about

A little bit about me...
[A]ge: practically 16!
[B]irthday: January 24th
[C]olor(s): orange and pink
[D]ream boy: *usher!*
[E]yes: browns
[F]riends (best): Mandy, Amanda and Patrick

advice

Alright... So I just held a party which started about five hours ago and ended around 11:00 pm. 8th period today I invited one of my guy friends at the last minute. I told him that he couldn't bring anybody but himself, since there were already going to be a lot of people and my mother would flip if someone she didn't know, showed up at our house uninvited. He told me his friend whom he hasn't seen in a long time was coming to visit, but I told him that he couldn't bring him for reasons I already stated. It was basically an open invitation, if he could come alone, then he could come, but if he couldn't, then that was too bad. So, a little bit before the party after a few early people arrived, he called me and said he was in the neighborhood and was wondering if he could come a few minutes early. I said it was fine, and he came... with a friend in tow... I was a little pissed, but I let it slide for the time being. Well, a little while later after basically everyone arrived, he "pretended" to steal some of my DVD's and lots of food. Then, a few minutes later, he calls me over and says he's got a "shitload of alcohol" in his car. Now, my friends and I are not into that kind of stuff, and it made me really uncomfortable. I basically told him I thought he should leave. He got a little pissed but agreed to it. His friend was kind of just sitting there the whole time, not talking. So they got up and stood at the food table for a while and just hung out. I was really pissed and worried at the time, cuz one of my other freinds was threatening to leave (the alcohol comment made her really uncomfortable), so I said "Are you just going to loiter there?". He got really pissed then, and then left with his friend. A few minutes later he called all heated and was saying "You were really rude to me, and the alcohol thing was just a joke" which I didn't believe, because he only said it was a joke after I expressed my discontent. So then I told him again why he had to leave, and he was just like "yeah whatever, fuck you" and hung up. Now, I've thought about it over and over and my friends say that he's a jerk and I have every right to be angry. But I'm not sure... Was any of this my fault? I feel I made it very clear that he wasn't supposed to bring anyone, and that if he wanted to spend time with his friend, he should do so. We could always hang out some other time. It's not like he's doing me some huge favor by coming. I just need to know, for my own sanity, do I have the right to be angry? Thanks... Pom

you have every right to be mad at him. he brought an unknown friend to your party after being told not to and then he made a comment about having a shit load of alcohol in the car when he knows that you dont do that kind of stuff. so.. yes, i would say you have a reason to be mad..

rate me!
_ashley_

[view]

OK I like this guy Named Chris But I used to Like this guy Named Matthew But the Day I met Chris was the Day I met Matthew In person And It was kinda Awkward Because I like Chris more and I dont want to hurt Matthews feelings So I didnt tell Matthew that Chris spent the night with Me But he found out by a friend But its ok I didnt tell her she couldnt tell!! so anywayz that night me and chris were laying down next to eachother and we started kissing ever since then We have had this big huge crush on eachother so But ok
Chris is really sweet, nice, comments me on stuff and kisses alot and hugs alot a cuddles alot And likes me for me which is really kewl
on the other hand
Matthew- Cocky, kinda mean, nice sometimes
comments on how Hott I am doesnt give me hugs, tells my friends there hott all the time in front of me talks about my friends 24/7 and U see why I dont like him
I just need to know How to tell HIm I dont like him but IN a nice way!!

just straight up tell him that you dont like the way he acts around you and that you met someone that you really like and want to go out with the guy that you like because he treats you in the way that you want to be treated!

-rate me and i hope i helped-
-ashli-

[view]

ok.. one of my best friends uncle died last nite we were all really close with him but they were like really close n shes talkin about killing herself wut do i say to her to help her try n stop trying to kill herself? help i rate high

this is a very normal thing. my very best friend was goin to do the same thing. just try to ocmfort your friend and help her thru her hard time.. SHE WILL GET OVER IT.

[view]

I have a bff, and a really good friend. My bff and I are EXTREMELY close. My really good friend gets all mad and jealous. What should i do?

i went thru the same thing. what helped me out was that i spend time with each of the serperatly on different days! it seemed to work for me!

[view]

My Friend Lied to me telling me he got suspended for acting "pimp" and i knew that u cant get suspended for acting like that. But i had found out by a nother friend that he brought a knife to school. It totally shocked me and i started to cry because wat friend could do that. I'm still mad and frusterated. Now he may be suspended 4 good. im still mad for it should he still be my friend?? Should i trust him??? and I*m mad cuz wat was he gunna do wit da knife!
PLEASE ANSWER IMMEDIATLY!!

i think that you should make the decision whether you want to still be frineds with him. i dont think that people should tell you who you should be friends with. in my personal opinion i would not be friends with him because i would not know if he was bringing the knife to school to kill me or one of my friends. WHO KNOWS. and to answer your question on trust... i dont think that you should trust him...

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker