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Q: okay well my best friend is turning into a big pain. she always says that she's better than me and makes me feel bad and everything. she drinks a lot and has sex and everything she shouldn't be at 15. she always talks about sex and she says im a stink at parties, but she's never been to a party with me. she thinks that im stuck up because im still a virgin. what should i do? please answer. 5's for those serious people
Well first of all a true friend wouldnt pressure you into doing something you don't want to do and i'm sorry you probably didnt want to hear that. ALso I used to have a friend like this and she was into sex and guys and drugs, everything. We were so close and then I started to realize that I was getting into trouble and it didn't seem like she cared at all. Now this girl is at a school for people that can not behave in a regular school and she has been caught by a police officer drunk and high. Luckily we were not friends anymore, so I was not with her. My advice to you would be to try talk to her about everything she does and how you don't want to di all this, and if that doesn't work maybe you should spend some time away from her. Hope I helped and good luck!
*Elizabeth*

Q: hey I'm nearly fifteen, attend a really preppy all girls highschool in dc, and recently ive noticed i just cant talk to guys. like im not afraid of them or nervous around them, i just cant carry on a convo because like i barely know them and we have nothing in common to talk about. ahhh! and it sucks cuz theres this one guy i like but whenever I'm with him its incredibly awkward because we don't talk! help?
When I first started dating guys and hanging around them I was really nervous too. The way I became less nervous is to just hang-out with them. Even if you don't like the guys you hang-out with it will get you more and more used to them. To be honest it isn't as hard as you think it is. Once you hang-out with guys it's almost like hanging-out with you'r girlfriends. Hope I was helpful :) *Elizabeth*

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DizzyMizzLizzie8
Well I am 14 and in 9th grade in Vermont. I love to just sit and talk to my friends and help them with their problems the best that I can. Whatever the problem is i'm here to help! :)

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