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Yeah.. I basically love your guts.. (link)
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Aww I love you too!!! Thanks
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I'M SO PISSED OFF AT HER!!! She ditched me this weekend, saying she was going to go to a party to get "messed up" and by her saying messed up I was thinking... drinking. You know, because she wouldn't ever smoke! Well today I went to her MySpace, and I saw pictures, so I was watching them, and I saw pictures of her and her little sister SMOKING WEED!! I WAS LIKE DUDE, WTF! She wouldn't have done that if she was with me! BUT NOOOOOO, she just HAD to go to that stupid fucking party! Another thing that makes me sooo mad is that she didn't even have the nerve to talk to me, and tell me that she was planning to go to the party, and she had all week! She didn't tell me until Friday night, when I had plans on going to her house. So she basically left me to go get high.
WHAT SHOULD I DO!
She's already dtole guys from me, and now shes smoking weed?!?
Please, Please, Please help me out!!!
-Thank you so much!- (link)
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Next time she wants to hang out, ditch her back. She's obviously the type who'd prefer to look cool and party, then to hang out with a true friend. So yeah, basically dump her, she's worth nothing, and there's probably no hope in changing her. Surround yourself with friends that matter and don't do stupid shit like this. I'm sorry IDK anything better to tell you.
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i would really appretiat it if you take the time to read this.. because im in tears right now..all i want is my best friend back. okay so me and this girl (we'll call her chelsea..) chelsea have been best friends for years.. closer than like anyone.. we hung out like almost every day. never got sick of each other, and had the best times. but then she got this boyfriend from a different school. and started talking to him constantly and i felt left out a lot. and then she has ditched me a lot.. like ive caught her in a million lies. so many.. she wont stop.. and i wasnt talking to her like a week ago.. but then we started slowly talking and today we were laughing and stuff together.. then i find out she went with her boyfriend to dinner with her and her dad and hung with him all night.. whenever me her and my other friends were supposed to hang out.. so tonight when i got home i found out she went with him.. and she started to lie.. but then she told the truth that she was with him.. i know she went to his house because her dad told me. so she immediatly admitted that.. i dont know what to do. im so sick of her lieing to me. i burst into tears after talking to her.. please help me.. i really need it. thank you SOO much for reading this//and helping if you do.. (link)
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Things like this happen all the time. When a girl gets close to a guy, she forgets the world, and who really matters. You should understand this is how girls are when they interact with a guy they like. Don't get on her case TOO much about it, she'll think you're jealous. Let's face it, all girls wanna be envied by someone, and they will tell you anything to get you jealous. So here's what you do, and don't go overboard. SUCK IT UP! Stop crying hysterically, I know it's hard. But just think, if you had a boyfriend, you'd want her to understand and always be there for her. Tell her this, "Look, I want you to know, I'm happy that you're happy. But when you ditch me for him, I don't like that at all. Tell me when you have plans with him, so I can work around that." Also, make plans with her, and ONLY her, and maybe ask to hang out with her and him sometime, and stand your ground, push a way into not feeling left out. Like jokingly cough if they get too close while in your presence, or if their talking, include yourself, don't just sit there. You have other friends, make sure she doesn't think your life revolves around her, cuz then she'll take advantage of that. Just always be there, cuz they'll break up in time, and she'll come running back apologizing, and needing you. And boom, there's your best friend again.
Good Luck
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i have a best friend that told me she moving in 3-4weeks. i wish she wasnt moving, but i dont know what to do. if she moves i'll never get to see her agian or hang out with her. we hang out every day and when she leaves i want get to any more. im really sad. i want to tell her how i feel and i have been but it wont make a diffrence if she moves or not. i cant not make her move, she has all ready bought a house, and selling the one she leaves in now. she my best friend in the whole world. when she leaves i dont know what to do, i'm going to be sad. help me!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Just keep in touch! Get her number, you call her, she calls you. Eventually you will see her again, don't ever say you won't! I know it's devistating. My BFF moved to Brazil, I cried for a week, but now (almost a year later) I have so many more friends, and I think about her still, talk to her still, but.. I don't know. It's just much easier than I thought it would be! So, you'll be alright!
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