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Well due to some recent screw ups that I've made, I've decided to make an advice column to help those who have made some bad choices, or just plainly put, need help. So, please, feel free to ask whatever's on your mind, hopefully I can not only help you, but learn from what you're going through too. Thanks. -Jordan

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One of my really good friends has been really really depressed ever sence her and her bf broke up. A few days ago she started to cut herself.I am really worried about her. Only me and a few of her friends know that she is doing it. I really want her to stop it because I am scared that she is going to do something she will regret. It hurts me a lot to see her like this. I am in practically the same situation that she is in. I want to help her and we always talk about it. ButI feel like there is not much I can do for her right now but try and always be there for her. What should I do?


Don't tell an adult! If the situation gets worse, then yeah it would be the best but don't do it right now. I've done the same thing ur friend does, and the worst thing would have been for the parents to find out. It probably would have made me do it more. Talk straight to her about it. Friends can get her through it. Take her out, show her a good time and get her mind off of everything depressing. Remind her that cutting isn't always the way to go and it can be serious. By the time she's older and more mature, she'll look back and realise how silly it was to harm yourself over a boy. I don't know what else to say really.. But good luck and if you or her need anymore advice, my screen name and email are on my page. xo-Jor*

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Okay well i recently went out with this guy that i really liked and he dumped me and we have been fighting for a while so yeah we have saying these horrible things to eachother. So yeah today i went back toschool and everyone was saying that he wants to go back out with me so one of my friends asked him if it was true and he said he wanted to talk to me and so I did and he said that he still liked me. So yeah lil did i know he has been going out with a psycho gurl ever since he dumped me. I kinda knew he was but he said that he broke up with her and that he wanted to go out with me and so yeah he has been asking me and so even though i want to its like i dont know and so his girlfriend came up to me today and said why was i tryin to take her man and i said that he told me that he broke up with her and she didnt believe me and so yeah she wanted to fight me and then i said no i wasnt gonna fight because it would have been 3 against 1 and my friends werent even there for me and so i got jumped and now they are very mad and i dont know what to do!!!!!PLZ help!!!!

Okay, first about the boy it seems like he's trying to get you back but doesn't want to go without a girlfriend. The girl he is with is something on the side so that he won't go without a girl. Obviously you matter to him though. Tell him to ditch the psycho chick, or to stop bothering you. About the girls, I know, being about your age, that you most likely do not want to go to an adult about this. But if things get worse, you'll have to. For now, stick around your friends everywhere you go until this things blows over and your ex either stops asking you out or he breaks up with her. Then you have him to help back you up if he tells her how he really feels. It's not your fault that he likes you. :-) Good luck sweetie, get back to me with what happens. If you need anymore help, drop me a line. Good luck and stay safe. -Jor*

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HEY HEY !
Whats up B-rad lol
HEY i have questions...
What is better Xbox OR Ps2 ??
Magazines or Tv ?? (u kno wat i use them for lol)
Money or Girls ??
Me or Pinksi lol ??
Ice or Water ??
Winter or Summer ??
Colins Teeth Or Face lol ??
Britney Spears or Justin M's mom lol ??
Cold or Hot ??
N64 or N64 ??


I have plenty more questions to be posted soon...

O Yeah EVERYONE LISTEN UP
Jordan is the shit but she need to lay off the drugs.... lol jp foo lol
OOO YEA I ALSO LOVE:
LED ZEPPELIN, BLACK SABBATH, FORIEGNER, $$, N64, FRIENDS, CARS, and everything else that is shiny and pretty.....

Lmao!!! U make my advice column hilarious! Thanks.

I dont play video games, they rot your mind and YOUR ARE ADDICTED TO THEM.

Tv u perv!

...Money

I don't know, but you're my friend, so it's your lucky day.

Water.

Summer

uhhh... Oh please.

Hot

And I do not do drugs. Happy i answered now? lol

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Ok so first of all my best friend (we both just started high school a couple months ago) is gorgeous and always gets all the guys... even if they're just friends... she's closer friends with all my guy friends than i am so that really gets on my nerves. It's not my friend that bothers me though because why would i be mad at her for having close friendships, but it's the guys that bother me because they act like i don't even exist. I've kind of gotten used to that, but there is this one thing that's really bugging me. There's this guy who i became friends with at the beginning of the year who was really sweet to me and he was always talking to me and hanging out with me. My best friend didn't know him for a little while, but then she met him and now he's much better friends with her than he is with me. He's actually really mean to me now; he hurts me for no reason, always says mean things to me, and he's just not acting like a good friend. He's one of those people who you want so bad to think they're not worth it anyway towards, but you still want to be really good friends with them because they're good people and fun to be around. So anyways, i think he likes my friend because he's always following her around and he spends more time with her than any other girl. I feel like if he were to ask her out, she would say yes. I don't like him or anything, but i would still feel really weird if they were to go out or even have a little thing going on. I guess i just want things to back to normal with him, where he's still a nice friend to me. What should I do?

Wow.. Well i think you should talk to your friend about the guys. If she's a good friend she'll understand how u feel and back off a little bit. As for the guy, u should talk to him about it too, ask him if he likes her and ask why he's been so mean lately... Hope I helped. --Jordan*

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