Depending on the day depends on the type of answer you will get from me. Most of the time i give what i would do if i were in your shoes. That means it could be harsh and stereotypical or nice and easy to understand. i love giving advice so ask away. challenge me a bit and you will get a good answer out of me. i have played the harp for 7 years and love it to this day. God bless
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I live in Utah and I expect everyone to have big opinions on my religion because it is different. My boyfriend is LDS (morman) and I am Lutheran. We have breifly dicussed if we were to get married, where would it be at. He wants a temple wedding and I want my chruch wedding. There is no way I would convert. But we seem to argue about this a lot. I am scared I might lose him because of this. How can I settle it without losing him? (link)
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I play in weddings (my harp). Some people have 2 weddings to make both sides happy. YOu should have both keep the cost down on both and have one recoetion. The weddings do not have to be on the same day just a day or so apart. I have played in 2 weddings for the same person before...(catholic and baptist). It allows everyone to be happy. If I were that is what I would do at least.
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If god knows that we are gonna do something bad, like look up porn, why doesnt he try and stop us. I dont really understand it but, i am a porn addict and its getting harder and harder for me to stop. why would god let me do it if he knows its wrong? (link)
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God does not stop us because we have a choice. It is called free will. We know it is wrong to do things but we are creatures of habit and tend to stay in one path. The only way to stop is by trying really hard and asking God for support. The temptation will always be there but if you resist it, you can only gain confidence and a stronger relationship with Christ.
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ok it's me again, I just had another question, I'm 14,f, my bf is 14 and I'm a strong christian and I hav many beliefs, not having sex before marriage is one of them. My bf isn't a christian he is unitarian(which i dont really kno much about),but he knows im saving myself for marriage,and he wouldn't ever take advantage of me cuz he luvs me. I was just wondering is it ok that he isn't a christian? Also, do u kno anything about unitarianism? thanks (link)
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I am not sure about utarianism but I think it is when they beleive in certain things from every belief. It is like joining all the beleifs into one huge one. I think that is what it is. I personally think it is fine to date people outside of the christian community. In the bible it says your partner should be the same as you are. But I interpert that as more of a marriage thing not dating. As long as he respecs you, I think it is perfectly ok. The whole utarianism thing....i think you should look it up on google or yahoo. Find a web site that explaines it. God Bless and glad to help you!!
Gwen
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Why are human beings, as a species, so weak minded that they need religion to tell them what to do? I want real answers, not just the whole,"Jesus is great!lol!" shit that most people will dish out. I.E. I want someone intelligent to explain this to me. (link)
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I believe in God not because I am weak or need some religion to settle my spirits. I believe in him because I can and want to and I know that he exists. I do not nee hard proof to know that he is in my life. I just know it through actions and small mericals everyday. Yes Jesus is great but that is not all of it. Christians tend to get caught up in 'converting people' that they forget reality. Being a Christian and believing on God takes work and time. When you first begin your journey it is hard. Often you have to give up habits, and rituals that inhibit you from getting closer to God. Although many people believe going to church will be enough it isn't. You have to read the bible and tell people about God. Everyone has a different preception of what God is. I think he is a person who is powerful enough to change anything and everything in one instant but chooses to listen to me instead. i am able to think, write down, or even talk out loud my issues and I know he is listening. Even when I sin I know he will forgive me because in the bible it says love the sinner hate the sin. He forives me for whatever i do and then forgets it. That does not mean I can continuously do the same sin over and over again because that pulls me away from my beliefs and God. Being a Christian is about a person relationship AND reflecting out into the world for everyone to see. I know God is with me everywhere I go. He is the most dependable thing I have, even more than myself. I know that no matter what, once I allow him into my soul, he will never leave. My personal relationship is a relationship based on my knowledge of his stories (the bible), his laws and how much I abide by them, and how much I talk to him. Talking may be through prayer or just thinking and talking. I hope this helps you and if you want more just email me at RMS2388@aol.com.....Just write in the subject "I want to know more about God"
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