hey there, some of you know that I answered a LOT of questions in this site. My friend doesnt have internet in her house so she asked me to ask for your opinion.
She likes her best guy friend, a lot, she cant stop thinking about him and she always gets upset when hes around other girls. I know he considers her as his sister, HE TOLD ME!
What she wants to do is let him realise she likes him more than a friend but I told her it would screw up everything! things would get awkward and stuff. So what she's asking is, should she tell him? Personally I dont think she should.
And she also asked why he hangs out and fools around with other girls instead of her?
I told her because you dont have the same interests and he thinks youre too calm (he told me). So do you agree with me or do you have another opinion?
I have another opinion, she should tell him. For all the two of you know, he does feel the same way bout her, and just didn't feel comfortable telling you cuz he was afraid she'd find out, and he has no idea how she feels. Let her talk to him, bein her best guy friend, he won't do anything to intentionally hurt her, I'm sure he'd understand, and if it is a strong friendship, nothing would get awkward. Hope this helps her out! Wish her the best of luck for me!! Much Love 2 The Both Of Ya!!!
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Jessie
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Ever since my best friend started going out with this one guy, she has been starting to be mean to me like not talking to me durring school and stuff like that. She has also gone a lot of places with her boyfriend's friends (her new friends) and haven't even asked me to go.. I'm worried about loosing her as my friend becuase.. well.. we only have 6 girls in our class and to tell you the truth I don't like the other 4 girls in my class. Oh, and she has turned into a MAJOR slut! What do I do? What should I say when I talk to her??
Sorry It's so long
It's not that long, and never be sorry for expressing yourself! Mk, it's good that you decided to talk to her on your own...Just tell her how you feel. That you love her to pieces, and you just don't want to lose her as a best friend. Ask her how she feels bout all this. Maybe she didn't ask u to go along, cuz she didn't think you'd be interested, it bein her boyfriend's friends and all...ask her to go hang out some time...go out for pizza, or go to the movies, or better yet, go shoppin at the mall! :) It will all work out for the best! Good Luck Darlin!
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Jessie
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Okay, one of my friends who used to be a really good friend of mine is mad at me. She says I follow her every-where, and do every-thing like her. But I don't, I wish we could just be friends again, but she won't even talk to me. I don't know what to do, I'm so confuzed! Please help! I rate!!
Thanks, a desperate friend!
There's a chance that you are tryin to be more like her, and just don't realize it. This could be done out of admiration...But if you really ain't tryin to be more like her, and its just happening then you 2 are just so much more alike then you realize. Don't try to spend so much time around her, hang out with your other friends. Talk to her, tell her you're sorry for w/e you did to make her mad, it wuzn't done intentionally. Just don't make her the center of your world, I'm sure your other friends would love to hear from you! Give her a lil time, that's all everybody needs, just a lil time, she'll come back around! Good Luck, have some fun! Go Out and PARTAY BABY!!!!!! :)
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Jessie
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I feel as if my friend and I are drifting apart but I dont want to! She is like my sister. She quit dance and now we hardley ever see eachother. She means so much to me but i feel as f we are drifting apart. What do I do?
Tell your friend that you feel the two of you are drifting, there's a chance she feels the same way! Talk to her bout it, ask her how she feels bout it...Then talk to her bout doin more things together, join a team or a club at school together...leads to fun with each other as well as somethin good to put on a college application some day! It's all good! lol Good Luck, hope all goes well!
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Jessie
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I'm 14 years old, female and in the 9th grade. I've been sick for 4 1/2 months now, out of school and everything with an illness called colitis which is a disease in your large intestine and causes constant trips to the bathroom...it's embarassing yeah, but it's not like i picked to have this. Anyways, i would have thought being sick would bring me and my friends closer together but really, it ripped us apart. My best friend, or at least thought she was my best friend, completely ditched me 24/7 and said some really mean things to me and she lives right down the street from me and not once outa the 4 months did she come to my house to just visit with me and whenever she needs me, i'm ALWAYS there for her and like i wanna end the friendship cuz she is just a complete b**** like you wouldn't believe but the thing is, its hard to end the friendship as much as i wanna cuz i have so much fun with her. I need advice on what to do!! It's been driving me crazy for months on what to do and i just don't know anymore...:/
Yeah, you don't deserve that. Bein that good to her, when she's not to you, well my darlin, that brings around good karma. Makes you a good person as well...She doesn't seem like a true friend to me, and it's gonna take alot from you, and she'll try to pull a guilt trip on ya, but follow your heart. If you feel you can't be friends with her anymore, then end the friendship. Good luck, and get well soon!
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Jessie
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