just ignore em. honestly, i had the same problem not too long ago. im a christian by the way. and yeah, i go to a private christian school, and it started getting bad when i had the school actually threatening to kick me out unless i stopped wearing all black, and the schools priest actually told me that i was going to hell unless i came back to god (even though im a devout christian, its just that i wear all black all the time). what eventually happened was that i told all the kids making fun of me to back off or something bad would happen, i told the school that it was my choice which color uniform i would like to wear, and that they have no say in it as long as i wear the uniform (yes we have a unirorm), and the priest thing i kind of just let go...i would definitely NOT advise doing this...for one, even though i have all my friends by my side, the kids that are scared of me now make life a living hell (imagine being prodded into a fight every other day), and the school has basically become biased against me with the exception of a few trusting teachers...the priest still hasnt let up...so what i DO advise, is just be confident that what you do is YOU, as long as you are confident in yourself, things will eventually quiet down.

its not that your losing her, its that she found a boyfriend that she really loves. thats the way things usually go, when you find someone you love, that person becomes the most prominent person in your life. your not losing her, she just has to split her time between you and him now, and shes gonna lean towards spending more time with him bcuz hes her boyfriend. and the whole myspace thing...that basically means nothing...if your getting mad over what ORDER your in on her myspace...then your WAY over-thinking things.

wow...thats a lot of answers that say basically the same thing...oh well, hope mine differs...

basically, the answer to your question lies within yourself...i know, i know, i dont mean to sound all yoda-like, but thats just how it is. whatever you feel most comfortable saying, doing, and believing, is your answer. then when you decide whether god is real or not, theres the whole thing about what he/shes LIKE. with so many different religions out there, you have a pretty big choice. so, your belief in god (or lack thereof) all depends on what you feel most comfortable with.


by the way, an interesting fact that fits with this is that if you have seven people other than yourself that believe the same thing as you, you can legally start your own religion, so if none of the other religions fit what you believe, make your own!

As the situation is with ANY relationship, no matter how you saw it, or how you thought he saw it, feelings wee involved. Im guessing that the relationship wasnt quite a life or death thing to you, but for him, for a guy to like one person, and one person alone for an entire year, he really liked you, and this most likely meant a lot to him. and to be let down in three days...thats gonna hurt, bad. its gonna take him some time to get over this. not only were you someone he really liked, but you were his friend, and the feelings of rejection (however unintentional) will take some time to get over...so my advice, after all my meaningless blabbing, is to give him some time to get over this. keep talking to him, no matter what, if you want him as a friend, make it clear (in actions, saying it straight to him can wait till later) that you still like him as a friend, but the boyfriend girlfriend thing just isnt working out. so basically, give him time, keep talking to him, and make it clear that you still want to be friends, and in time, everything should be fine...hope i helped

names ryan, and im basically just here to help you guys out...ive been through most of the stuff you could ask about (cept all that being a female stuff) and i know how shitty life can be without someone there for you, helpin you through the tough times y'know? so yeah, ask me about anything you want to, i honestly dont care WHAT you ask me about, ill try to help you out the best i can no matter what...but yeah, i got a LOT of experience in the areas of love, depression, loss, suicide, and all that other nice stuff....well, ill be readin what you ask kk? catch ya later...

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