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i have cut myslf many times before but i havent been for awhile and i feel like i need to telll my friends about it. but i dont want them to hate me or think im insane. and when they talk abou tthe subject they dont know why it bugs me and i hide it. what should i do??
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If it is in the past, it is best to leave it there. When they start talking about it, just feel proud that you don't do it anymore. But if you ever start up again, that is the time to talk with them about it, friends can really be supportive in times like that.


ok so friday my friend tells me my friend who ive known for 3 years likes me. i didnt know what to believer b/c well yea but i mentioned it to my best friend who had been texting w/ him and she asked him if he would go out with me and he said yea but she doesnt like me. so i have choir banquet next month and i decided that i would ask him b/c yea ok i like him and my sister decides to tell his sister and she askes him what he would say if i asked him to choir banquet and my sister gets this text back saying " my dads making him say yes" whats going on! hes told all my friends he likes me and now i hear his dad is making him say yes? can someone please explain this to me? PLEASE! (link)
Guys are confusing, you never know what there thinking. Maybe the certain person he was telling he didnt want them to know he liked you. or maybe he was trying to sound cool since he knew you didnt like him.


A few weeks ago I told my friend Amy that I would go to a concert with her. It's a battle of the bands and the winner gets a spot on warped tour, and I'm friends with several of the bands who are going to be there. Then today I got an Invitation to my other friend's [Rachel] 16th Birthday party.

When I told Amy that I was planning to go to Rachel's 16th birthday party She got really upset. She wasn't invited and is mad that I would rather go to the party then to the concert.

But Here is my reasoning for going to rachels party:

-She is only going to be 16 once! and I can see these bands anytime
-I didn't even buy the tickets for the concert yet
-I always hang out with amy and I really don't get to see Rachel that much


What should I do? Should I go to the party or the concert?

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Ok even though the 16th birthday party sounds funner, i think since u told amy you would go to the concert first you shouldnt ditch her.


i would really appretiat it if you take the time to read this.. because im in tears right now..all i want is my best friend back. okay so me and this girl (we'll call her chelsea..) chelsea have been best friends for years.. closer than like anyone.. we hung out like almost every day. never got sick of each other, and had the best times. but then she got this boyfriend from a different school. and started talking to him constantly and i felt left out a lot. and then she has ditched me a lot.. like ive caught her in a million lies. so many.. she wont stop.. and i wasnt talking to her like a week ago.. but then we started slowly talking and today we were laughing and stuff together.. then i find out she went with her boyfriend to dinner with her and her dad and hung with him all night.. whenever me her and my other friends were supposed to hang out.. so tonight when i got home i found out she went with him.. and she started to lie.. but then she told the truth that she was with him.. i know she went to his house because her dad told me. so she immediatly admitted that.. i dont know what to do. im so sick of her lieing to me. i burst into tears after talking to her.. please help me.. i really need it. thank you SOO much for reading this//and helping if you do.. (link)
Just give her some space right now, she will soon realize what shes doing to u and she'll really miss u. Plus guys come and go but true friends last forever.


Well I have a new boyfriend and my best friend is acting really weird like she’s saying that I am a leaving her for him but I m not!! What the hell is her problem? Why is she saying this I mean he’s a new boyfriend and its that honeymoon stage where your excited aand she doesn’t understand and I hate the way she’s acting like today in the library I she wanted me to go to her class for 10 min. and I was with my boyfriend and I said no because that’s stupid why would I go to her class when she’s acting like this? Im really getting annoyed with her. Please help!! (link)
Well she probly feels yur replacing her with yur boyfriend, maybe u should try and hook her up with someone. But also make sure you spend time with yur best friend and show u still care.
friends before men


ok when your in i fight with someone and they say your over...is that liike another way of saying "your done" as in im gonna fight you??or does it mean something else??
please help
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its mean that yur guys relatoinship or friendship is over, give them time it will probly pass


im 16 male
ive got a great friend shes a girl and shes going through a rough time with her boyfriend who is also one of my friends. Hes starting to lose interest in her and she suspects he likes somebody else who ironically is another friend of mine, well shes really depressed and i wanna know if theres anything u guys can tell me i can tell her to try help her feel better or maybe questions i can ask her to make her realise something for herself, ive helped alot so far cheering her up when i can and making her feel good about herself because she suspects its because of her looks or something about her which i denie because i do sorta like her(and its true she's gorguz), well i h8 seeing her like this, so any suggestions?
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well i think you should tell her you like her because maybe she likes u too and that would get her mind off of her boyfriend. hope i helped!
X to the O


i just found out my best friend is pregent, she is about 5 to 6 months along and is due in january and she is going to make the kid call me aunt because we are so close, like sisters. i feel totally shocked because she is only 17 while she is gonna marry the guy, i know its gonna be hard for her, and im just not sure what to do for her right now, i just need some ideas because i am completely in shock. (link)
Okay well first off im sorry this happened to you, just remember people make mistakes and im sure she regrets it. But you gotta be by her side and support her through this because she most likely need someone. Also i would take the aunt thing as an honor, that must mean you are a very good friend to her! Well my advice is to just support her through this be there when shes pregnant and after the baby is born!!!
Hope i helped and good luck!


ok me and my friends never really go any where what are somethings we can do and how do i tell them to go places (link)
Hey babe...ok well me and my friends always hang out at the mall or go see a movie or just at eachothers houses.
Just call them and say "we should hang out today" and if there your friends then they will deffinately want to hang out so ya good luck!
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