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Hello, im bree. Id like to think im good at giving advice because ive pretty much gone through everything. So if you need any kinda help, i wont judge you. Send your questions my way. :)

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I have a best friend. We are both fifteen and in tenth grade. I am female, he is male. Let me tell you a little bit about us. We met in third grade and have been friends since. Every time I'm sad and I'm talking to him on the phone or something and I tell him I'm upset or he guesses, he plays his guitar for me because he knows I like that. I pack my lunch in school and every day I pack a six pack of cracker, peanut butter and I give them to him because that's his favorite kind. The other day, I was at a benefit concert and there was this cute boy there. Turns out, he's friends with my friend. So I texted my friend and told him he was cute and he texted back "yea, you told me.." and we got to talking about him and after the second time I said that I thought he was cute he said "I don't know what to say to that.." so then we stopped talking and then my friends were like "he's jealous! he so loves you!" and I was just like "nah, he's my buddy." The other day, he did the same thing, he was telling me about this girl that he liked and I didn't know what to say either but I was saying more than he did and I was helping him out and telling him that she's a good person, but she's taken, so I was telling him he kinda needed to forget about her. Last night, my mom and I went to watch Promenade at my school and we were walking out and she said "So, you're going with (my best friend) right?" and I was like "eh, we'll probably both have significant others by then" and she looked at me and said "yes. each other. I see how you smile when he texts you first. I see how you always remember to pack his crackers. I see the way his crappy attitude changes when he's talking to you. I just secretly think, deep down inside of both of you, you two adore each other, but you don't want to ruin your friendship. I also see how whenever his brother makes him think he isn't good enough, you always talk him out of thinking that and make him feel twenty times better. Third grade! Friendships usually don't last that long but look at you guys! Seven years!" The weird thing about all of this is EVERYONE I know thinks we love each other, too. Someone actually said to me "everyone can see you two love each other.. except you two." However, every time someone says something to us about it, we say no, no that's not true. We're both just good friends. No big deal. So! In conclusion, do you think we do "love" each other? and if so, why do we avoid it and push it away every time it is brought up? I know these are questions we should be able to answer ourselves but we're just at a loss. Thanks for any help you give me! ♥

I think you both love each other more than anything, but only you would know what kinda love. Whether you love him as a friend or more is up to you. I think the story between yall is very cute though, and if yall end up together then congrats. That would be love that not many people find.

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so i hve this friend who i like and were friends and i love when we hang out but theres a problem. she has this friend. lets call her "Pillow" and pillow is really annoying and all of my friends cant stand to be around her. so whenever i make plans with my friend..lets call her "blanket" she always at the lastminute is like "ohh btw pillows comming too" and i cant say no. so then all other people who also find pillow annoying get mad at me and it causes this whoe problem. how to do keep blanket as a friend without having to be with pillow?

Pull blanket aside and tell her how you feel in the nicest way you can. She should understand that not everyone in the world can get along. If she takes it the wrong way then just give it time, shell end up coming to her senses if shes rlly a good friend.

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