My name is Kendall, and I love giving advice. I have two best friends. Jessica and Bridget! I'm 13 and I love animals!
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ok im best friends with this girl i knew her before but this year we are best friends. but whenever we make plans they'll either change or she'll blow me off! i dont know why! and we've been best friends all year and i have never been inside her house but shes been to mine so many times, and she says its because shes self consicous about it but do you think shes lying? SO my question is... why do you think she is being like this and is she using me?
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She might be using you. Sit down and calmly talk to her about why she blows u off. See if you can get it worked out.
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14/f...my friend told me that she was going away this weekend so i didnt invite her over..bu then i saw her profile on AIM and it said she was at her other friends house..so basically she lied to me and i now i dont know what to do..i am afraid to ask her about it..and i really dont want to..=/ (link)
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Wow! That's weird that she would lie to you like that. Maybe she didn't want to tell you because the friend she was hanging out with, you hated her friend. U really need to tell her about her lying to you, because that is a bad habit in a friendship. Be nice on her though because maybe she had a good reason to lie, maybe to not hurt your feelings. Try to understand that she lied to you, and she might not be the greatest friend.
**Good Luck**
~~Browny4541~~
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Okay my friend likes this guy, but they broke up and he doesnt lik eher at all..so she had a new boyfriend...and i started to like her ex so i told her so she wouldnt be mad at me..but she got mad and we are in a fight now...and then she broke up with her new boyfriend cause i like her ex.. and ithink shes gonna try and get her ex back so i dont have a chance but im not sure...i dont know what to do cause i was only trying to be a good friend by telling her that so she wouldnt have to find out if i like dated him (link)
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It was good that you told her about you liking him, because that IS being a good friend. If she does get back w/ him, then she isn't a very good friend, because SHE had broken up w/ the first guy in the first place! If he dosen't like her at all then don't worry about them getting back together! Because they won't if he has no feelings 4 her!
**GOOD LUCK**
~browny4541~
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I have this friend, and I love her so much!! (sisterly) And we are best friends, well, she just discovered boys and there is one that she really likes. whenever we're together, it's all she talks about and thinks about. all she wants to do is look at pictures of him and talk about him!! I love her so mucha dn i don't wanna lose her. I've tried talking to her, but she'll get all mad at me. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Try to explain to her about the boy, and how you feel when you talk about her. Or just change the subject when she starts gabbing away about him.
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How do you know when it's time to be come "not" bff's with someone? (link)
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Well, if he likes you, then I would go along with it! Be nice, and be sweet. Flirt, and just go with the flow.
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Say I have this friend. We get in fights a lot and I think it's usually my fault. I dont know what to do. Please Help! (link)
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Well you're friend is an ass. Be nice, it's not your fault. It's your friends'.
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