hi my friend thinks she is pregnant and i dont know what to do or to say to her and she is 1 of my best mates plz help me
Well, you can only say one thing to her. Which is GO GET TESTED. :-D
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ok so i have 2 guy friends. and i like both of them a lot. A LOT, A LOT. and they both like me back, allegedly.
and so i really dunno which one to choose. i like them both equally. and i can see myself staying with both of them a real long time.
so how do i choose which one? cuz both seem pretty upset that i cant choose. and they both no that i like both. and im afraid that they are going to gain up on me one day and be all "choose between us, now!"
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Ok I feelz you girll because I've been put in soooooo many situations like that. So i'm not going to tell you to just pick neither because I can't tell you what to do, it's your decision, but what I can suggest is that you sit them both down one at a time and ask them how they feel about. Then hopefully you can make your decision based on their answers. Hope I helped
keep me updated :-D
-Courtney
Oh also. The guys below me need to shut their faces! Haha they probably never been in a situation like that!. :-D Lame-Osz
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My best friend is so much prettier,smarter,and BETTER than I am. She is so popular she has guys hitting on her ALL THE TIME. She is forever complaining about boys being all flirty with her. I am jealous because she makes the best grades,and she is so beautiful,tall,slim,and such. I'm always jealous of her,and I must show it because she sometimes gets mad at me for it. I get all untalkactive,gloomy,and uncaring when I feel that way, which is so different from my outgoing,active,extrovert,and happy friend. She has the nicest parents,and she has everything.She is friends with everyone. Also,my crush for three years just broke my heart rejecting me by saying, "Eww,gross,not you,you're so ugly and fat." Then,I found out that he liked my best friend. And yes,and I very fat,and I have everyone calling me fat,ugly,and weird,and a horrible singer. I am not confident,and have no self esteem. I'm short, 4 feet nine inches, and much over 132 pounds. I am good at nothing,and get D's and F's. Can anyone help me boost my self-esteem?
Well I can't boost your self esteem because only YOU can do that, but what I can tell you is that 132 pounds isn't really a lot. I weigh at least 140 and i'm more then happy with myself, cause you never kno there's probably some person who WISH they were your weight. So don't be too hard on yourself. Also, don't feel the need to be jealous of her because deep inside she's probably not as confident as she might seem. EVERYONE hides something from the world. Another thing is don't worry about the boys, cause they're only after ONE thing. So what i'm saying is you will find someone who truly likes you for who you are, not what you seem to be. Goodluck and keep me updated please. =)
-Courtney
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Okay, first. I am 17/f. Last October my best friend,lets call her Katie, stated dating this boy, lets call him Mike. Mike is the biggest jerk in the history of the world and he completely hates me for no reason at all. Since she fell head over heels for him we stopped hanging out and talking since then pretty much, not including the fights every once in awhile. Okay well, so. Supposedly they’re completely in love, although he calls her a slut, treats her horribly, and breaks up with her every other week. Last weekend she found out he is moving this weekend halfway across the country. Messed up, right? So, I really want to talk to her and make sure she is okay because supposedly she hasn’t eaten in days and is like totally depressed. I still love her and im really worried about her but she really hurt me when she started ditching me for mike. I want to forgive her and all and help her through this but at the same time I want her to apologize before I forgive her. I am afraid she wont apologize for awhile and when she does it will be too late for me to help her. I don’t know what to do.
Ok what they're telling you is not wrong but I want to add something to it. She probably thought she needed his love to complete herself and yes, he is a bitch for treating her that way, but you shouldn't wait for her to say she's sorry. The reason is what if she thinks that you're through with her and decides that she doesn't have any purpose on this earth. If she takes it to far you will NEVER get a chance to tell her how you felt about it. So I wish you the best of luck hun and just try to make ya'lls friendship work. :)
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