My name is Samantha and I'm 18. My friends usually come to me with their problems and I help them sort their problems out. I've been dating my boyfriend for three years, so I know a little something about relationships.
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i have a problem my friends and there parents are calling me a slut and they think that i've already had sex before when i never did!what can i do to show them that im neither of these things?!? please help me!! (link)
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The best thing you can do, hun, is talk to them. Tell them that and ask them why they thought you were a slut. Good luck to ya babe!! Keep me updated!!! :D
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ok well last year in 7th grade was the most roughest time ever i could think of!! i was so liked at the begining of the year and people started making rumors up about me and i lost almost every friend....i also got beat up once well i didnt get beat up thats what everybody says i just got in a fight ok and i am just having such a miserable summer bc thats all i ever think about is next year how im not going to have any friends to be with and where im going to sit for lunch and all that ughh i dont know what to do and all my mom says is "i dont know what to tell you" all im really worried about it one person bc she was friends with all the 8th graders and all the 6th graders and shes mean to me and hates me and she could prolly get everybody else to hate me and shes tall and is friends with all the popular people and shes not afriad to come in my face and say crap to me [ITS HAPPEND BEFORE] =[ it just started out i was hanging out with the popular people at the beegining of the year [ i guess thats what i wanteed the most ] and i dont know what happend but they all started hearing roomers and crap and yeah i started to get bad grades and i almost failed 7th grade and all this crap ughhh im not sure if god made all them hate me for a reason? im just so confused=/ somebody please help me ive been going through this forever and i really really need some help please =(
-ashlee (link)
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Aw geeze hun, I don't really know what to tell you either. But, all I can say is, now you know who you don't need to be friends with. Is there anyone who stuck by your side the whole time? If there was, then you know now who your true friends are. If there wasn't, well try making new friends. And not with anyone of those people you stabbed you in your back. Just think of this as a life lesson. I know it's hard but you just gotta keep your head up and forget about all of it. Good luck hunny. Keep me updated!!!!!!! :D Hope I helped!!!
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ok... so i know this is going to be one of the dumbest things you've ever heard... but... my best friend.. idk she doesnt make me feel very good.. she does things that cause me to cut myself.. and she steps all over me.. i bend over backwards to try and make sure she's happy and everything.... but she just doesnt seem to appreciate me.. i'm a really pure hearted girl.. and it's gotten to the point where she could slap me and say she hated me and i'd still love her.. kinda like when you hear about those guys that beat there wives and they stick arond and dont rat on there husbands.. i know its dumb.. but idk... im not happy in life... she's made me weak and insecure... she swore she hated this girl amanda....those two hated eachother for the longest time... and now its like nothing happened and they're best friends again.... i hate it.. and all of my friends say to just forget my bf because she isn't worth it.. but no one understands how hard that is for me..... i know i shouldnt stick around... but gosh.. its so dang confusing.. please help me anyone!
5's to anyone that helps...... :'( (link)
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Ok, personally, if she is doing this and making you cut yourself you need to just leave her and go to your other friends. Honey, nothing, and I repeat NOTHING is worth cutting your self over. Especially not a so-called 'best friend.'
But, if you still want to be friends with her, you have to talk to her about this. Tell her how you feel and everything that you've stated in the question. You just have to let her know you feel like this and that you still want her as your best friend.
I hope I helped and good luck, hun! ;)
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okay my friend is having a party tomorrow night and her parents arent going to be home .. and my mom treats me like im 5 so im thinking of getting dropped off early and then sleeping over there and then getting picked up later the next day so theres no sign that there was a party .. do you think thats going to work?? cuz if it doesnt then im screwed!! (link)
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Yeah. That's definently the best thing to do. Just make sure you get over there earlier than the others are supposed to get there, (maybe help her set up and clean). And if you're mother is one of those that calls and likes to talk to you at your friend's house like before she goes to bed to tell you good night, tell her you might go out to see a movie so you might not be at your friend's house to answer the phone!! Just a tip! :-D Good Luck!!
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