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E-mail: br0kenximage@msn.com
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Location: Massachusetts
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Age: 15
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Member Since: December 30, 2004
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ok theres this one kid i have known for about 3 months and i think he is really cool and i have liked him for awhile... well my best friend has only known him for a month and went out with him... and like i really liked him the whole time but wanted her happy but she broke up with him bc she didnt like him all that much and now me n him want to get together but iono what she will say... should i talk to her bout it or just tell her i like him n i am prolly gonna hook up with him? some one plz help me
Thanks so much Love alwayz
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Talk with her and ask her how she would feel if you hooked up with him. If it will hurt her then maybe its not the best thing to do. Take things slow. Work through everything and make sure everyone is happy.


Ok, I have this friend that I have gone out with twice. We always hang out. He is my best friend, and I can tell him anything, and he can tell me anything, as well, or at least it seems this way. We act the same as we do when we're going out, just less affectionate. I have heard from several people that he still likes me, as juvenile as that sounds. They say that he is afraid to 'make me sad again' because he has broken up with me both times we went out, and I was sad about it both times. I feel depressed when I am not around him; being with him, whether we are going out or not, just feels right. I'm afraid to tell him that I like him, because I am afraid of him not liking me back. This sounds like a classic, doesn't it? But really, I don't know what to do... I'm just a stupid girl. (link)
First of all, you are not stupid. No one is. You should just be honest with him and tell him your true feelings. If it feels right when you're with him then it probably is. If it is meant to be you will end up going back out. Take a chance, there's nothing to lose. Hope it works out!


I am thirteen years old and in the 8th grade. I am quite shy around new people and do not make friends easily. What is a good way to get over my shyness and make friends easily? Also, where is a good place to make friends? (link)
Well, When I was in elementry school and wanted to make a friend I used to pretend that I needed help with something. And if I didn't know something I would ask the person what the answer was. haha. yeah, I know..kind of lame. But, it worked for me. Try it, hopefully you will make a friend.


heyy ok.. one of my bestfriends has this secret and she only told me and my other bestfriend but she told us not to tell our other bestfriend (all four of us are bestfriends) but anyway.. i told that person n i kno i shouldnt have but it was too hard not to. We also fight alot.. we say really mean things to eachother and hit eachother as a joke.. but do u think thats a good friendship? Let me know wat u think! thanks a bunch! (link)
Well, If you can't trust each other then no. All relationships are based on trust and honesty. However, like my friendship with one of my best friends, we also get into fights. But, we know that they only make our friendship stronger. Its really not for me to say whether you guys have a good friendship. If you are truly happy with them as your friends then it probably is a good friendship. But, its up to you to decide. Good luck!




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