I'm not very into making an elaborate profile. So that's why my profiles nothing :)
Well my names Matt, im 15 live in US. (My now ex) girlfriend always talked about going on advicenators and i thought id check it out and from my feed back i seem good at it =)
So just drop me a question whenever you want I'll answer it to the best of my ability.
I specialize in relationship problems, weather it's your bf/gf, best friend, argue with parents ect..
I'm also pretty knowledgeable about girl issues (ex gf lol) so I can answer those too.
Gender: Male
Location: Ohio
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 27, 2008
Answers: 79
Last Update: September 15, 2009
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My best friend insists i like her crush but i don't!!! I've told her over and over and over again i don't, because i don't. he's not cute at all or anything! I'm barely even friends with him, we're like acquaintances if anything! She doesn't even believe me though. ugh. so what do i tell her, or what do i do, to get her to believe me?! (link)
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Tell her that you are her best friend and have always been there for her. She has no reason not to trust you. Tell her that you barely know him and don't even talk to him so you couldn't like him.
Also help her with dating him. Encourage her to talk to him more, so not only will she get her crush it will prove you don't like him and all is good.
Hope it Helped
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~InsaneChildz~
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OK so my brother like's most of my friend's most of his gf has been my friend's but most of them i hooked him up with,just cause i was bored but now he starting to like more and they don't like him we always make fun of him,but what i wanna no if it is okay if my brother goes out with my friend's he is in the 10th grade now and is 15 and me and my or 13 (link)
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In my personal opinion i wouldn't do it, but it's up to you. I think you shouldn't hook him up but if he really likes them that much to get to know them (without your help) and they like him back then i say it's ok. But at 15 guy's hormones are raging so beware for your friends
Hope it helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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So please dont judge me thanks. SO i got drunk one day and offered my girlfriend sex. And she refused so I kinda forced fucked her. Then I was so drunk and she passed out halfway through it i put her in my car and dropped her off at a cemitary. Now she wont talk to me. And I feel horrible. How can I make it up too her and let her know I love her and didnt mean it i was only drunk? Thanks (link)
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woah thats pretty bad. I don't think i have an apology in my arsenal for that.
She was already traumatized by the abortion and didn't want sex and the cemetery thing problly woulda but her over the edge.
I think the only thing to do is let her know how much you love her and just keep saying sorry. And problly just give her some time alone. tell her you'll be waiting for her whenever she decides to come back
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Sorry man. But Im the guy whose girl got an abortion. Shes been acting like really distant from me latly. I dont know what to do. What do you think? (link)
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How she problly sees it as that she had a living thing inside her and she killed it. She might be having regrets, or extreme sadness. I wouldn't talk about sex for a while and i would talk to her and tell her that your here for her and if she needs to talk to anyone she can talk to you about ANYTHING. Let her release all her emotions onto you.
Tell her that it's ok and you will help her through it.
~InsaneChildz~
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Hi. Im the same girl that asked a question about bra sizes, and something messed just happened.
I just got back from a pool party with a couple of my friends. And My bes guy friend Steven TOOK MY TOP OFF!
He just completely untied it when we were playing chicken. How was I saposed to react besides screaming and practicly punching Steven in the face. He took it as some huge joke too.
Everyone said to lighten up, because it's not the big of a deal... But it is! This random ten year old saw my boobs. Now im not trying to denie that this probably isnt the first pair he's seen but I could so live without knowing Hes seen mine. Its called Porn.
I dont know why he doesnt care. He said that I wasnt the only girl with big 'TITS' --who says that anyway and I was like fine then go get another girl that will let you do that and leave me the hell alone.
And he know whats to be friends again.
You said you were a guy.. would you do this to someone if you were just friends with them. And knew how self consious she is about this? Just for a couple laughs? I dont know how to get it thru his head that U dont do that.
I also think Adam took a picture.
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Sounds like you got screwed over. I think you acted perfectly fine. I know if i did that to any of my "just friends" they would be mad (especially if they were self conscious)
And they would probably kill me if someone took a picture.
So first off i think your reaction was fine.
Second tell him what he did was NOT ok, no matter how funny or ok he and his friends thought it was, it wasn't ok to you and thats all that matters.
Tell him if he thinks it's so funny then go find some girl who thinks it's as funny.
If he wants to be friends then tell him he needs to apologize. And to understand he can't do that to you anymore because your self conscious.
And if he refuses then maybe he isn't the guy you thought he was and maybe to move on and don't be friends anymore. Find someone who respects you enough not to do that
Hope it helped
Tell me how it goes
~InsaneChildz~
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Haha nice good for your friends.
If you needed revenge i would have suggested pantsing him after he comes outta the pool ;)
Well i am glad it got resolved.
And ask me as many questions as you want ill be here to help :)
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We broke up after dating for about 3 weeks. Before then we had known each other for about 6 months and we talked to each other about everything, he was pretty much my best friend. Right after we broke up, we didn't talk for awhile and I missed him a lot but I thought I would get over it. Then he started texting me again and we were getting back to being friends, and it wasn't so awkward... until he told me he wanted me back. But a couple weeks after I turned him down (reason being I have a new bf), he started telling me about this other girl that he wants to ask out, and he wants me to help him "get it to flow". So... he asked me if I would go on a double date with bf with them. Do you think he's really moved on and that this would be a safe move? Or should I turn him down again incase he's still not over me? (link)
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I think that you should go for it.
As long as your over him then even if hes not over you, your in a group setting it's not like he can make a move while hes trying to get another girl/your with your boyfriend.
If somehow he does get a move in there towards you then tell him no and that if he can't just be friends then you can't hang out with him.
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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Basic Question: I'm in love with my best friend who is a guy, should I tell him?
Details: Okay, so this year I had my first "guy friend" and he is really nice and we talk on the phone all the time.I moved away and so now we talk on the phone even more.I really like him as more than a friend and he is my first crush i have liked for more that looks it being he's not hte most beautiful guy, he's kinda a nerd but that is beyond the point. For a while he was going out with this one girl so I had to pretend completely not to like him. Now they have broken up it's been about a month and from what he is telling me it wasn't a very dramatic break up. I really want to tell him and but I'm horrid nervous it will ruin out friendship.I'm just not sure if i should tell him i like him. Should I? What are some ways I could tell him casually. (link)
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Well seeing as that you said you moved away would you have moved so far a realationship would be impossible? If so I don't think you should tell him because it would make it a bit akward when you talk.
But, if you only moved like 10-20 min away from your orignal house then thats a different story.
In my personal opnion i don't think you should tell him just for the fact that alot of times when best friends go out, and when they break up they stop becoming friends. Or you both still want to be friends and its always akward when your around eachother.
Friends will be forever, but most realationships will only be there for a few years.
Well hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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I haven't really 'fit in' since the 6th grade when I was a cheerleader and hung out with their crowd.
Ever since then, I've had one or two friends.For the most part I'm just a helping hand when a random person needs it.
I just need a little advice as to finding a group or a few more friends to have a good time with. I'm in several clubs and sports teams, but I always seem to be the odd one out. (link)
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Ive felt that way pretty much my whole life. Ive had only a few good friends i hang out with. And everyone else pretty much ignores me.
But just be yourself try to get to know some of the people in cheerleading and try to hang out with the friends you do have, and get to know there other friends.
Don't worry if your not in a group though. Its better to have 1 or 2 true friends then 20 friends who don't care about you.
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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