Luckily, I found another friend to room with.

Do I have the right to be pretty ticked off, and if she apologizes or not, should I say it was rude?

i think you have to right to be a little mad, but if you take it to far like talking bad about her and stuff, then its not right. If she apologizes just tell her that you where mad and that she left you hanging.... go from there

Lovely.

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My best friend & I have known eachother about a year. We have the best times together, have alot in common and even look alike. The problem is she has some bad qualities. She only talks about her problems and thinks they are worse and bigger than anyone else's. She is extremely sensitive and defensive. When I bring any of this up, she flips on me, thinks I'm wrong and being hurtful. It seems like I can never get a word in about my life at all! How do I get her to listen to me for once, without hurting her feelings?

Next time you are talking, just talk about your problems. When she butts in and starts telling you hers, listen. But instead of discussing what she said, go right back to talking about yourself, totally ignoring what she said before. After a few times she will hopefully get the message. She's supposed to be there for you too.

Lovely.

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I have alot of friends at school/church/cheer. But no one invites me to do stuff with them on the weekends! I spend my time on the computer cus no one invites me over, what should I do?

I used to have the same problem, until i asked one of my friends why..she said she never invited me over because she wastent sure i would say okay. so what i would do is invite some of them over, and get to know them better, im sure they will invite you over next.

Lovely.

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ok so um me and my friend (we are both girls)have sleep overs all the time and when we do she always puts her leg on me and so i would like rub on her leg and she would rub my boob and when i am in the bed i feel good about it but then when i am out of the bed i hate myself for even thinking of stuff like that and during the day i mean i LOVE guys and then when she sleeps over its a whole different story.......so anyways can u help me i dont understand what is wrong with me!

Theres nothing wrong with you and dont be ashamed most girls want to experiment. You might just be curious, or maybe even bi-sexual. Theres nothing wrong with that. you can have feelings for girls and guys, and maybe your friend feels the same way. Think about how your feelings, and maybe even talk about them with someone you trust.

Lovely.

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I have a friend who is heavily into drugs. She isn't doing it to have fun, she is doing it to escape problems in her life. She has had a very difficult life, so it isn't like an emo thing. I am too close to her to help her. I have been through this with her many times. My question is, what can I do to try and get her away from all of the drugs without making her mad at me. Also if there is anything you could suggest, where I could help her, it would be much appreciated. Thank you all so much in advance. This problem has really got me down.

~Nokomis~

Like you said she is having a difficult life there really isent all much you can do or say, tell her parents she might get mad but its better than having a dead friend.

Lovley.

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well.. um heres the problem my frinZ dont get along! well not all of them -one of my best frinz and one of the guys im practicualy goin out w/ dont get along i mean they fight so much its rediculous evrey time their around each other its horriable, but the guy im practicualy going out with called one of my best friend a name and she got mad but she called him a name and he got mad ! what should i do they can*t get along.
please help lilpinkpig

Well, theres uselly not alot you can do but if i where you i would hang out with one at one time and hang out with the other some other time, dont let them be togeth. They obivously dont want to be around eachother.

Lovely.

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there is a new girl in my class and she is taking over my friends. my friends act like they dont want me around anymore.what should i do?

Well, dose this girl know what she is doing?? talk to her maybe she just wants to have friends to, try makeing friends with her. then your friends will see your not jealous?

Lovely.

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Background information: my boyfriend dumped me online 2 months ago, but we stayed friends. My best friend helped convince me that getting revenge was a good idea, and came up with ways of getting revenge.
I just found out that a week before we split, she was talking to someone about how we were on the verge of breaking up.
I didn't know anything about this at the time. However, she knew I was going to be dumped. She knew it would upset me. She knew all along and she convinced me to get revenge.
I feel totally betrayed - what should I do?

Guys can be stupid, sounds like hes not mature enough to have a girl friend.

Talk to your friend, ask her why she did this, if she comes up with a stupid story tell her your feeling about it. What happens happens.

Write me back, i would love to hear what happens!

Lovely.

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