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Q: How to convince a girl to sex

You can't force a girl to have sex with you if she doesn't want to.

Q: My friend told me that one of her friends is moving to our school. We have a very small school so we'll most likely have all our periods together. Anyways, my friend described this girl as a "Fighter" and that she's crazy.. To be honest, I'm kind of scared :/ Should I just say nothing when I'm at school? I don't want any trouble.

If your friend introduces you to her friend, just be friendly. As long as you respect her, you should be all set.

Q: I like my friend at school and she doesn't like dating what do i do?

all you have to do is give it time and try to convince her by just being there for her and treating her really good so that she can see & realize that you're a really good guy and that she should be with you.

Q: So, my friend got mad at me the other day. I said I was sorry and she replied back along the terms saying that I wasn't a true friend, and I am. So I gave her a few days to cool off, and I called her today. She didn't answer, so I left her a message. I sent her a text through iMessage, and she didn't reply. I tried facetiming her, but that didn't work. So I called her house phone, and her mom said she didn't want to talk to me. I'm just upset and mad, and even wondering if I should be her friend. So any help here?

Well if you really tried hard enough to talk to her again, then maybe you should just give her some space and wait until she talks to you first. I think she just needs some time to cool off.

Q: My best friend is visiting me for two weeks and I'm not sure what we should do. We are both 12 and won't have very easy access to transportation. What could we do?

well, since your friend is going to stay with you for 2 weeks then you need to make it extremely fun because 2 weeks is a long time. You guys can have a fun sleepover and play games, listen to music, go on the internet, take pictures and stuff like that...best of luck !

Q: Me and my best friend were really close. But one day, she started hanging out with a girl I didn't like(She knows I don't like her). And the other day, the girl started talking crap to me, and she just agreed to everything. Anyways, she started hanging out with her, and I can't stand it. What do I do? I don't want to tell her I don't like the girl or ask to hang out.. Help quickly please!

I honestly think that you should have a one on one conversation with your best friend about the whole situation. This has happened to me plenty of times before with my old best friend and I just told her my problem and she actually listened and understood what I was saying. Just talk to her one on one and calmly and you should be fine. Good luck!

Q: My best friend hasn't been acting like a friend. She is always blaming things that I didn't do on me and even blaming them on my mom. I really don't know what to do. We had some great times together, but is it right to let that go?

If she's dragging family into it, then I think you should just talk to her about it and if she continues to do it and blame stuff on you then I think you shouldnt be her friend anymore because thats not a true friend.

Q: what is it mean to "be there for someone"? and how do you be there for someone? is it considered being there for someone if your friend didnt go to you for advice but you came to them and you ask them what's wrong and they tell you whats wrong with them?

Being there for someone means that you'll always be there when they wanna talk or ask you for their advice.You can be there for someone by talking to them about their problems and helping them out when they are in need.Please write a feedback thank you and good luck!

Q: How can you make friends if your homeschooled and you just moved?

The best advice I can give you is to be yourself and dont try to be something you're not.If you see someone that you think is a nice person then introduce yourself to them and start a conversation.Trust me this worked for me and I know it will work for you.Hope I helped you!GOOD LUCK!!

Q: ok so ive been home schooled for 2 or 3 years but now i go to a normal high school (im 13/f) and my cousins go there to so i hang out with them and there friends but i dont like there friends and there to old for me and im to shy to make some other friends so what do i do??

i think you should ask your cousins to give you a tour of the school and to introduce to some people your age so yuo can meet and make new friends.Once you make new friends, your next 4 years in high school will get much better for you.Hope I Helped!!!

Q: i have a friend and he is my best guy friend and i had a thing for him awile ago, he knew i did but he was dating someone then. Now he is not,so i wanna get him a gift for V-day,but i don't waht to think i like him becaue i don't. should i get a gift or not?

i think u should get him a gift and when you give it to him say that you think of him like a friend not a boyfriend.

Q: ok so i got this bguy friend and he has a girlfriend
anyways he has hit on my before and said that he wanted to go out (this was while he still was goin out with his gf)
anyways she told mo to not talk to her boyfriend anymore and i did
but now he wants to be friends and i wanna be friends to but i dnt want to make hos girlfriend mad
what do i do?

I think that you should talk to his gf about it.Tell her that you want to be friends with him(if you do wanna be friends with him) and tell her that you have no feelings for him at all and that you would never try to sabotage their relationship.And if the guy keeps hitting on you tell him to stop or else you will tell his gf.Hope this helps.

