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I have two best friends and now everything is changing between us. We all three have boyfriends. Amy is always like her boyfriend and I never get to hang out with her anymore and when we actually do get to talk it's always about her boyfriend. Andrea, my other best friend is not as bad its just I dont want to lose them. My boyfriend seems to be not interested in me or something. He never calls me to hang out and then always has an excuse. He would rather play videeo games, or cheat on me I guess. (he is known for cheating). But I dont know what to do because if I break up with him then I will be by myself at school with no one to talk to because my friends will be with there boyfriends.
i think you should break up with him if hes like that...you shouldnt stay with him if your only reason is that your worried who youre gonna talk to...make new friends and talk to new people...and your friends will be there for you and will still talk to you if they're good friends but dont stay with him if thats the only reason why...
I have a lot of friends. But I have fights with a lot of them a lot. They don't have a lot of fights with their other friends. I know how to be a friend but still... I am not acting like a good friend and I really need help on that. Also how can I make people like me so I can make more friends? The other thing is how can I determine who is really my true friend and who is not? Please help!
why do you always get in fights?...think about it...is it somthing really worth getting mad over?...it might not be...before you start getting mad and fighting think about the outcome of the fight...will it solve anything or will it just make everything worse?...i know thats not always easy to do but now since you think that its been happening too much maybe you should start thinking about it...if you lessen on the fights maybe more people will start to like you...and on trying to figure out who your real friends are...think of the ones who've been by your side and try to help the situation whenever you fight...the ones who take you for who you are no matter what happens they'll always be by your side...hope i helped and good luck!
ive been friends with lisa sinc freshman year. she moved lasts umemr but we were together like everyday last summer. we chilled a couple times over the year but still remained close. she started going out with this kid. he seemed really nice but he was really creepy. he hit on me and christina (lisas bestfriends) multiple times. hes over in texas right now for training and hes just such an asshole to her, i know he must be nervous but hes so mean. hes parranoid and always calls her names and assumes shes cheating but she doesnt even give any hints that she is. he called my phone over 9 times one night and i didnt answer cuz i dont want to deal with him shit to her. he left a voice mail saying mean stuff about lisa. first off.. no one messes with my friends. they broke up but now shes like talking to him and it just pisses me off. i cant talk to her if she talks to him, he was trying to send me mean messages on myspace, he called me fuckin fat and that hurts, even tho i know im not its still annoying. what can i do, i dont want her to have anything to do with him. oh yeah he told her he had a gf wen they were goin out and she replied"i never even cheated on u " and he goes i was kidden i justw anted to try to get it out of u. i hate him like all her friends hate him
okay so basically...hes a jerk....
why does she even deal with him?! thats so confusing usually girls would just leave'em and like never talk to them again...tell her what you dont like about him and how much its bothering you and everybody else...introduce her to better guys ones that'll acutally treat her right...and respect her friends...nobody deserves to be treated that way especially if she didnt even do anything wrong...hope i helped
Hey advice-giving people! I have this friend who acts like I should be devoted to him and I should have no other friends beside him since I've known him since pre-k. Ok, well, one of my other friends, Jessica, asked me to go to the beach with her and I said sure because well.. the beach ROCKS! But anyways.. We told John Ross (the obsessive friend) not to tell Brittany (our other friend) because we knew it would make her mad at us. Ok, well he went & told her & it made her mad. He's ALWAYS doing stuff like that. How do I tell him to shut the freak up without losing him as a friend?
wow yeah talk about obsessive lol Hmm well try talking to him about how you feel and how it annoys you...also tell him that yes you guys are good friends but that you guys have other friends too and that you cant like, just have ONE friend im sure he has other friends too...well yeah talk to him about it IN a NicE way and hopefully he understands... hope i helped! and good luck!