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i have seen my friends boyfriend with other girls kissing on them and i told my friend right away but she doesnt believe me, she said that i am jealous ... also she is supposed to have sex with him and i dont want her getting hurt .. is there anyway i could get her to believe me? (link)
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Try confronting the boyfriend. If that doesn't work, just tell your friend you're worried about her safety and you don't want her to get hurt, and tell her she shouldn't sleep with him.
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okay i have 2 best friends and i have a extra ticket to go too carowinds and i dont know who too take!! one is a girl ive had for 3 years and one is a boy ive had for a year and i love them too death (link)
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Why don't you take a family member or someone close to your family who is also a friend of yours, so these two friends won't become angry with you or one another when you choose?
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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else? (link)
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YOU are the one dating him, not anyone else, so why should you care what they say about his so-called 'nerdiness'? If you like him, just go for it!
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my friend is cuttin her wrist and stuff wat should i do to help her? (link)
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Confront her, and tell her that if she doesn't get help herself, you'll get help for her. Even if she threatens to stop being friends with you, you should still tell. She could seriously injure herself, and she obviously has some issues she needs to work out.
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my sisters ex boyfriend really likes me and i like him... its been a few months since they broke up so is it okay if i hook up with him?? or no?? (link)
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There will always be other guys, but you won't get another sister. Why risk ruining your relationship with her?
And have you ever thought that he might be using you to make her jealous?
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I have this friend and I have been friends with her for like 5 years, and recently I met this guy and I like him a lot, and I told her that. And this guy told me that he liked me too. Well now she is going out with him. He still calls me and say that he loves me and wishes he was with me. I don't know if I should talk to the girl or if I should stay a way from her since she stabbed me in the back. What should I do? (link)
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Ask her why she did this to you. It seems she was either jealous or she liked him secretly, too. Then ask this guy why he'd go out with her if he 'loves' you.
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what's a good way to make friends? (link)
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Find people with similar intrests by joining clubs, groups, etc.
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I always let my best friend borrow some of my shirts, but she will borrow them and forget to give them back. Like 2day I have to wear a blak shirt 4 school and she borrowed it and now she says she already gave it bak but i no she didn't because i have looked everywhere and it is nowhere and she wore it last. Also she borrowed one of my favorite shirts and she said she can't remember where it is but she will look for it and she still hasn't found it. Anyways- this doesn't usually happen, but i think i should not let her borrow anything else from me until she gives me the other stuff back. Is this a good judgement or is there an easier way? (link)
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Why don't you tell her that you won't let her borrow any more of your stuff until she returns the ones she won't give you back? If you're over at her house, maybe you could say, "Hey will you check for that one shirt I lent you quickly? I have to wear it soon, and I'm pretty sure you never gave it back!"
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