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hEy Im annie and im 13. Im hEre tO hElp yOu wIth nOrmal teenAge prOblems, Or jUst whAtever yOu neeD advIce wIth.. I've Been thrOugh alOt sO i hOpe i cAn heLp!

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My friend, Lisa, means a lot to me, & we've been through everything together. Recently, I've been drinking a lot, & my life has been all over the place & whatnot. She called me during one of these "intoxicated spells" & we kind of got in a fight about something or another.

I don't even know how to approach appologizing for what I've done, because I barely know WHAT I did. The hardest part is that she seems to want nothing to do with me any longer.

Should I just let her go, or what should I do? Please help.

apologize stop drinking life goes on . . .

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ok there is this really long story about me fighting with my friends. so im not going to talk about it. but i want to know if there is an easy way to forget what happend between me and my friends

they say time heals everything...


hope for the best


annie

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I know this may sound weird, but i'm a girl, and i like hanging out with boys more than I do girls. It just seems that theres always awkward silences and I don't know what to say with girls. With boys, I can just act like myself and whats on my mind around them. Its not that im not friends with girls, i actually do have alot. but its more fun with boys. should I try to hang out with my own sex more or is this ok?? I feel a little weird and different thats all.

be friends with whoever you want to be.

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Okay, well you see, I was really good friends with this one guy. We go to different schools and only see each other occasionally. For a while we were boyfriend/girlfriend, but not offically. We would hold hands and then, one night he just held me, in that way. Then, I didn't see him for a while, and I have recently just seen him. I asked him if he still liked me, (because I knew he did( as in he did in the past)) and he said no. I don't know if I should do anything else, because I still like him, or if I just should let it be, because he initiated our "realtionship" and then he just ended it like that.

tell him that you still have feelings for him. if he knows you do then you might get back together.


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annie

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how do you know if that one friend is that one true "best friend" that will stick with you for life, thru all the bad and good times. i cant really explain what i mean by that one best friend but i think you might be able to get what i mean. thanks

true friends are when they stay with you through anything, if you screw up, they will understand. if you make a huuge mistake and everyone hates you, they should stick with you. and if they dont and say "i never want to be friends again" then they are not your best friend. the saying goes.. " good friend will help you up when you fall down, but a best friend will laugh and trip you again" hope that helps!
xoxo
annie

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hi, one of the friends i hang round with is really moody. my other friend lashed out at her because she was like moody all the time. what can i do to stop her being moody all the time?!

well it seems to me she might be hormonal. PMS sucks big time! theres nothing really you can do about her moody-ness except when its "that time of the month" for her, treat her extra speacial. be nice to her and tell your other friend to do the same thing. hope that helps!
xoxo
annie

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