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Hi! Im askessy! My real name is Vanessa. I have a youtube account that im ALWAYS on so check it out and you can ask me things there. If been doing adive coloms. My birthday is really soon also! You can ask me anything but IT HAS TO BE SAFE AND NOT BAD. ANYONE in the world can ask me a question too!
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my friends is freakin out and crying and she HATES this one guy. me and him were best friends then i started liking him then she started and she was sayin how she has her whole life. she didnt know him. and everything i would do with him as friends shed say oh yea we did that too or shed go up and grab him sayin hiii. he was gettin really pissed about this because he liked me and i liked him and we were best friends. i said i didnt like him (faking it) then she said neither did she. then she turned me and him against each other. me and him HATED eachother did anything to piss eachother off. we became friends again and are best friends again. shes crying sayin how he was such a bitch to her and did all this stuff. he did nothing to her. he did everything to me but me and him talked alot and forgave eachother. their both my best friends. someone brought up the topic of who likes who then she started cryin goin off about him?! sum it up he did nothing to her. he did everything to me but we made up. she says everything i told her about me and him happend to her makin everyone get mad at him. and shes pissed off saying everyone always confuses her to be me but never thinkin im her. she always has lied alot. dont say im doin this because i want him hes just my best friend which will never be the same again. me and her are really drifting apart not because of this but she dose stuff like this about everything i say or do. what do i do? i just cant even really explain it this might not make sense PLEASE try though. (link)
its ALL about attention. she just wants you to be there for agai. you shouldnt be made at her, all she wanted was for you to be with her all the time. im not saying its your fault why she is so sad but maybe try to even time out with her. she might be trying to break your friendship apart with the boy again. but just block it out. you choose your friends. your friends dont choose for you... hope this helps


ok so my exboyfriend (we're still friends) and my bff wont stop fighting. they just dont like each other. my bff always hits him and makes rude remarks on how dark he is...so of course being a normal guy he has to defend his ego...so he says something rude back...and it never stops ! i've already talked to both of them and my bff wont agree to stop and my ex said that he has to say something back. i cant go anywhere with both of them at the same time. i want to be able to go out somewhere with both of them acting like civilized people. (link)
try not to have them together. make sure you spend some time with your ex and try to have some time with your bff. If they dont get along why have them together right? and try to tell them thats its NOT good to fight becaseu its hurting YOU. and i both think thats not good. Hopr this helps!




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