I'm 14 and I hate everything in my life.. I have tons of problems but i learn how to solve them myself.. I'm really good at giving advice so if you have anything that needs to be answered and you don't think anyone else could figure it out. just ask me.. i'll find a way to answer it!
E-mail: butterfly72990@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: new york
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Age: 14
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My best friend is dating this guy that my entire group of friends can't stand. This guy has NO personality. Plus, he's mean to people. Do we say something to her or let her figure it out? (they've been dating for almost a YEAR!) (link)
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This happened to me to.. i'm actually going through it right now for the second time.. I tried saying stuff to my friend and we started fighting.. but hey you friend might be different.. I say go with the feeling if your afraid that he's being to her then i'd definatly say something
Hope I helped
*~jamie~*
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All right, so, I'm 14/f, and this is basically about my guy friend, Jarrod. He really likes one of my best friends, Cora. He has liked her a really long time, and I was the first person he told after almost a year of liking her. He knows he can trust me not to tell anyone because I am an excellent secret-keeper, and so far I have told no one.
Although I did tell him that he should just tell her. Because I had to do that with this guy I liked, and everything turned out fine. But Jarrod and I both know that Cora doesn't really like him that way, although she really cherishes their friendship, I can tell. I told him that if he didn't do it by the end of this school year, I would tell her. (It's also sort of hard to keep this kind of thing from a best friend of yours for this long, even if Jarrod is a good friend too.)
And now, almost completely out of the blue, Jarrod told me that he's not sure why he told me in the first place, that there are other people he should have told before me, and that he doesn't want me privy to his love life anymore, and that I can't, under ANY circumstances, tell Cora. He also said that there is a personal reason that he doesn't want to tell Cora, and that he could not and WOULD not tell me.
What do I do? Why has Jarrod all of a sudden turned on me? Should I tell Cora and risk Jarrod's trust? HELP!!
Sorry about the long question...I rate! (link)
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I don't know if I'll be much of help in answering this question.. but if this would have happened to me.. I'd look at who I've known for the longest time and who has helped me through stuff.. and has told me stuff that was about me..but was supposed to be a secret... You might have to risk jarrod's trust.. but it could all work out for jarrod.. Cora could realize that she does like him.. Hope i helped.. If ya need anything else hit me up..
*~jamie~*
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i was wonderin if u go to algonquin, and if u did, if u know any by Alex N. (link)
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um.. No.. I don't go to algonquin.. Sorry that it took so long for me to answer
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ok, i have a boyfriend....lets call him..alex*. I really really like him and all... but my friend..(lets call her..mandy*)is mad at him. She said i don't spend enough time with her or anything because she is always with alex. She got mad about sumthin, and said i had to choose between her or alex. I don't know what to do. I'm really confused. I don't really wanna have to choose. Is there a way i can make them both happy or sumthin? I seem to find time to hang out with two of my friends and alex.. but for some reason i cant find time to talk to mandy a lot lately... please help!!! (link)
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I no this is gonna sound mean and everything but... You might have to leave "Alex"... your friends will always be there for you.. a boyfriend won't.. Always choose chicks over dicks.. thats my motto... Hope I helped...
*~Jamie~*
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