GOOD LUCK!!!

Q: My best friend got a boyfriend a week ago and were 14 .we ve been best friends since grade 2 and shes had a lot of boyfriends and i havent had one yet and ever since she started to date him shes been blowing me off .She used to pick me for everything and now she always talks about him and is always with him.Eveyone At school is like "when are you going to get a boyfriend " . Ive tried to send her hints that its bugging me but she doesnt see it that it is .

I think yuo should talk to your best friend and tell her how you feel.Tell her that its bugging you that she always leaves you for her boyfriend and that you want ot hang out with her more.Remember...dont let the boyfriend out of the picture.If your best friend understands,invite her and her boyfriend to a movie or something so that you can all hang out.And....I know there is a special guy out there waiting for you.GOOD LUCK!!

Q: what do u ususally tellk someone on her or his birthday card... i always forget please help me out!

You would usually say "HAppy Birthday,(name here)!or something like "Happy (age here) Birthday (name here)!!And maybe on the bottom or anywhere you want you could put I love you or something.HOPE I HELPED!!!!Please write me a feedback not just rate it.THANK YOU SO DEARLY!!

Q: My birthday is coming up. I just want to have a little sleepover. I was wondering any ideas of what we could do? I thought of a movie, and ice cream because I love ice cream!!
Any other ideas?
Thanks!

I love sleepovers!!!After the movie and ice cream you can probably play some sleepovers games that you know of and do each other's make up.Then you can have like a little dance off and dance all night long.Hope this helps!!!Write me a feedback,please.Thanks!

Q: I need a big, creative idea to do for my best friend's birthday.

For my birthday (it was also our 6th months cause we were dating) he filled my room with 180 balloons, one for each day we'd been together, and wrote something he loved about me on each one. When I came home and found them, he popped out from underneath them and surprised me. :) It was one of the sweetest things anyone had done for me.

I need something great to do for him now.

Awww thats sweet...I think you should take him to the place where you guys first met and tell him how much he means to you there.Then give him a big birthday hug and kiss!Im sure he is going to love it.

Q: Now i have a friend and i have had this friend for my hole life 15 years and we talk about everything a girl can talk about nail hair and boys. But latley ever since she has been makeing me really mad liing the guys i like taking my own friend aay from me never telling me when someone talks about me and talks about me to others now 15years is a long time and i ahve never seen this behavior from her befor do i throw that 15 years of friendship away????

now i have another friend i have only known for about 3 years and she always trys to make me jealouse by hanging with my other friend i was talking about and just leaving me!!!!

and my grades are bad i just feel like my life is all mest up!!!!

Well...about your grades all you have to do is study harder and try to watch less tv or talk on the phone and stuff like that.About your friend well talk to your friend in a calm way and tell her that you feel left out.Hope this helps!!!

Q: Ok, to make this really short, I'm becoming the third wheel in my frienship. My best friend recently started dating one of our other guy friends. We used to all hang out, us a other people too, but now its just me, her and her boyfriend and I feel as though I'm becoming the third wheel. What can I do about this?

well you can talk to them and talk about it and sort things out.Hope i helped!!!

Q: Okay, so I have a friend I met over the internet. Her name is Mary, and we've been talking for almost two years.
She seems like a real kid, but I'm not really sure of what I can trust.
I dont know how to tell, and I'm not sure if there's anything I can do to know for sure.
So, she just asked for my address, to be able to exchange presents. I've talked to her on the phone before, but I've always thought there's SOMETHING you can do to fake that... (I get this from my mom). So I dont know whether I should actually give the address or anything. My dad knows I'm still talking to her, but my mom dosen't.

Ahh, please help!!

Jessie =D

I think you shouldnt give her your address beacuase she's probably pretending to be nice with you and probably will go to your address and do something to you and your mom and dad dont want that to happen to you,right?So take my advice and you'll feel great about your decision.:)Please leave me a comment.

Q: my best friend is becoming reeaaaallly close with one of my other friends. they now have plans all the time and now my best friend talks to her about all her problems and secrets when before she used to do that with me. they aren't mean to me but i just feel replaced or becoming more distant from her.

should i talk to her or what?

I think you should talk to your best friend about this.Tell her in a nice way that you are feeling left out and that you are glad she has a friend but you wanna spend more time with her.I havent seen my best friend in 4 years but im sure i will see her next year.Good luck and tell me how it goes with a feedback!