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Hey guys my name is Jessica...I live in the beautiful state of South Carolina. Im 15 years old and i have a pretty normal life/good life. I have great friends (sometimes) and a great family. I've been a cheerleader since i was 3 years old. And im not one of those snotty stuck up cheerleaders like some are around here. Im a nice and caring person. I love to meet new people and help them with their problems. I may not know exactly what you need to know but i can try my best to help. Im a really fun and outgoing person. I like to speak my mind and im a very open minded honest person. You can ask me anything.
xoxoJessxoxo
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Gender: Female
Location: South Carolina
Occupation: school...duh
Age: 15
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i had this convo with my bestfriend and i feel like if my bf knew i said those things with my bestfriend that he would be mad... do you think that i was wrong to talk to my bestfriend like that even if it was joking. (the whole fuck thing is an inside joke with him) btw my bestfriend is a guy.

me: loserface
him: fuck you
me: fuck you better/more! HA!
him: haha
him: got me
me: of course i did
him: fuck you harder/faster
me: ugh. fuck you longer/hotter? haha
him: sounds good.
me: you know it!
him: you dont know nothing about sex.
me: maybe not.
him: haha you dont
me: is that bad?!?!?!?
him: yes
him: duh
him: these days you have to have sex 40 times before your 11
me: haha well i just broke the damn rules
him: oh goodness.
him: to the death pit for you.
me: haha well atleast im a virgin!
me: oooooo!
him: at least im not.
me: well your a bad boy.
him: sex is fun.
me: i bet.
me: and the only reason i dont before i get married is because if i do then ill be completely attached and if i was to break up with the person i did that with or they break up with me it would be bad... like heartbreaking bad... and all and it would end up being the on and off thing because were so attached to each other.... its not for moral reasons... its for....logical reasons.
him: haha yeah
me: i just dont want to be that serious with a guy right now.;
him: yeah i understabd.
him: i forgot you're only 14
me: if i was ready to be that serious with someone it wouldnt bother me to have sex before marriage. but the thing is... if your ready to be that serious with them your pretty much ready to marry them! haha.... so yeah. im sorry im only 14 :( i know i dont act it.
him: yeah you dont
me: well that cant be a bad thing
him: its not.
me: gooood
me: your the best bestfriend ever.

so my questions are:
1)is that wrong?
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No. That is so not wrong. You did the right thing,u stuck to what u belive in. That takes alot of nerve to do what you did. Most girls your age will talk all that and they really dont know anything about it. Girls like that are most likely a "tease" they get the guys up and ready and thinking that the girl will do it and then the girls back down. You did the right thing. Im 15 years old and i wish i could have been like you when i was 14. That was the mature thing to do. Hope this helps!!
*~*Jessica*~*




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