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I am just a normal person
I love sports and music
My real passion is helping people i care about anyone and everyone and i tend to care more about helping people than i do about my upcoming bio test (or whatever class).

Gender: Female
Location: Massachusetts
Age: 16
Member Since: June 16, 2007
Answers: 7
Last Update: July 6, 2007
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what are signs of teen depression/? (link)
sleeping more or less, eating more or less, withdrawing from friends, continuous sadness like 2 weeks or more, losing interest in activities that you usually do crying, unexplainable pains like headaches opr stomache aches that are persistant

some extreme signs are cutting, or any drug or alcohol abuse and giving away things or constant thought of suicide could mean severe depression and suicidal attempts

if you need anymore help i am here, if it is you that thinks that you are depressed please take it seriously and see a doctor, you can private mesage me if you need to talk i am always willing to talk and help :)


what are some good songs that arent to hard to sing but sound good when sang. im a girl so i kinda have a higher voice
thx just give me any ideas that pop into your head ill try any of them! (link)
any paramore or michelle branch song

i would recomend goodbye to you or all you wanted by michelle branch

your best bet is probably paramore (band with girl lead singer)
their song hallelujah has amazing vocals allong with conspiracy you could also try their songs we are broken or when it rains they arent that hard and the lyrics are basic but good

hope this helps :)


I want to get my belly button pierced, but my stomach isn't toned or anything.
I don't have like a fat stomach, but I just don't have abs.
How long do you think it could take for me to get better abs (p.s. I'm completely skinny, but I do field hockey, which concentrates on toning your legs more). (link)
number one-- hell yeah to the fh!

anyways basically you want to do lots of crunches and boards (or at least thats what i call them) basically get into a push- up position and then put your arms down so just your for-arms are in contact wtih teh ground, you should feel this in your stomache area in about 30 seconds to a minute depending on how toned you already are

since you do fh and are already active i would say it would take a few weeks or less as long as you work at it

hope this helps :)


Okay well im a 14/f and i have a friend- ex friend now- but she texted me and was like i tolled everyone your secret! - and my secret is that im a lezbian- and she is the only one i tolled and i thought she was just kidding but she wasn't she tolled like veryone i know and so now everyone is like Oh god you are a lez sick your perverted , do you have a girlfriend , you should die lezbians and gay people shouldn't be aloud on earth ext.... but its starting to get to me and i dont know what to do can you help me??
love,
Stressed out! (link)
OK hun this is tough,
But i am going to tell you right now that worrying about these people is not worth your time. they are not your real friends if they are going to hate you because of who you are. there is no problem in loving who you want to love. Even though it is hard you shouldnt worry about what those other people think of you and know that you are not sick or percerted. These people are not your real friends if they cant love you for who you really are. Please understand that you are normal and you are not a horrible person so just ignore those people, and dont be afraid to stand up for yourself or just walk away if need be. they are just afraid of new things and things that arent common, and hey maybe some of them are just hiding behind their own fealings

so jsut know that if they are going to rag on you because of who you love they are worthless and just not worth the time

hope this helps, message me if you want to talk more i am always here! :)


I'm a cutter, and I have been for over a year.
I'm trying to stop. For the most part its working but I've slipped up now.
I have a very deep cut on my ankle, the spot on the outside where the anklebone juts out. I cut it over a week ago, and its just scabbed[lightly] today.
It has a pulsing feeling, and hurts like heck.
The cut is about an inch long, and fairly thick.
Is it going to be alright?
I can't go to a doctor, because I can't tell my parents. Also, Is there a way to stop the pain??? (link)
This is not a good sign if you still feel pain on it internally. it sounds like you could have hit a vein and deeply punctured it. to stop the pain i would just make sure your shoes arent in contact with it and pretty much leave it allone, hopefully you treated it wiht bacteria killer to try and prevent infection. you cut yourself really close to a very sensitive area, if not directly on it and you definately should see a doctor it would be best to tell your parents straight out what happened but if its your only choice, i would lie to them and tell them that you slipped or something of the sort because it does need to be checked out. i am not saying that its ok to cut and that its ok to lie but for your health it should definately be helped out

on the issue of cutting you should really stop. i know that you arent jsut because i said so but you need to learn how to control and i know its harder than it looks, from experience. please please message me if you need more help. i have helped many people with this issue and i would be more than willing to help you. i know i am jsut a random person but i do really care and want to help. i understand that cutting feels like the only solution sometime but i could help you come to terms with issues disturbing you

please message me if you want help and please do see a doctor in some way even if you do have to lie



ok so im involved with this guy and his ex girlfriend wont get out of his life and she's always getting into our business, is there a good song about that sort of thing? (link)
ok this song is basically the story of this situation you will absolutely love it

MISERY BUSINESS BY PARAMORE

"Whoa... Well I never meant to brag
But I got him where I want him now
Whoa... it was never my intention to brag
To steal it all away from you now
But God does it feel so good
'Cause I got him where I want him right now
And if you could then you know you would
'Cause God it just feels so...
It just feels so good ...

I watched his wildest dreams come true
Not one of them involving you
Just watch my wildest dreams come true
Not one of them involving ..."

thats just a clip the entire song is even better


i need alot of songs about moving on and losing loved ones,etc.cuz im making a cd for everyone in my graduatiing class and we are all devestated to leave.the other night was our grad dance and we cried a ton,anyway they played songs like goo goo dolls "ill stay with u" and "she will be loved" by maroon 5.any songs like that is amazing.thanks (link)
Franklin by paramore




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