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ok so... a friend of min got arrested and is on probation. he also has to go to court. i keep on tellin him to tell his g/f but he won't tell her.
should i tell her cuz i'm scared that they will break up when she finds out from some1 else?

Well ask him since he wont tell her if u can tell her. i mean thats pretty serious so if u think its best i would tell her. ok but do wut ur heart tells u to just dont get ur friend mad at u. -Jennifer

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i have a a nice polite boy that is my age bac where i use to live and over the summer i been have ing dreams bout me and him. my main question is am i upsess with him?

I wouldnt say just bcuz ur havin dreams about him ur obessessing over him. maybe u just miss him or like him... its fine -Jennifer

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Hey my friend is spending the night in a couple days and i was wondering what is some fun stuff we can do so we won't get bored fast??any movies or games u would reccomend?????help plz i rate!!!

Hmm... have u heard of Skip-Bo? its real big with all my friends. Its a card game go to like Target and get it, Um... if u still have like fireworks from the 4th of july. idk any games are fun pick something u and ur friend both agree on. -Jennifer

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ok i have a friend and i just found out friday that his step, brother who was 16 died. and i felt really bad and i wanted to call him and just talk to him. and im not sure if its to early to call. like im not sure if i should wait atleast a week to call and see if hes ok. what should i do

Well if i were u i would call now. I mean if ur friend is upset i bet it would make them feel better Knowing that someone called bcuz they were worried and they cared. So i would call but its totally up to u follow ur heart im sure something will happen. -Jennifer

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hey when my friend is on her period and she keeps telling me to do stuff forher and her excuses is always " I am on my perios and i dont feel good" and i cant help but do it for her cause i am just that good of a friend. Should i tell her to do it her damn self or keep on being a good friend?

She needs to do it herself. Being on her period doesnt stop her from from anything. Yeah she may b in a lil pain but that doesnt mean u have to do everything for her. And u need to stand up to her and tell her. She isnt ur boss dont let her push u around.

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Alrite I need some help. Basically here's how it goes. My bestguy friend and me are very very close. We hang out like everyday cause we are practically neighbors. And I've known him 4ever. Alrite so lately I notice that he has been like touching me & my bestfriend alot. Not really sexually just putting his hands on us(if you know what i mean)He has touched me before though on my leg and touched my boob on 'accident'. So whenever he goes to touch me, even if its somethin small I tell him not to put a finger on me. He will always go why, why, how come other guys can touch you? So I just needa know if the problem is like me getting older and beingm more 'touchy' about this kinda thing, him going threw puberty, or he might kinna like me! pLeAsE hElp if yOo caN! thanks ;)

Okay well for 1 no means no and if u tell him not to touch u anymore. He better stop. Hmm.. this is a lil tricky though. See its kinda the same with me... I have this friend at church and he is like my best friend too. We went to Kings Island together and on the way home i fell asleep leaning on him. but when i woke up he had he arm around my waist and was putting his other hand up my shirt... so it was a lil more extreme than u but i understand wut ur going through. Guys just are that way. Your a girl so they wanna touch u and as u get older it gets more extreme. *Jennifer*

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Okay-- there is this kid.. who liked me for about a year now. Every time he's signing off. .he says *iloveyou* an if i dont say it back, he gets all pissed and says stuff liek "Wat you dont love me anymore" so then i feel like i have to. Cuz one time, he cut himself because he heard that i had started to like someone else. hes one of my best friends.. but idont want anything more. And i reallly REALLY dont want to hurt him. .. help.

~ dont wanna *love*

Hmm... your in a really tough spot here. You know that you do love him for being ur friend, its just u dont *lovelove* him. And thats ok. this is not ur fualt, just try and tell him u only love him as a friend nothing more. And for ur friend, if he is cutting himself because of it, he needs to get some help. *Jennifer*

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Well me and my ex boyfriend Kevin just broke up yesterday....well today someone called me and was like you dont know me but i am one of phylicias friends and do you care if her and Kevin go out so i sed no...nut i really do care alot...Phylicia is like my BEST friend in the world and i still like kevin but i dont know? What should i do?

Tell ur friend how you feel, if she is really ur friend she will think about wut she has done and how it doesnt make u feel to great, tell her u still need time to get over Kevin before she does anything. So tell her how u feel. it should go ok. *Good Luck*

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i got my 1st GOOD hicky from my best friend (which is a girl) but we are really close...we were on the way to someones house w/ her and her boyfriend and she was showing me the hickys' that her boyfriend gave her and i was like hey i want a hicky!! and she gave me one...is that wrong for ur best friend to give u a hicky!!??

*I AM NO BI!*

Ok well for 1 if ur friends a girl and she gave u a hicky thats a lil odd. I would be a little nervous. To answer ur ? YES it was wrong to let ur best friend give u a hicky. ok thats sick! I think u should talk to ur friend.. ask her why she would do that. *Good Luck*

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