I really like one of my guy friends. A LOT LOT LOT LOT. Today, I was talking with him on the phone and I told him I liked him and it turns out he likes me to. Well, then he asked me like on a scale of 1-10 how much so I told him and he said he only liked me like a 7. Then he said he liked my bestfriend also, but only like a 3 since they just met a few days ago. I was a little sad to hear this but I shrugged it off because he said he liked me more. I was all happy and then he had to go eat dinner so I called my best friend to tell her the exciting news. She was like "oh that's great i'm so happy for you too! I'm glad you're finally moving on from so and so!".((I had a recent nasty breakup that left me crushed for a while)). Anyway, then this guy calls me back and so I join us all so it's on multiparty. They kept talking. Then he told her he liked her. She's the type of girl that falls in love with any guy that says something nice about her or likes her. So they started flirting while I sat there, not even having to talk. They both just forgot I was there. Later, I went onto Myspace and they were on. I message my guy friend and he read it but didn't reply. So then my friend messaged me and asked me to switch something around on her profile, since we have each other's password and stuff. She told me not to go into her inbox. Naturally, I did, and I regret that very much. She had been talking to my crush after they both hung up and he told her that he lied and he actually liked her much more then what he told me. I kept reading these messages and apparently she has a secret bf she doesn't tell me about. Then he asks her if he asked her out what would she say and she says "yes". I am really crushed and balling my eyes out right now. She only met him a few days ago and i've known him since forever. He was like "what's wrong" and I can't tell either of them because I snooped and I shouldn't have been in the first place! I feel like an idiot for believing either of them, and I really don't trust them right now. I know i'm probably just being dramatic, but I don't know how to deal. Please help, what should I do?
!? are you serious!?
your friend has been hiding things from you, and apparently if she told you not to go in her inbox, then she KNEW that it was wrong.
I think your should go straight up and tell her.
Dont be ashamed of going in her mail.
SHE should be ashamed for liking the guy that youve had your eyes on.
... im getting frusterated with this because this has happen to me before too. haha.and i totally know how it feels like.
SO yeah. Confront her about it.
And maybe confront the guy that you like about it too.
He totally led you on...
Tell them the truth, and once you tell them you found out; it will be a smack in the face for both of them.
And .. wait. doesnt your friend have a bf?
Why would she say "yes" if he asked her out..?
Anyways
i hope i helped bud.
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My closest friend that I have in school, Maddie is the laziest person I know! I wouldn't call her my best friend because we never hang out on the weekends and do stuff like that, but I'm comfortable enough to tell her who I like and stuff and we talk on the phone. Anyway, she never does things herself. She ALWAYS asks me to go in the lunch line with her, get her a chair to sit on (which is literally 2 feet away), throw out her trash, get her bag, ect. And I used to do all that. Then, yesterday I decided to say no because I'm sick of her using me. She asked me to get in the lunch line with her, I said, "No, it takes two seconds." Then, she blamed me because she couldn't eat because she had no food. (rolls eyes) For the rest of lunch, I didn't talk to her, but then she used my friend Charlie to buy her a water bottle, and she's not even friends with him. That really pissed me off. At the end of lunch, she asked me to get her bag which was 5 inches away from her. I told her to get it herself and she was like, "I can't reach it because of the bar." Then I just rolled my eyes at her and she got it herself. "Like it took that much effort," I said. Anyway, I don't really want to be friends anymore because she uses me to do stuff for her and for her own security. She doesn't actually hang around me because she likes who I am. How do I ditch her? It's hard because like I said, she's one of my closest friends in school.
easy.
tell her what you just told us.
That you feel like you get used.
And you dont want to be her slave anymore.
its good that you stuck up for yourself.
tell her and see if she changes, then if she doesnt then you decide if you want a friend demands for you to do things.
I hope I helped!
-Speakfreely.
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15/f
i just started highschool, and me and my best friend arnt in any classes together. and she hardly calls me. i always have to call her, and she always tells me she has to go. usually she always called me.
what should i do?
I had the sammmee problem. Just tell her that you guys need to talk more and wait and see if she calls you. If she doesnt be like " call me sometime! we should hang out!" and if she still doesnt, shes not a really good friend. Trust me, i know how you feel. Same thing happened to me. Tell her about it.
I hope I helped!
