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I am 13/f and I play soccer and do drill team (dance) at school! I am very outgoing and energetic and I am a very good student. I earn my own money by babysitting and then go on a shopping spree and I can tell you right now I have fun no matter what I'm doing! EVEN HOMEWORK! I go through the problems everyone goes through with friends, school, parents, and sibblings, fashion, and decorating and everything else you can think of although I haven't had a boyfriend but I know what boys want because most of my friends are boys so if you want a boy to answer I'll just ask my friends and get right back to you. (I have a lot of friends that are girls too so any friendship problems are GREAT too)!!!

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im going to a party like a sweet 16. i cant dance.
i wanna be able to dance like not corny and kind of hot. what should i dooo ?

something that i did when i went to parties where i had to dance was get some dance advice from music videos and internet step-by-step intructions, this will make you a better dancer! hope you have fun at the party

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whenever my 2 friends do something without me, the one girl mel makes a huge deal out of it. i think she is trying tomake me feel left out. shold i just brush it off?

Whatever you do don't try to disclude her. If you do that she has more of a reason to disclude you. Also, don't let her know that it bothers you and try to feel like one of them. It might be hard but this problem will gradually get better. Now, if it doesn't try telling them how you feel because if you let it go completely you might regret it and then it is too late. You know, we all only have one life to spend, so spend it WISELY!!!

Good Luck

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i want to be more socail,confident,and happy. how can i make more friends,and be happy with my self?i want people to want to talk to me, if that makes sence. i feel like im invisible. i just want to be noticed and be more in my circle of friends. how ?

I just want to start out saying that this isn't a rare problem. I went through it last year. What I did that really seemed to work was I just made others feel invited into my conversations. Then soon enough they will start inviting you into their groups or conversations. Just watch out that you don't stereotype by passing right by people who are labeled weird or mean. You decide and you can get yourself out of any situation you get yourself into. I hope I helped and good luck!

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ok, let's just say i'm a trouble-maker... but only when i'm hanging out w/ friends. i mean, i never lie to my mom or anybody else but when i'm around my friends i do. and when i'm around my friends i swear and do all kinds of stuff. i don't want to stop hanging out w/ them because i've known them FOREVER but how can i start staying out of troulbe when i'm around them? please help. THX

I know this will be hard. But you have to stop doing those things and act like you would when you are not with your friends. Then when they see you like this and ask you why you are acting like this then tell them how it makes you feel and if they understand then they won't put as much pressure on you to do those things. If they don't understand then make a compromise and do that stuff sometimes when you are with them but nothing that you will always regret. Remember you are the only one you ever have to please!
Good Luck!

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My old bestfriend did something unthinkable and I don't want to be her friend anymore; She did this in august and I didn't talk to her for a while and I said I don't want to fight anymore but your not my friend. But she doesn't get it. She keeps talking to me in school and stuff. How can I tell her I don't want to be her friend nicely?

I would just send her a note and say it nicely but tell her why! It is better to send her a note to argue with her. If she doesn't take it very well then you just have to say it in a way you know she will understand. I hope I helped!
Good Luck!!

-Advice-Girl-28

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My best friend that I met last year...wellll
we arn't that close anymore. Over the summer we were always busy so we couldn't see each other. Now in school she's always hanging out with her friends... I try to get included and talk to her... but it seems like she doesnt want to be around me. I tried talking to her, but she just acts all weird and pretends theres nothing wrong. I feel like we are seperating from each other and I really dont want that to happen. I need advice!

If you and her hung out a lot last year try to remember some of her favorite activities such as shopping or bowling. Then invite her to come and if she does try to kind of act like you used to and maybe she'll realize she really missed you.

I hope I helped! GOOD LUCK!!!

-Advice-Girl-28!

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Hey,
I need to know something. Alot of people say that my friends don't like me but I talked to one of them and she said she does but I don't know because there's three friends and like 10 people who think they don't like me.
What should I do?

Well, what you should do is try to talk to one of your better friends that you know likes you and have them talk with your friends and report anything bad or good they say about you. Tell your friend to bring you up in a bad way and see if they agree. And then you know what you are doing wrong and work on that.
OR
Stay away from your friends during classes and lunch and if they come to YOU then you know they really do like you and if not then they aren't your true friends.

I HOPE I HELPED YOU!!!

Advice from: Advice-Girl-28 and Very Helpful Friend!

Thanks for your question. I can answer any others that you might have.

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I have this friend mandy and she is soooooo annoying. At first we were bff's until this one guy she liked noticed her. Then she came over to my house and didn't talk to me once unless she was telling me how great he was!!!! I don't know what to do or say!!!! She is mean and ignores me when I try to talk. Should I be friends with her?? I would like you to help me please. Thank you!!!!

I suggest that you just tell her that she is treating you like a doormat and if she doesn't shape up don't spend time waiting for her to. Move on and if she needs you later see how loyal she is. Don't try thinking about it and trying to even the board, forget and have fun and find some other friends that will treat you with R.E.S.E.C.T.
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thank you
a-g-28

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