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My sweet 16 (which also happens 2 b my Golden birthday) is coming up soon! I really wanna have an awesome party this year 4 my bday, except I don't exactly have a cool house 2 party at. Could any1 give me any ideas that I could (hopefully) do @ home? (I'm also willing 2 take ideas that wouldn't b @ my house.)
Thx! (link)
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Well what you could do if you can't have a party at your house is rent a room somewhere...a church, a firehouse, an old school, or something like that...or you could have it outside like in your back yard, or at a pool. You can also hire a dj so you don't have to worry about music...Hope we helped!
.:*Em and xTina*:.
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I'm confused. See, i like this boy named.....S. I think he likes me too cuz he flirts wit me alot, and i kissed him b4. But then my best friend.... M, cums out of nowhere, saying everything S sed to me was a lie. Thats totally impossible, rite? I asked her how does she know all this, she sed she cant tell me. I dont know wat do to. Who's the one that betrayed me? Its just IMPOSSIBLE for eveything to be a lie, but then again she IS my b.e.s.t f.r.i.e.n.d. She wudnt lie to me, wud she? Alotta people who know her better then i do warned me about her, but i didnt listen. So who do i believe?? (link)
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Well there are reasons to not believe them both. Your "best friend" might be trying to get you not to like him because SHE likes him. She could just be lying and making stuff up- that's maybe why people warned you about her. But S could be making it up too. Maybe he's just nervous so he didn't know what to say. You still have to remember that your best friend is your best friend, and you shouldn't get mad over a guy. BUT, would this guy really say all this stuff and not mean it instead of being honest with you? Talk to S about it first, and, depending on what he says, talk to M. Hope we helped! Let us know how it goes!
.:*Em&xTina*:.
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Hello, im 17 years old and i grew up with 3 friends since pre-school. We are soo close. But 2 out of the 3 are racists. I never really cared because they didnt say anything around me. Then i started dating an African-American. And they are saying things about me and my boyfriend. I love them and i have grown up with them but i love my boyfriend ALOT too.. he means alot to me. Now im stuck in the middle between my bestfriends and my boyfriend. What i am i going to do? Thank You.
Sincerely,
stuck so deeply (link)
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You know there's that saying "Boys come and go, but best friends are forever"- well, if you've been friends with these girls for that long, you should have no problem being honest with them. Tell them that it's okay to have opinions, but you make your own decisions and they shouldn't judge you or your boyfriend for that. It's not up to them who you date or what race he is or anything. Do what you want to do... YOU are in control of yourself!
.:*Em&xTina*:.
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Well you see I really honestly don't care for her as a friend anymore. As I said in the previous question, we are no longer friends, and I don't ever want to be her firend again, because I know she will never change, I think she is a bitch. She gets on my damn nerves now. I used to feel sorry for her and want to help her, but you cant help someone who doesnt want to be helped. she would tell me she wanted to stop and then like minutes go get high. I know that she really doesnt want to stop. I think its a shame that something is thought was just "all in fun" is now taking over her life. But, i can no,longer feel any sorrow for her, I think she is just stupid. I don't wanna be her friend. And despite the things she did, and the fact that I no longer like her, I had no problem with my sister hanging with her. I am not the jealous type. But, I just never thought that she would basically encourage my sister to do drugs when she knows that its wrong. I'm just glad that my sister is smart enough to say no. I wanna call her up and tell her " You fuckin little junky, If I ever find out that you are doing drugs around my sister or offering her drugs ever again, so help me god you won't have to worry about the drugs killing you"... thats just how mad I am. Now that you know more about how I feel, what do you think I should say? (link)
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Well obviously you have strong feelings about wanting to call her up and give her a piece of your mind! We totally agree with what you want to say to her... something around those lines would be just about perfect! If she has a problem with it, just tell her that the truth hurts! We all know that anyways... Let us know how it goes!
.:*Em&xTina*:.
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I am 17/f. I had this childhood friend of like 8-9 years. We were best friends, but then we hit a ofrk in the orad and she turned to drugs about a year and a half ago. When I fisrt found out that she did it, I was pissed and told her that she was dumb and shouldnt do it again. She told me she wouldn't, that she was just tryingit so I gave her the benifit of the doubt. Her and I stopped being friends about 6 months ago. She started becoming really selfish,and just always pissing me off. She was telling me she was clean but I know her too well and could tell by how she wasacting that she was lying to me. Now she hangs around with my younger sister who is 16. I just found out the other day, that just as I thought, she is still using. My sister told me she snorts heroin in front of her all the time and that she is getting really bad. She also told me that she offered her soem to try but my she told her no. The fact that she had the nerve to offer my sister drugs really pisses me off. I feel like calling her up and telling her off. I have been debating on doing this for like the past 3 days. I cant seem to stop thinking about it. I understand that she is ruining her life but why would she encourage someone else to do the same? I wanna call her or so bad! I am so mad! I don't know what to do. (link)
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If you're still worried about being this girl's friend, then you need to tell someone. Otherwise, it's not really your concern... All you should worry about is your sister; try to talk to her first, and explain the fact that this girl is a bad influence. If your sister doesn't listen, and still wants to be friends with her, it's probably best to take it to your parents. They ARE the only ones who can control who your sister is friends with. Hope we helped!
.:*Em&xTina*:.
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