-Speakfreely
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okay me and my friends were playing truth or dare i dare my friend to kiss my guy friend and they did but everything was going good but i had to kiss this guy named james, he always flirt with me and stuff and my friends thinks he likes me and we were good friends too and we kissed and after that dont talk to eachother anymore after the kiss what do you think whats happening? we just look at eachother when we see eachother
Hes probably taking all this seriously, since he likes you. Just go and talk to him and dont even mention it or it might make him uncomfortable. Just play everything cool like nothing happened. But then again, nothing did.. it was only a game. he'll soon find that out after you guys talk for a while and put everything back to normal.
I hope I helped!
-Speakfreely
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Well i have a problem im to nice i guess like when someone calls me a slut i get upset easily if someones says im ugly or calls me a bitch or anything i get upset and i cant have a fight with someone cause im too scared im 15/f by the way and when i see someone upset i get upset when i see someone ina fight i cry when someone tells me off i cant stand up to myself and i just start crying i need help :( please any advice that i can become a little bit tougher =[
Anything will do ?
xoxo
Thanks
heres the best advice wel,, maybe not the best but it will work; just dont care about what other people say about you. If you show that you dont care, they'll see that it has no affect on you. Just be confident . And dont believe anything bad that people say about you. Just be confident and ignore. (:
i hope i helped!
-speakfreely
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For about a year now me and my step sister have not been on the greatest of terms. we used to be really good freinds until middle school came along and she turned in to the snobby prep i couldn't even talk to. I feel like she doesn't treat me as a freind but more like her enemie i think it might be because o f my changes to with freinds and hobbbies we have grown apart i need help on finding out how to make that freindship agian
Start by talking to her alot. Try to show her that you want to be the best of friends agaian. Just show signs, no need to actually tell her. She'll eventually get the idea and might make the effort to talk to you again. And if that doesn't work, then tell her!
I hope I helped!
(:
-Speakfreely
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i have four best friends and all five of us hang out in a group all the time. two of them are guys and two of them are girls. anyway when one of the guys isn't with us my other friends talk about how they think the guy who is gone is gay. (i know for a fact that he isn't because i've done stuff with him and no one knows...) but it really doesn't matter if he is or not i just don't think it's right that they do this. should i tell my guy friend what everyone else is saying about him...or would that just cause trouble?
noo you should sooo tell him. he deserves to know. And no,it wasnt right for your friend to say that. friends dont talk about eachother behind there back.
I hope i Helped!(:
-Speakfreely
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me and my friend double date with these two guys. we have gone once but it was really hard to do. her mom doesnt like me so she couldnt tell her she was going with me. and she also couldnt tell her she was going with guys cause shes wouldnt let her. so i told her to come over and then we'd go without telling her, but recently her mom said she couldnt come over to my house anymore because we went and hung out with this guy whos 16 (were 14) but we didnt do anything with him. her mom is blaming it all on me and she isnt sticking up for me and im kinda of mad about it cause were best friends. anyways, we ended up having to go with her mom but see different movies and met the guys in there theatre. then had to go back out without them. it was stupid and not fun at all. well we want to all get together again, but go eat and do other things.
so i need help with two things.
what can i do about her mom hating me for no reasonable reason (truthfully, im a good kid, and i dont do bad things and most moms know that) and how can we get together with those guys again!
I Hate when moms do this. hahaha
Tell your friend that she has to start confronting her mom that she is old enough to go to the movies with guys and how her mom has to start trusting her. tell her the truth; you dont feel alright with her mom being mad at you for no reason. Be honest. maybe she'll work things out with her mom.
And those guys, gahh thats a hard onee.Uhmm; Try the working out with mom thing first and if that doesn't work, call them! Your on your own with that! sorry! haha, it matters of how strict her mom is, instead of going to the movies or something, try something new where her mom thinks that its going to be just you two.
I hope I helped!
(:
-Speakfreely
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I'm 15 and I'm female
well..I broke up with my last boyfriend on new years and he hasn't be the same so i was wondering what i should do..
he doesnt really talk to me much
my friends tell me he still likes me but
i dont want him to think i like and him and him starting asking me out..but still i want him to know im here but should i talk to him?
or stay quiet?
Yeah, start talking to him.
But if you don't want him to ask you out, piont out that you dont want to be in a relationship "as of now". Soon, he'll know what your trying to say.
I hope I helped!
-speakfreely
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