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Okayme andmy friends B & H and H's friend tj were up at tha ball field right and he took a 4x4 and hit the lil conssions thing and dented it and my nestdoor neightbor aka B's cut buddy fuckin called tha cops on us. Like I wasnt even up there when it happond I had left when he picked up tha 4x4 I was like lets go.But hes been my neighbor 4 ever and everyone is telling him hes doing the right thing.Im so mad at him i spend all day cussing him out and he came up to my door step and treatned me.Tjs in jail and it was H's friend so i dont know if she can ever see me agian because it was like up the street from my house and they ere visting me.Hannahs like my bf thought.My question is should i be mad at R aka my nestdoor neighbor for calling the cops or was he doing the right thing. I love him to death but i just dont know what to do or how to deal. Sorry its so long but i really need help.

well probally not b/c it was really not the right thing to do in the first place, and yet yes, b/c thats alittle harsh to call the cops on you

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I'm 14 and going into high school this school year. I have been friends with this girl lets just call her Liss since...the end of 6th grade. We became best friends ever in 7th grade and then everything with her other friends went downhill from there. They all hate me and some have now threatened to kill me. I'm not scared, that has nothing to do with this but i'm making a point. I thinks he thinks she can't like me anymore cuz this has been going on awhile and she doesn't wanna get into trouble with her other friends when they do the same thing to her as me. COnfusing i know. Lately, she's been making exscuses not to hang out, she adds me in her profile if i ask her cuz thats how her pro works but she takes me out the next day and never puts me back in. I've told her this bothers me and she always makes up some dumbass exscuse like I had to take someone out there wasnt room. And i'm like i'm ur best friend take someone who isnt. I never said that but i sure did think it. The point is...i think her and i are starting to stop being friends and i dont want to. She's a wonderful person and one of my best friends and i don't wanna lose her to the people who she *THINKS* are her friends. They do seriously threaten to beat and kill me and her..but they are cowards and dont even have the guts to look me in the eye. They wont hurt us no matter what they say but i think she might be scared and stop being my friend just cuz of them. Help me..i'm all confused!

okay this is what you should fo u have to grab her andget her away from her "frineds" and talk to her and be like what is going on with you why do your "friends" hate me so much and stuff like that and tell her you don't like it if she hangs out with them b/c they look like trouble or something like that and let them say what they say there only saying that b/c thats the only way they can feel good about themselves, and if they say something just say something that will confuse them and then they will shut up or just compleatly ignor them

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i've never met him in reality before, but over msn we talk like long lost pals, me and him click alot and its amazing how we have so much in common. recently i found out that he actually likes me, but the problem is i dun feel the same way about him! i only treat him like a brother.. i've talked to him about it already, but the problem is how awkward the situation is currently. he isnt really talking much to me anymore and he doesnt initiate, he waits for me to ask first, etc. he wasnt like that before.. i don't know what to do now.. help me please

tell him that ur sorry if you made him feel bad and you still want to be great friends and then give him some space to think

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My friend, lets call her Sarah, is completely obsessed with her ex boyfriend. Ive been trying to tell her forever to try and get over him! Hes been such a jerk to her, and he broke up with her to immpress one of his friends. How low is that? How can i get it through her head that she can do better, and stop wasting her time dwelling on the past?

you have to sit her down and have a little chat with her or you can find another guy how she might like and have her talk with him and she will get over him, or just let there be more time for her to think things through, it will take awhile for her to get over him

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people have been saying me and two bestfriends look so much alike as though we're triplets. lol but we're not the only ones, i was wondering why do bestfriends always look like one another? dressing-wise too. its natural they wanna look like each other rite?

yes it is, b/c i have a bestfriend that we've known so much of each other we even finish eachother sentences and its kinda kreppy but in the end we laugh about it, and we even waer the same cloths on the same day and havw the same hair do, its really funny, but its perfectly normal for that to happen

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i have a classmate who has terrible body odour and we duno how to tell her that she really needs a deodrant or perfume! how can i tell her that shes BO, without hurting her feelings?

well you could just just say hey_____ could you come here for a minet and bring her some where were u can talk privatly and then tell her nicely and tell her ur not trying to hurt her feelings and then she won't be hurt

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Sorry I am thinknig about my life a lot today .. and well my bestest friend i love her to death but i see on like peoples profiles that omg teresa your my bestest friend and i feel like that i'm off duty of being her friend and i always tell her that and she assures me that no youre my bestest bestest bestest friend ever but then i feel like she is repalcing me with everyone else and she is always talknig about her other friends and stuff but sometimes she is prefectly fine like dana omg your like my bestest bestest friend ever but ever since she broke up with her boyfriend now like every guy is her friend and i feel like I'm the old friend getting thrown out .. somehow i don't believe her when she says i'm the most important person in her life ... like we never gety in fights so i dunno if she would cry over me i fel like testing her .. helpppp

this feeling is perfectly normal, alot of times people feel like this b/c ur so use to be around those people all the time, you just have to get use to it , it will feel better after awhile but like if there doing things w/ other friends you should ask them if you can join in w/ them and have fun

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me and my friends have a so called"friend" named jodi.weve known her for like half a year.at first she seemed cool.but then she got really annoying.she started acting like a bytch and only do what she would wanna do.so should we keep talking behind her baq and acing like were her friend.or confront her and tell her we dont wanna be her friend
13/f

you could confront her but you could also tell her that she's being a beotch and that she really think about what she dose

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This girl keeps being mean to me over msn IM (the reason is too long a story to explain) she wont leave me alone. I keep telling her to leave me alone and that I don't want to fight but she wont leave it. What shall I do? We go back to school soon and I'm worried of what she may do to me.

well if she is mean to you like this she might like you but has no way of telling you the way she wants to

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one of my friends can never stay single for more than a week! when i first met her she had this boyfriend then they broke up and in a few days she went out with someone else then they broke up (but she swore she loved him) and then she goes out with another guy the next day. then when they broke up shes already planning to hook up with her friend. ugh! it pisses me off that she can never stay single while all my other friends don't care about guys! how can i explain this to her that she does not always need a boyfriend!!!!!!

you have to bring her some place and sit down and have a conversation and say that it is unheathly to keep breaking up and going back out with the people, and you should tell her peole may think that she's becomeing a slut

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I have a best friend named Amanda, and today at lunch at school she didn't say a word to me so I was like hmm o-well. So I just asked her on aol and here was our conversatoin...

me: Are you mad at me?
Amanda: No, why would I be mad at you?
me: you didn't say anything to me at lunch
Amanda: hmmm yea
me: yea?
Amanda: yea?

Then I told her I had to go...I didn't know what to say...is she mad at me ? What do I do?

maybe she needs some time to think something over or maybe she wants to tell you some thing but she dosen't know how you would react, this is what i would do call her and ask her if she needs to talk to you about something or if theres something wrong

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