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My name is Em. I love to dance, play lacrosse, volleyball, and soccer, hang out with my friends, watch movies, dance in the rain, sing, act like a dork, go swimming, shopping, and having fun :)
Gender: Female
Age: 14
AIM: BluMonkE835
Member Since: July 10, 2006
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About 3 months ago me and my ex broke up. We had only gone out a little over a month and he broke up with me cause of some other girl he liked. But we managed to still be good friends and we hang out and stuff, but with groupd of people not alone. Well the other day he got a new girlfriend, and its been making me really sad. Cause ya see i guess im still not fully over it all. I am 16 and he was my first boyfriend so it was like big to me (not to sound obsessed or whatever) but we had a good relationship everyone said so. I wasnt in love with him cause we didnt go out long enough but i guess just wished it lasted. So how can i help myself get over him. Thanks. (link)
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1st of all, its ok to be upset about breaking up with someone...that's part of life i guess...
anyway, I recommend having a night dedicated to YOU. Do something fun; read a book; go to the movies with your friends; watch a movie; cook something---anything that makes you feel happy. If you still feel sad about everything, take a piece of paper and a pencil/pen, and list all of the things you like about yourself. Then go outside and SHOUT (yes, I said SHOUT) out everything that you wrote on that list.
However, dont worry about him. There are plenty of other guys out there.... but you just need to give it some time.
Hope I helped!!
*~*Emily
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Hey,
last night my best friend called my cell phone at around 10 and told me that her mom has colon cancer. When I heard this i started crying because I know my friend and her mom are really close.
So my question is, what can I say to my friend? I mean i dont really even know how to react to this, its one of those things you never think will happen to you. Does anyone know what the chances that her mom will die are? Thank you so much
-marsbars (link)
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Heyy
First, I'm sooo sorry about your friends mom.
Second, I know what it feels like 2 know that your friend's parents or relatives have a disease...believe me, its hard. however, you could cheer up your friend in a lot of ways...go over to her house and make something for her mom. You could do something special to get your friends mind off of her mom. Also let her know that you'll always be there for her.
*~*Em
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I've got this amazing friend, John. I always joke around with him and everything with him and my best friend, Deanna, over the computer, but when it comes to actually hanging out.. it's a different story. While Deanna and I constantly are together, John only seems to want to talk to us when it's either conveniant for him, or when it's not in person.
For example, John, Deanna, our friend Alex and I all went to the movies to hang out. Well, Deanna, Alex and I all had a great time. We talked, laughed and everything, but John seemed to just completly be concentrated on the movie only, and when he wasn't, he was texting with some of his other friends. He pretty much didn't talk to us all until one of his newer friends met up with us at the therter..
He has made all these new friends, and I'm fine with him having friends, but he seems to be forgetting Deanna and I. He also seems to be more arrogant, because all of these girls happen to be alot prettier, and more popular than us.
He's just seemed to change.. and I really miss the old John, who I used to be able to joke around with, not having to worry about confrontation.
And I'm not flipping out all of a sudden, either.. This has been an on-going thing, and I've talked to him about it a few times. I don't pin blame or anything, but he's still not getting that he's not being the kindest person lately..
Please tell me what I should do.. I know not to push him away or anything, but.. what do I do to get everything like it used to be?
Thank you in advance, Sam (link)
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I know that you want your old friend back, but sometimes people just change...believe me, i know what you're going through...
However, if John is really your friend, he'll always come back to you...but for now, maybe you should just let him be.
Don't worry, you'll get through this...don't give up hope!!
Hope i've helped you!
*~*Em
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my best friend (kristy) called me up on the phone the other day and was complaining about how bad her life was and she says everyone hates her and she wants to kill her self i mean this already happend once with another friend but she was serious is kristy serious about killing herself this is the second time she told me!! and the whole thing with her saying everyone hates her kinda makes me feel bad because what am i chop liver?? well anyways what do i do? is she really gonna kill her self or what (link)
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I think that you should tell someone what she is thinking of. She needs help to get her life back under control. Also, keep reminding her of how forginate she is to have a loving family and you as a friend. Also, remember that you're being a good friend to her.
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