Hey my homies my name is Jazmine and i am 13-about to be 14 in July so ya. I live in Texas where its hotter than hades so take pity on me... my AC broke im soo hot... but n-e-ways, i am great friends with xMisplacd_heartX , so if i cant help you with your problems maybe she can. Im here for you if your here for me!!! I'm willing to answer most questions as long as theyre not sick or demented. I hope ya'll like my advice... Byze.
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Age: 13
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im about 132 lbs. 13 yrs old and around 5'1". when i wake up every morning i look really thin and good. like in a healthy way. but by the end of the day i look really fat. this happens every single day. i wake up looking good and then i go to bed looking like i gained 10 lbs. i feel like if i try to starve myself ill either stay thin or lose a lot of weight but when ever i try to i just eat like a pig no matter how much i remind myself of the things people have said to me about my being fat. help please. im desperate. thanks
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~sKiNnY fAt GiRl~ (link)
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Okay first thing is first... Dont starve yourself because that will just make you more hungry and dont care about what other people think of you. If you really feel bad about your weight...go on a diet nothing big just more vegetables and fruits...not to many fruits b/c fruits have sugar and sugar turns into fat.But yes diet is the way to go. Look it up on the internet they have all different kinds just dont starveyour self. Hope this helps.
CrzyLatinaChc
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i have this friend. and he is always talking about my boyfriend(in a bad way). i like my friend but i dont like that he is saying stuff about my boyfriend. i told my boyfriend that he was talking about him and he got really mad. i even told my friend that i told my boyfriend what he had been doing, and now HES MAD AT ME! should i say sorry for something i dont think is my fault?
-leah- (link)
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Well...maybe you should've talked to your friend before talking to your boyfriend. That way maybe he wouldnt say bad things and you would have to worry less. I think you should tell your friend that youre partly sorry...just because he shouldnt have been talking about your boyfriend behind his back. But on the other hand like i said before you should've talked to your friend before talking to your boyfriend. Tell him that you just dont want him doing that anymore... I hope this helps.
CrzyLatinaChc
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Ok, I have 2 best friends, Jackie and Mary. Even though they are both my best friends, I think of Jackie as more of a BEST BEST friend, you know? Someone I can call everyday and talk to her. Recently, all 3 of us got in a big fight because of something stupid I got mad at, and Mary and Jackie are growing really close. Now, I CANT call Jackie every day and I CANT talk to her because I feel like we arent even friends anymore and I feel like she doenst like me. I really dont want to lose either one of them as friends, but I dont want Jackie and Mary to become best friends and leave me out. I know Im being really selfish, but I want things back to how they were. I get jealous so easily when Mary does things with Jackie cause its like I want Jackie all to myself. What should I say to them to solve this problem? And how can I get it back to how it was? (link)
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Okay chica, did you ever think that maybe since you spent all your time with Jackie, Mary was left out alot. Maybe you just need to tell both of your friends how you feel and start treating mary with the same respect as you do treat jackie with. Hope this helps.
CrzyLatinaChc
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Ok well me and my best friend both like the same guy!!and like its big time like,so u cant stop liking him.hehe confusing i know.and so like he was saying he wants to "do stuff" with me then he turns around nd says he wants to "do stuff" with her adn tells her not to tell me because he doesnt want to ake me mad.and like we just want him to pick one of us because its getting like jealousy.but if he picks one of us then one of us will get jealous but we want him to soo like hehe whta do we do??????thanks soo much and ya i know its a little confusing! 14/f
p.s. i really really like him! (link)
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Okay well it seems like this guy is a playa. He is trying to get both of you. I would just blow him off. Try to get him off your mind. Chances are since youre only 14 there will be alot of drama with you and your friend and him. I would think you are a lot better off without him.
Hope it works out.
CrzyLatinaChc
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ok..I've known this guy for about 9 months. Ever since i met him, i've liked him a lot. when i told him i had feelings for him, we went out immediately. we were crazy about each other until another kid, *nick* started hanging out with me. i dumped the guy for *nick*, which i knew would be a huge mistake. the other guy was heartbroken, and to be honest i was too. i went out with *nick* for about 2 week then broke up with him because i still had really strong feelings for the other guy. so then me and the other guy went back out with each other for about 2 weeks total and then he broke up with me. He was the first guy i actually cried over. so now hes going out with another girl and i feel like a piece of crap because i still REALLY like him but i dont think he knows it. It's killing me how much i still like him and i've tried so hard to see other guys but NOTHINGS working..I REALLY NEED SOME HELP!! (link)
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Not to be mean but you did it to him 1st so he may just be TRYING to make you jealous. But you never know. Try going out with him but JUST as FRIENDS. Hope i could help.
CrzyLatinaChc
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my best best best friend in the whole world since kindergarten is turning into a big JAP! she has so many fricken juicy hollister abercrombie etc clothes its soo annoying. we'll call her sally. so i'm not the most popular girl in the world but i'm not a complete loser. i'm a little ditzy and crazy and dorky but thats who i am. thats how all my firneds are. she doesnt seem to accept us though. all she cares about is being popular so she doesnt even say hi to us anymore. she doesnt care when we leave, and she follows her rly popular friends around. she doesnt hang out with me and my other friends anymore. its like she doesnt care that we exist. but shes so fun and nice when shes not busy being careful about being popular. i want her to be the same sally she used to be. over last summer, she started changing alot and getting much jappier. i didnt say anything--i didn't think it mattered. it's gone too far now-- what should i do? (link)
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I kinda like that whole JAP word. lol... n-e-ways... it seems like she just wants you to be there for her when its convient for HER... Tell her how you feel and if she doesnt listen maybe your better off without her. Just hang out and be goofy with your friends... thats how i am.
Hope i could help.
CrzyLatinaChc
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I have a friend named Felicia and she's 16/F...all she likes to talk about is beer, boys, parties, people she hates..i don't know..she tries to act like she's all grown up now or whatever...well this morning i wanted to go for a scooter run with my other friend hannah...she was like, "umm no, that's ok i don't wanna smell like sh*t" so hannah and me went for the scooter run anyway..we had tons of fun! we came in and felicia was like "eeww you guys smell get away from me.." and she avoided us the rest of the night..(but at least we had fun! all she did was stay in and watch court tv with the judges and stuff..grrr..it's like she's trying to impress people by acting that she's not 10 anymore..(this is just an example of how she acts *all that* and *grownup*...trust me, there's tons more! she always acts like she's better than us and i really don't know what to do..please help! (link)
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I know you said you can't avoid her but you can. Just ignore all the crap she is saying. Blow her off. Dont talk to her. Give her a taste of her own medicine maybe then she wont be so EVIL. But you also haveto understand she is 16 and there is nothing you can really do about that. Just leave her alone and dont talk to her for a little while. You dont haveto care about what she thinks just because shes older.
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one of my best friends ever is friends w/ my enemy ((lets call her sam))! no one in our skewl likes sam except for my friend because she lies, shes a slut nd a bitch!! its one thing when youre excluded w/ yur bbf! its another when the person who took yur place is your enemy! wut can i do? how can i make her understand? (link)
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This has happened to me just recently except for the whole(no one in our skewl likes sam except for my friend because she lies, shes a slut nd a b!%(# ) part. But I dont really know a way to catch her unless you catch her in the moment of being a total Horr-able person. Im sorry i couldnt be more helpful.
~CrzyLatinaChc~
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