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my friend just told me that she has cut her wrist twice in the past week and she has tried to make herself throwup. She keeps telling me how she wants to die, and when I confront her about it she says how she would never do that, but how am I supposed to believe her? I care a lot about her, probably more than my own life, but I don't want anything to happen to her and it be my fault that I didn't tell anyone. I'm the only one she trusted to tell this to, and I really don't know if I can keep my promise not to tell anyone. Shouldn't I keep my promise to her though? We are all going to be juniors in high school, and I thought this was going to be a great year for us, but now I just want my friend to stop hurting herself. Please help me out, I don't know what to do to help her. (link)
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Personally i think you should tell someone it's like she's trying to warn you she'll hurt her self think about it this way,what is she commits suicide (hope to god she doesn't ) or she gets her self into trouble wouldn't you feel guilty for not telling someone ? especially when you knew that you could've done something to stop her from hurting someone i think stuff like that should be taken seriously she may not be your friend,but sooner or alter she'll realise why you did it and she'll thank you [:
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Where can I sign up to be a penpal? I want a penpal from a different country (English speaking though) so we can talk about how the countries and customs are different. I am in the United States. Is there a website for this sort of thing? I don't have access to a bank account or anything either so it would have to be free... (link)
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I tried to find a few websites for you.
http://au.youth.yahoo.com/b/totalgirl/10125/international-pen-pals
http://www.penpalsnow.com/
http://penpalsjpg.com/
http://www.penpalnet.com/
http://www.penpalspoint.com/
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17/f, my best friend is kind of a slut. like last year, she was all prude & stuff, and if i ever mentioned what i did, she would be like.. "That's so bad, you're going to burn in hell!" & i'd just kind of laugh, and it was whatever. well anyway, all of a sudden this year, she just turned kind of slutty. like.. her & this boy have been on and off dating since last year. they are really close, and he is the sweetest boy ever. well, anyway, she went and she cheated on him & fooled around with this other random guy, who she didn't really know, & they ended up dating, and she dated the really nice sweet boy too. well, i told her how she really shouldn't do that, and all her friends were pissed too, because they are good friends with him as well, well, finally one girl told the boy about it. & he forgave her.. well, she went on vacation, and she cheated on him with like these 25-30 year old guys. & she did all this stuff with them. & wherever i go with her, she has to flirt with every guy we come in contact with. it's not fair to the boy she has been serious with. i try to say little things to her like.. "well, what about james, don't you like him? why do you keep doing this stuff?" & she'll be like "i don't know" & she gets jealous when he hangs out with other girls, and hes only hanging out with them, because he wants help buying her stuff! & i want to try to like tell her to stop, because it is wrong. but i don't want to be like "you're a slut, stop it." & it just gets really annoying, because she always tell me how i'm bad because i smoke & drink! but at least i don't do what she does. what can i say to her? like shes a good friend of mine, and i don't want her to get herpes or something.. :/ (link)
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Good friend ? really she tells you how bad you are but doesn't speak about her self yeah "good friend" ? If i were you i'd tell that boy he shouldn't be wasting his time on her nor his money ? pretty selfish imagin you were that boy how would you like it ? besides even if you were too loose her you wouldn't be loosing anything she'd be loosing you and besides what comes around goes around if you want,you can also warn her that you're gonna tell him or she does it ! don't let her get her way all the time.
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