i've had a best friends named jill since i was four (13 now)and she is now 15 (2 years apart) and since i was 11 shes been changing! shes a diff. now and she acts diff.(she makes me wanna roll my eyes,which i never do!,only when im really upset) on the computer.but when im with her shes the same as shes always been and hasnt changed at all!when im with her and her friends she acts diff from both of the two! ugh i just hate how she got into saying "do these match?" and "im LIKE still here" she was never like that :(.i still wanna be her friend but how can i deal with the change?
Well a big part of how she changed is her age, since she's older than you she had more friends that are changing her. Friends always change, for the good or for the bad.You should sit her down & tell her that you feel like she is changing on you.. it's the best way to make her understand.
xo Erikanne ♥
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i had some drama within my group of friends. me and my 2 bffls told some of our other friends how it annoyed us that they always talk about their amazing sleepovers infront of us and we're never invited. They all hate me now, and they really dislike my 2 friends, but since i did most of the talking, they especially hate me. They said some really mean stuff about me and even said they "never liked me." i know i shouldn't care about girls who pretended to be my friends for 3 years, but it really makes me so mad! i have friends on my side too, but i feel so crummy about the things that said about me, calling me a b*tch and a hoe and annoying and stuck up. what should i do? i'm so mad at them!!!
15/f
You should sit them down & ask them why they are acting like this, friends you have been with for 3 yrs shouldn't act like that... maybe there jelous of your friends.... if that doesn't work forget them because the friends who you have now are your real friends so rember that.
xo Erikanne ♥
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my friends are inviting me to a sleepover but my mom would not let me sleepover how can i convince her
ok i know what ya mean i go through this all the time =). You should have her meet your friend in person or on the phone to see that everything is gonna be fine (( just tell your friend to sayy all the right things lol)), or you could have your mom meet her mom. I'm sure it will work out & you can convince your mom that you are old enough & going to be fine.
xo Erikanne ♥
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i've been feeling sad for a couple of months now because i felt that my bestfriends are drifting away. then yesterday, i was with my friends at a school basketball game and my bestfriend got mad at me out of nowhere. then i started thinking like always, but i started crying. i pulled one of my friends to the bathroom with me and stayed in there. then my friends and my bestfriend started coming in and they told me to come out. i came out, but my bestfriend started ignoring me. we went back to the game, but i couldn't stop crying. my bestfriend hasn't talked to me ever since and i think that she thinks it's her fault. i slept for 13 hours but i still feel tired and i've been crying for no reason. i have no energy to eat. what's up with me? what should i say to my bestfriend?
wow well it deff. seems that you need your bestfriend so talk to here about it. Hang out more. Ask her why she is acting like this... maybe that will help you. You don't want to loose a best friend over nothing =).
xoxo Erikanne
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