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i am a 17 year old female who is a good friend. i like to help people, and i love music. i am very involved in my school, i know a wide variety of things, so i hope to help someone!

Juelz

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ok well there is this girl that i have liked for a long time now but thought she was always " out of my league " well finally i told my best friend that i liked her one day and the next day he went and asked her out well they broke up and now the girl found out about how i liked her and she liked me the whole time too so now we wanna get wit each other but my friend keeps sayin if we do he wont ever talk to me again so im not sure what to do


what would you do???
sorry its so long

hun,

oh, this is a bad situation. my advice to you is to go for the girl. because if your friend is threatening you with not being your freind, then he is not really your friend, or he is jealouse. and jealousy can be an ugly ugly thing. but if you like the girl, go for it.

hope i helped!
rate me and let me know how thigns turn out
and if you need anythign else, juss drop one in my inbox ok?

Juelz

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Hi see I found this really cute guy on the net but he lives far away, and he said he likes me and that we should meet sometime. but see he asked if we could date online, but I don't know bc he might be cheating on me
What do i do , Answer fast so I could give him the answer!!!

i have done this many many many times. online dating is not really dating, or so guyz think. i had this one so obsessed with me, or so he said, but all i have to say is be careful, especially about meeting him. you never know if he is lieing about who he is and where he is and how old he is. if i was you, and trust me, this is good advice, dont date him online, cuz athen you never get to see him, and you really dont even know who he is. and then you think about him all the time, and you come home and spend all your freetime on the computer waiting for him to get online. its a wicked mix to get into. so i suggest that you just be online buddies, but if you do decide to date him,good luck to you

Juelz

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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else?

omg, if you like the guy, it doesnt matter what other people think. i have just recently gotten to the point of i dont care what others think of me, and it is a great feeling. so just go for it. if others make comments, just be like "so what, i dont care!" and eventually they will leave you alone.

Juelz

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I've known this guy for six months, and we fight a lot. But in all honesty, i care about him more than i've ever cared about someone. I told him I never wanted to talk to him again after our last fight (and I really meant it), but it's hurt him a lot. I can't figure out if things would be better if we didn't talk, or kept being friends.

okay, this is a tough situation. does not talking to him hurt you just as much as it hurts him? if so then you guyz are mesnt to be friends at least. being separated from one you care about is tough, believe me. but you have to decide if not being friends os best for both of you. what i might suggest is that you, i know it is cheesy, but do a pro's and con's list for yourself and him. if hte pro's out wiegh the cons, then go and apologize, amybe you guyz cukd try to fight less, who knows, he could be the one fore you, if not, then maybe you need him in your life. i had a similar situation, and we came to the conlusion of we were out in eeach others lives for a purpose, and we dont know what that purpose is, but we know it is there.

i really cant tell you to be friends or not, but i can help you decide. you see, i do not know what your fights are about...maybe you guyz have feelingz that want t osurface, and every time you go to show them, the other gets defensive cuz they are scared, and the fight breaks out. i really hope that i have helped you out, the best thing i can say is good luck and i hope you figure everything out!

~*Juelz*~

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Ok, I have this friend who isn't really nice. Whenever I invite her over she makes my room messy like she is Godzilla or something. Well whenever she invites me to come over she may invite one other person and then I am invisible the rest of the time that other friend of hers is over and she yells at me for nothing blames me on stuff to my parents even though she did whatever and everything is all about her. She is so selfish. What should I do?

if i was you, i would ditch her...she is obviously using you ofr her own sick humor! dont put yourself in that position.

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I have a friend who is kinda in movies and t.v. shows, what gift should I send her.

i would send her something handmade. something that money couldnt buy anywhere! maybe some handmade candles...or a shirt u make urself...or even a cute college of pictures of the two of you. something original. hope i helped!

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