I just- dont know how to make friends.i feel pathetic saying that,but really,its the truth. i have no idea how to start convos,act normal and just have fun and join in. no idea. and everyone seems to be so uncomfortable(sp) around me. i dont think im ugly..and i doubt that even matters. but i was kinda in this group and now im just there,i dont mean anything to them,only 2 i really talk to. its like if i left it wouldnt matter. i dont know how to open up,and i really need help, what can i do so nothing is akward?i really want friends who care. it seems so easy to everyone but me. i just feel like dont belong anywhere. i dont even know how to take the first step,if you've been through this,can you please help? i really appreciat it. i also need advice on being friendly and not makeing things to akward/makeing people feel uncomfortable,i love it when i make people smile,but it barely happens.please help & thanks.
since ive always been a loud girl, not afraid to do anything ive never had this problem. but some of my best friends now were like that to me when we first met. the first thing you have to make sure of is that you dont try too hard to fit in. when ppl think you are pushing yourself on them, they wont want to hang out with you. just be cool and relaxed. if you see a group of girls that maybe are in your classes or in your lunch, be confident and go start a conversation. it can be silly such as did you catch what the math homework was? or something like that. they will answer and it could prob. start a nice conversation. but just because you talked to her/them once doesnt mean it makes you friends right away. just gradually wave hi in the halls or sit together at lunch. again, dont push yourself too quickly on them. good luck. and remember just stay calm and relaxed. oh! and one very important thing. ALWAYS BE YOURSELF. dnt EVER change for a group of people just because they are cool or popular. chances are, if they are not going to accept you for who you are then they arent much of friends. you will find friends that like you for who you are. dnt worry. they will come.
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td on the bus, my one friend jackie was sitting in front of my other friend natalie. i was sitting in the seat next to natalie but then krista moved me in. so, krista told me that like jackie whispered something to natalie about me and she knows for fact it was my name and that it might have been something bad. i dont want to make a big deal out of it since it might not even be true, but this isnt the first time i've heard about them saying rude stuff about me. i dont want to jump to conclusions when it might be a misunderstanding. what should i do?
there is a very simple answer to this. all you all have to do is simply ask if jackie said something about you. im sure they will tell you.
dont fret. if they talk about you like that all the time, maybe they arent really your friends.
good luck=]
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okay. theres this girl hali who lives next door to me. so yeah we get off at the same bus stop. well she doesnt like me very much & i dont like her very much either. well anyway we always have to walk with each other for about 30 seconds. its always totally awkward because i can never think of anything to say. it gets even more awkward when i try & think of something to say & then when i say it she looks at me like im a retard. what can i talk to her about so it wont be so awkward? & dont say anything retarted.
okay, so you guys dont really get along which happens alot to girls and guys. to make it less akward you can maybe say something simple such as "how was your day, or man i have a ton of homework today!" just make it simple and be relaxed so she doesnt think your trying to start a conversation deliberatly verses just talking. you never know. maybe she will open up to you as well. dont be afraid to talk. its always better then walking in silence. good luck=]
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