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Hi everyone! My pen name is Hannah and I am a 17-year-old girl. I like languages, friends, cats, and many other things. I really love giving advice, and I am studying psychology now. My favorite questions have to do with mental health. As I said above, I am taking psychology classes now, but I also do a lot of outside research, so chances are that if you say something to me about a disorder or anything like that, I will know what you are talking about. Although I am not a licensed psychologist, I hope to someday be one and I would love to get some practice here.

Also, if you ever have a problem and you like my advice and would like to talk with me, I have many messenger services so I would be more than happy to set up a time to talk with you about whatever you need.

I hope to here from you soon!

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where is mall of america?

It is in Bloomington, Minnesota.

It is a really awesome place. My favorite place was the aquarium. It was great, and you should definitely try it out if you are in the area.

By the way, the homepage is www.mallofamerica.com

Have fun!
~Hannah

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I dont know which religion to go with. I dont like christianity because alot of the people around here are fake and they just pretend like they are really good. I know some of you arent going to like me for saying that, but whatever. I dont believe in god. I mean, I believe that there was a man named Jesus and he was a great guy and everything, he helped the poor, and all that. But I dont believe he was sent down from god and all that magical stuff. I just think that the best thing is to love one another and be nice and kind and tolerant. I dont believe in heaven or hell, they were both made up to scare people. And i dont understand why people say god is so forgiving, he will forgive you of your sins and whatever, but then everyone says that bad people are sent to hell. Why doesn't god forgive them?!?! So those I believe were just made up to scare people, "you wont get into heaven if you do this, youll go to hell if you do that." So basically does anyone know of a religion or faith? I just want one that is tolerant of all other religions and one that focuses more on the future than on the past. Supports the wellness of the world and its people and one thats not based all on money. Preferrably one thats liberal, democratic. Oh yeah I have already seen Buddhism and thought about that one... so anything other than that would be great!!! thank you so much, sorry its long

You sound like a really nice person and I think that much of your confusion is rooted in the fact that you want the best for others. You should be proud of yourself; this is a great quality!

I have also had the same problem. My parents are Christians, and as a result I was raised that way. I questioned a lot of Christianity, and the best advice I can say is to do whatever you feel. No one can make you believe something.

I know of a few religions that I think you might like looking into. Pagan religions are often good. Wicca is a religion that is accepting in everything-- religion, gender, homosexuality, you name it, and they generally accept it. It is a nature-based religion that supports the earth and the well-being of all people. The belief in the afterlife varies from person to person, so some Wiccans believe in reincarnation, others believe there is nothing, others believe other things. You don't seem to like the idea of hell and the devil, do you? :) Well in Wicca there is no devil.

Good luck, and remember to look a the religion (Christianity) itself, and not the people who claim to be good Christians. If after you do this you find that it is not the path for you, then be proud that you cared to look at all of your options.

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