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Q: My friend is not really bipolar, but she acts like it. One day she will be nice and funny to me and everything will be good then a few days later she acts totally different like doesnt talk to me as much and stuff this happens alot What should I do?
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your friend could be going through a lot, maybe they are moody because of a home situation? or something happened thats killing them inside? you should ask her whats wrong and confront her with mood swings [dont use the term "bipolar" in your confrontation-she could get mad] and tell her your there for her if she wants to talk. then let her decide.
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Q: yesterday me and my friend were supposed to walk home because we would come back at 3:00 from a field trip and the buses usually leave at 2:10. so on our way home from the trip, she was on a seperate bus and i guess and i didnt know about this until later but she asked people to give us rides home and she couldnt get one but then she asked a friend of hers and the friend said she wasnt sure but shell ask. so when we got back to school i went to my locker and then i walked to find her and i saw her with that friend. then igo to her hey are we still walking home and shes like i dont know i might have a ride. so then i got pissed and left and went outside to try and give my mom a call so she can pick me up but she wouldnt answer cause she was at work. then she comes out with the friend and the friend's dad was there and the friend asked if they could give her a ride and i guess the dad would and my friend left with her other friend. i got really mad ..should i even be this mad? i mean she did ditch me and not even ask me if i needed a ride and she knew that my parents werent gonna be home and we already planned on walking home. and we live like across town from the school. but at the end i did find a ride home with a friend.. should i have the right to be mad?
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YESS! you have the right to be mad. what kind of friend leaves you hangin? she left you and saved herself.i dunno what kind of friend that is..but yeah id be pissed..you have MORE then the right to be mad.
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Q: Okay, me and this girl W used to go to the park by my house all the time. Then she gotta boyfriend so yeah. I gotta new friend, V, and we go all the time now. Now there's boys at the park, and one of them told me they all don't like V. And he said why don't I start taking W with me again. I asked why and he said cause they all like her more & she's more fun. Now, I don't know if I'm overreacting but I was so hurt by this. It's like they're using me to get to W. Seriously, now me and W look pretty much the same, both chubby, I'm bigger though. I'm way prettier than her though, I don't care if I sound conceited. I'm just hurt that they like used me as a friend to get me to bring her to see them. Wtf is that. And I told one of them, "If you want W to come to the freaking park so bad, then invite her yourself!" I don't know why I'm so upset, but I really thought they were my friends and liked me for me, but now I'm not so sure. Anyway, what should I do? I mean I basically yelled at one of them so should I like give him the cold shoulder or talk to him like I normally do? Ahhh, please, actually any input on this situation would help. Thanks much!
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gurrl!! you did the right thing i would have like beat the guy up thats horrible and you should give this guy cold sholder!! you goo girrl!!
mucho love
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Q: i gotta cutting problem im 15 and a gurl and a few of my friends are getting mad at me for it. ITs so hard not to cut though like when im cuttin i dont even care cuz im so mad and its gotton really bad. Like im afraid that one of these times im gonna get so madd im gonna end up killing myself cuz its like i just dont care but the next day i really regret doin it. I'v tried everything i could think of to stop but nothing works. SO my question is does anybody know ways to stop cutting
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My friend had the same problem we tried to help her but you cant do it on your own. you need to get real help like from a psychatrist. Yout family and friends should be there to help you 110%!!i really hope you get better!
mucho love
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Q: Okay well I'm 13 and I'm in the 7th grade and I'm worried about my friend. Okay shes pretty much drop-dead gorgeous and could get any guy she wants. Well I mean she's not like a slut or anything (Okay she kissed her ex boyfriend(corey) 4 times he was her first kiss ... and then shes made out with her current boyfriend once. ).
Anyways she has had family problems. She has two little sisters and they get favored and her mom pretty much yells at her 24/7 and ignores her all the time.
Then recently, about 2 weeks ago, she went to her neighbors house(AJ) and Corey was there. Well Corey grabbed her and she was sitting on him ..., hes like really muscular so she couldn't get away, anyways Corey started rubbing her body and then AJ's like on top of her and hes unhooking her bra. She finally got away and ran into the bathroom and Corey comes in and he was all like awwl hilary i'm sorry for being a jerk i'll help you. So Hilary believed him and he ended up unhooking it again. This kept on happening she was there for about 2 hours.
So shes pretty tramatized from that and her mom. Well to make things worse her mom was yelling at her Tuesday night and she wasn't really paying attention because she hates being yelled at. Her dad then asked her if she was paying attention and she was like it's kinda hard not to dad when shes screaming at me. Then her dad comes over and punches her jaw(and her neck cracked).
Now Hilary is one of my bffae and I don't know what to say to her to help her or anything. Please help me on what I can do for this situation to help her out.
Ohh and we were going to call child abuse people if her dad hit her again.
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You need to tell someone. If you guys are such friends you need to tell a school counsilor--it helps to talk about things and this guy corey good get charged with assult. so you should tell the po po (police) on him or he will do it again. trust me, me and your friend can relate.
mucho love
hopee ur friend getss helpp
ps-call child abuse people now, my dad absuses me. and i dunno why i let him. he will do it again--no matter what.
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Q: what should i do if my best friend was pissing me off soo bad... and talking to her isnt working. like she gets madd jealous over myspace and all these other things and i cant take it anymore. my other friend stopped bein friends wit her but i dont wanan do that to her... we were likee best friends.
help
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just be like homie, stop ur shit or ur not ganna be my friend no more!
much love
lils
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hey homie skilets!!
my name is Sammy (my friends call me lila..LONG STORY!)..i LOVE to act:-D and i like helping people..:-D
mucho love
lila
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Gender: Female Age: 14 Member Since: March 29, 2006 Answers: 79 Last Update: October 28, 2006 Visitors: 6226
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