I have been feeling like I'm ugly,fat, and that nobody likes me. I have a little poll in my profile for AIM and its like Am I Ugly? The Majority said I was pretty but when I looked who picked what Drew(the guy I used to like and hes kinda my friend) said I was Ugly. And My Friend Emmie said I was ugly too....And all of these people that aren't my friends said I was pretty....but anyways after Drew said that I was ugly I have just been feeling really bad about myself....I'm not sure why either because I have realized not to care about what other people think but now I just can't help it...Does anyone have some suggestions on what I should do to help me feel better or might know why I am feeling this way? I rate high and leave comments if your going to say something mean please don't say anything at all!
First of all, It`s totally normal for girls to get like that. Most girls are very self conscious about something or another...you shouldn`t worry so much about what other people think. I used to be like that, and truthfully it made me miserable. After I started just enjoying little things, it made everything so much easier. You only have one life, and if you spend it worrying about what other people think, you're only making yourself feel like crap.
♥Jess
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I was talking to this girl from my class on the phone today and I realized that she is pretty cool and I want to be friends with her. The thing is that she is not very popular and I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, my other friends won't want to hang with me and might diss me. Am I being shallow or stupid? And what should I do?
Its common for people to be like that. But yes, in my opinion that is shallow. If you truly like someone, then it doesn`t matter what other people think. She could turn out to be a really good friend, and you`ll never know unless you befriend her. It`s not stupid at all. It happens to everyone at least once in your school years. Imagine how you would feel if you were in the other girls shoes.
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ok..i really screwed up, i know. heres my story. my BEST friend was going out with this guy for like 4 months, then they broke up for no particular reason, just that it wasnt really working out. but i became sort of friends with him while they were together. all my other friends said during the time they were together that the way he looked at me was as if he liked me and all that. i took no notice because i didnt want my to hurt my friend. once they broke up... and about 2 months later he called me and asked me if he could come over. i said yes. we rented some movies and watched them. then we started fooling around and one thing led to another and we were all over each other and making out! we didnt have sex though. he left and i felt enormous amounts of guilt because i promised myself and my best friend that nothing would ever happen between me and him. i didnt want to tell her but i figured she had a right to know. i asked other people about what to do and almost all of them said that i should tell her. so 4 days later i did. she didnt take it so well. she hasnt talked to me since. she has sent me messages of abuse, turned my other friends against me, wont talk to me about it. i say to her that i will talk when shes ready to talk- she says shes not ready yet..then sends me messages saying that i am avoiding her- i am just giving her the space she needs or wants rather. all i am asking is what should the next step that i take be?? should i confront her to her face and tell her that we are talking about this now whether you like it or not...or just leave it!!?? Please help me! i am really stuck.
well...technically you did mess up. You promised her that nothing would happen between the two of you, which was the only mistake i see here. If he liked you, and you liked him than theres nothing you can do about that. like i said before, you can`t help who you like, you`re not supposed to. If you even remotely had feelings for him in the first place, you should have known something could have happened ya know? theres always that possibility. It sounds to me like shes jealous that he has feelings for you and not her. But if you two are really that good of friends, i would try to make ammends with her. Give her as much time as she needs, but let her know that you truly are genuinely sorry.
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okay well my so called best friend has been ignoring me and talking a bunch of shit and calling me a bitch and everything like that and she's been doing this for like 2 weeks now. and i asked her why she called me a bitch and she started spazzing out about how me and my other friend ditch her all the time but i couldn't have been ditching her because she won't give me the time of day to do that she does this to me every year she can hang out with whoever she wants but when i start to hang out with someone else she gets all pissy about it..i don't know what to do anymore? i rate good/
Its a small world after all i guess. This has happened to me many times. too many times to count. If she was a real friend, then she wouldn`t be trying to keep you all to herself. She`s selfish, and sets double standards. If she can hang out with whoever she wants, than you can too. If she doesn`t like this then shes not a real friend hun, and i`m sure theres plenty of other people out there who's friendship you would enjoy much more.
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gey well my good friend monica likes my ex boyfriend jeremy well jeremmy likes her and i dont want them to go out b/c the thought about my best friend and my ex it hurts okay she has alwaysed liked him and hel iked her to but i am with this guy and i cant get jeremy out of my head we have been broke up for a week now. so anyways how can i not let it bother me see he wants a girlfriend so he can get his mind off me and i am all he thinks about and i told him if you go out with monica it will harder for you to get over me b/c she is my best friend well one of them. see what i really need help on is should i let them go out and if i do will i stop our friendship b/c she knows that i still have feelings for him and she knows it kills me but do you think i can get through it? i mean i know i have a boyfriend and everything but he is 4 yrs older than me and i am 16 and jeremy is 16 monica is 16 so i want him back but if monica goes out with him do i need to break off our friendship? i am so confused plz help
Well, I was in a similar situation. I was friends with this girl and her boyfriend. I met him first, and have liked him since first grade(which was when we met), and just kinda forgot about it because we both moved. I became really good friends with this girl in 10th grade..Then not too long after her and i became friends, they started dating. I was completely happy for both of them because i considered both of them to be my good friends. I kind of hid my feelings because they were happy, and i didn`t want to ruin anything with either of them. Well after they dated for a year, they broke up. Him and I continued to be friends and her and i became extremely close, then slowly fell apart. Currently I am with him and we're 100% happy. SO i guess what i`m trying to say, is that you can`t really help who you like...theres no set rule saying don`t date your friends ex's.(as much as people say its not right) It might hurt, but if you two weren`t meant for each other, why not let a potential relationship develop with them? you never know. All i can say is in the end, if he`s meant to be with you, then it will happen in the end. Only you can decide whether to continue the friendship with her.
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