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ok, i dont know exactly how to get a reputaion of sum kind in 6th grade. I have a popular friend that i dont usualy hang out with. should i start hanging out with her in order to get kool. or not?

NO! definitely not! dont ever hang out with someone to get popular or "cool" that's very "uncool" hang out with your usual friends. you dont need a reputation.. there is plenty of time for that in highschool

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ok this is wicked embarassing but im a 14 year old boy and im not alot like my friends. i get scared wicked easily. i hate it! i hav panick attax wen im outside in the dark.after i saw the movie The Village(which sucked) i couldnt get those creatures out of my head and ive had a hard time sleeping ever since. wen me and my friend saw it i kept grabbing the arms on the seat(not his arms of course} and he kept asking me if i was feeling ok and he sed that my face was all white and harfly ever blinked. i just wanna no how i can stop being afraid so that wen i c a scary movie w/ a girl im not the one huddled up againstt her

either dont watch scary movies or just dont pay attention when you are watching them
and remember that they are totally a joke and nothing is real at all.. good luck

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I have a problem with opening up to my friends. I've been a big flirt for like my whole life! I even won biggest flirt at my middle school. But I havent really DONE anything if you know what I mean. Like I kissed but didnt make out. ANYWAYS i have two best friends and they havent done that either! But I have a secret. I actually have gone farther than that a couple times... I'm not comfortable telling them about it because they asked me what happened when "john" came over to my house and I told them NOTHING! so then they would know I lied to them. I dont want any answers saying something like "be honest cuz thats the best" blah blah blah!
I just dont know what to do....

dont tell them .. its perfectly fine.. they wont figure it out and you dont need to tell the whole world about something you would like to keep to yourself.

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my friend who i was REALLY close to now has a bf so obviously they do "things" together and stuff and i know she's been drunk b4 and stuff like that and i haven't and it just feels to me that we aren't as close because it's not as fun for her to tell me things anymore since i can't relate and i don't kno how to make things the way they used to be

The best thing is probably to sit her down and have a talk with her. Tell her what you feel. tell her everything & dont hold back.. (if you think this is a friendship worth saving)

because.. this may have also happened by fate.. maybeyou and your "best friend" are different and shoudldnt be best friends .. maybe you have another friend that you should be hanging out with nd havin fun without drinking.. think about it!
hope i helped..

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my BEST friend knows that i like this guy even though ik he probably doesnt like me and that he is a grade younger than me, but to me that doesnt matter. just a couple of days ago the guy i like i think is starting to liek my BEST friend and i think she likes him too and she knows that i like him alot! and he said that he wants to go out with her and she wants to go out with him, what should i do or tell her?

- Sad N Confused

i have had that experience before.. yeah it sucks.. i know you are thinking you should be a good friend and you wanna see her happy and let her go out with himm.. but you know what.. you have feelings too. you either need to tell her that you like that boy too and you would like it if she didnt go out with him .. or she should just know that .. if she doesnt.. she isnt a good friend and you shouldnt waste your time.

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