sorry if i send you 2 thanks, but idk if my computer goofed or not. but thanks a lot for the advice. it really helped, especially the part about kicking her out of my life. i dont talk to her, and i feel much better. the guys took me out to cheer me up, and just being with my bros helped me forget her. she tried to tell me she was sorry and that she wanted me back, but i told her that i was better off without her and i've been amazing since she's been gone. again, i think my computer goofed, and it doesnt show my other message saying thanks, so i'm typing another one. thanks a lot for your advice, it really helped
you're very welcome. I'm a girl and i do understand how you feel. I don't like girls like that you know everybody has feelings and i have been really mean to my classmates because they were calling me names to hope they would stop and then i realize i should stop because everybody has feeling and i was hurting theirs like they were mine so i stopped. It was hard but i did quit. Have you heard "if you want respect show it first" its a helpful quote and i can relate. Its life and it has so many obstacles you just have to go to the right path and make the right choice. LET GO of the bad stuff in your life that cause you pain and HOLD ON to the good ones.
I love giving advice that i can relate to. If you have any school problems please message me anytime.
Move on with your life and have fun.You only get to live it once !!!!!! :D
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hi im 15/f and he is almost 17/m we have been really good friends for over a year now. we talk about everything who we have liked our bf/gf everything. i have kinda liked him before but i dont think right now is a good time for us to be together since he is like family. recently he has been acting different around me things like rubbing my hand in church or just holding my hand during a play he only does it when i cant really say anything without disrupting everyone which he knows i wont do. after he held my hand he didnt come to church for a while so i didnt see him now he only comes sometimes and when he does he doesnt really make an effort to talk to me anymore. i think we would make a great couple in a few years but right now i just want us to go back to being really close friends. how should i approach him? and how should i act to make him understand i think we should just be friends?
OK so If you have problems at all about your friends or school or other things tell him about it ask him for advice and tell him you really need him and act or really feel down and he will know you need his support right now. Then he will comfort you and give you a really good advice and then you hug him and say these words " Thank you so much (his name) your such a great friend. If he thinks you like him after that you can pretend or actually think you like someone and ask him for advice. He'll know you like someone else and that your taken, but its really going to hurt his feelings :( or if any of them don't work just talk to him about it. If he's really your best guy friend he'll wait for you. I really hope I helped. Good Luck!
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19/f; my best friend is 18/f.
We are in our first year of college, and we both work partime. We are in all the same classes together, which is how we became 'best friends'.
Well, one thing that really bugs me is we never talk about me. Aren't friends suppose to talk about their problems with one another?
She ONLY texts me or calls me when it has something to do with her ex, or the new dude she likes.
When I do have something to tell her, its only talked about for a couple of minutes, and she flips it about herself. NO LIE.
For example, my grandmother is in the hospital, her intestents were twisted together; and I was really upset about it. So I texted and told her and she said, AND I QUOTE.."oh that sucks; so guess who called me today?" and I said who? and she said something about her ex. I swear. 99.9% of the time its all about her, and the 1% if that, is about me.
Another thing is, she cannot take jokes! She can make them, but she cannot take them. Another example, in psychology class she said I was a big drug addict in front of a cop (which isn't true,) so I laughed, and I said "Your such an alcoholic" and she gets so mad and doesn't talk to me for the rest of class. This isn't the first time this has happened. She'll make a joke and when I come back with a joke- she always gets mad. She claims because shes sensitive. I told her after class that I'm tired of her always getting so upset when she makes a joke and I aim one back. It isn't fair becuse I always have to bite my tongue, and I shouldnt because she's my 'best friend'.
And the last thing, WE NEVER HANG OUT, outside of school. When she has free time- she's with other people, and never me. She onlys hangs with me, when she wants to study? But the thing is, we hardly study. She only talks about herself, her ex, or the new guy she likes. Its so annoying, but if I'm honest with her, she gets upset, and that is annoying as well.
So I end up going home, wasting 2 hours of my day with her for nothing, and re-studying. I end up making WAY better test grades than her, and when we compare grades after a test, she gets PISSED. So mad that she almost cries, and she told me today "Don't even talk to me; you make me sick"
Like really? Ugh. Sorry its so long, but i don't know what to do. Is she a true friend?? Should I just stop being friends with her? Should I talk to her, so she can just get upset? What do I do?
I had a same situation. But not as bad. She gets annoying sometimes because she talks about one guy than the other. She takes me out of my sit at lunch(when its already hard to find a good sit)to talk about her bf and crush and stuff. or when i am monitoring. She wants to text when i am busy and stuff like that. But i don't hate her cause she listens to me too. She has more problems and adventure :D. I think you should tell her what you don't like her about her. Like what she does and wat annoys you. To be more fun. if that doesn't work try ignoring her. Don't answer her text messages and when you talk make up an excuse but don't do it everyday like once or twice and than longer. If you know what i mean. (sry if you can't understand.)I really hope this helps
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Ok so today I made I huge discovery! I found out why I am so shy! But I need your help to overcome it. I think the reason is that I want to be who others want me to be, in other words, I want everyone to like me and be my friend. So until I know them well enough, I am shy! This doesn't only effect my friendships but it effects my relationships. I have had three relationships and they all went badly because of me...mostly. I close up and only text them, I get scared to talk to them in real life! Then they get tired of that and they break up with me. I am SUPER DUPER UBER determined to stop that! But how??????? I am sick of sitting around being the shy girl who nobody knows! I mean you can kinda see my personalitly through this right? Am I awesome? Or just annoying?!? IDK! But if I suddenly become out there and outgoing then they will all be like, whoa your weird...you are supposed to be quiet! UGH! Being held down to just the people I know now and my family is boring! How do I become "out there"? ...lol... I don't have good parents so I have NO CLUE what a real good relationship looks like so I need to know that too. Because that is why I hide in a nut whilst in relationships...I think thats it. Thanks for helping me! :D Do you think I have a personality that most people would like? Yea that's it ok now BYE!!! btw I am 13 years old...
I agree with babymoby and mannequin24 ITs not going to be easy to overcome your shyness becaus it take time i think this will help
-Raise your hand in class more often
-most importantly find these special friends that you can hang out with everyday. Don't try to make every like you that's not going to happan. Trust me someone will still hate you i had the same expiriance.
-Join activities dance and sports
-ignore when someone is talking bad about you
-wear something unique. Colorful
-don't hesitate to ask questions to kids or start mini-conversations.
Follow this steps and i grantee you will fit in and BTW don't be mean or too nice people can take advantage of it. Be clever and laugh at silliest jokes. Be funny. P.S> i am thirteen 2
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My friend pricilla is a cool friend but shes a total tomboy and bully shes always hurting me and if i tell her to stop bothering me i know she will kill me or at least give me a black eye i need seriose help.NOW!!
maybe she likes you have you ever thought about that i mean have you watched hey arnold in there there is a girl who is mean and keeps being mean to the guy she likes but she can't tell him that maybe thats how she feel. you can ask her to tell you the truth y she keeps hurting you or you can ask someone closer to her to ask it for you
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i just broke up with my boyfriend last week and he's going around to all of my ex best friends that he broke up with me? im really confused and apparently he is making things up about me? does anyone have an idea of why hes doing this?
I think he just doesn't like to be dumped. I think you dumped him and now he is trying to get revenge seriously what kind of a guy would do that!
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