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Q: i died my hair recently about 2 weeks ago now maybe 3 i died it blonde but its turned out with ginger strikes it looks quite bad compared to how nice my hair use to be according to everyone else, its getting me really upset, as i care alot about my image. My friends keep saying like i cant bleieve how ginger your hair it and pointing people out and saying its like hers, its aweful! Im not allowed to die it again as it will get in really bad condition. Does the sun make hair colour fade? alot? any tips on how to fade the colour naturally? I heard tomato ketchup but i read that just if your hair truns green from chlorine. My friend said is faded hers loads when it went a gingery colour. but to be honest i dont really trsut it.!
Okay well.

There is nothing you can do, and the reson it has gone that ginger colour is because you have tried to go a light colour from a dark colour. Unfortunately the only thing you can do is dye it again.

The sun will make it blonder, but it will make it a horrible blonde, that looks like it hasnt been cleaned in a while.

Chlorine doesnt make your hair turn green however, it can slightly lower the glossy appearance than lays on the outer layers of your hair if you swim too much.

The only answer is dye it again Im afraid

Q: So 14f and i want to get on the pill.
And Id like to know your opinion on that.
Like if you think 14years old should or not. And do you have to tell your parents that your going on it or do you just tell your doctor ?
But wouldn't it have to be paid for..so wouldnt your parents have to know?
Not atall to most of those questions. Its great that you are taking the responsibility at such a young age to be careful and safe, and no it doesnt have to be paid for at your age, as its a contraceptive.

On the form when you go in to collect your pill, it says whether you are going to have to pay or not, and they always tick the box that states you are still attending school/college...and up until your 18, you dont pay, and sometimes even after 18 you dont have to pay. So no your parents never find out, mine never have :)

Q: today i just noticed some weird bulby thing in my mouth so i put my finger in to check it out and i popped it? and then when i pulled my finger out there was blood? it kind of hurt when i popped up but what could it be?
It was more than likely a mouth ulcer, nothing serious, but sometimes when you pop them it bleeds.


Q: I went to the bathroom this morning and found this yellow stuff in my knickers.
Have i started my periods.
Im really worried.
I dont want to tell my mum as she laughs.
Please give me some advice.
Its just discharge, means soon you will start your period, this is completely normal so dont panic.

Im sure your mum would understand, make sure you have stocked up on panty liner/tampax ready for your period. Just enjoy the most of it, growing up and stuff.

You will get discharge throught your life, mainly before and after periods. ,

Q: 14\F
I had a Catscan done Wendsday and that was when I did have a cold. Well now I have really bad sore throat and I'm weazing when I breathe. I don't know if it's the radiation they put in my system or if I'm being paranoid.
My parents don't have the money from some walk in check up... It cost like 150 just to walk in the Fast Track. But I can't wait a month or two on my actual doctor if tis is serious.
The doctor said that alergic reactions happen like 1 in 1,000,000 or whatever people. She also said that it's also rare to have trouble breathing or hives.
I donno if I should tell my parents or if I should wait it out.
The only time I can breathe clearly is right after I hack a lung which is starting to really hurt.
Any help would be awesome.
Its probably just you worrying. It sounds like you could have a throat infection, its highly unlikely its anything serious, or you would have had an almost immediate reaction, tell your parents, phone your doctor. If they both say its nothing. Then dont panic over it

Q: Lately I've been having some really odd dreams. Two days ago, I had a dream some guy was trying to drill a screw in to my vagina and last night I had one where I was masturbating and it just started bleeding all the sudden. I'm not on my period, or anywhere near getting my period. Are there any weird reasons why I could be having this dream?
If you have recently started your period it could be general worries.

But other than that they are just freaky dreams :) Try and nacker yourself so much that when you go to bed you sleep the whole night through and forget any dreams you had!

Good Luck

Q: Can the gyno tell if you are masturbating?
Nova I think you should be a bit more 'nice' in your answers.

Yeah they can tell. But its okay cos the amount of people they see is so high that it doesnt even cross their mind, also they do it themselves so they wont think anything of it. Dont worry about it

Q: ok..this is kind of a weird question..but i was supposed to start my period LAST wednesday..and its a week later. ive been under alot of mental and emotional stress lately, but i still had bad cramps, yelled at people, cried for no reason, ate icecream..etc. and i know im not pregnant bc i havnt had sex in a year. i eat fairly healthy, but am on alot of prescrips for a cold..whats wrong with me??
Hun theres no need to worry.

You have answered the question yourself ''ive been under alot of mental and emotional stress lately''

Even if you have bad cramps and do all the normal stuff that happens during your period, it doesnt stop the stress from delaying it.

Perhaps have a couple of days doing something quiet, settle down a bit just to get it started. Good Luck!

Q: what age do females stop developing at??and if you r a late bloomer what age do girls stop developing at?
thanks:)
Just wanted to say that yes there IS a difference between normal and late bloomers. I should know. I was a late bloomer and I didnt get boobs till I was 15 almost 16 and now they are D cup size. So waiting was worth it.

Q: i vomitted this passed sunday just once when i got out of the shower and i'm not too sure why and every since then i've had abdominal cramps. when i did vomit i was really dizzy and had a really bad stomach ache. can anyone tell me what might be going on? (because i have no idea)and when it might go away?
Unless it has anything to do with period pains, then it could be food poisoning.

But the highest chances are that it is period pains, although they shouldnt cause you too vomit, sometimes when you have a bath that is too hot it can make you sick.

Q: I have a problem... I don't exercise enough. I am not fat by any means, but that's just because my metabolism is really fast. I just do not enjoy going to the gym, there are no team sports to play around here, and I don't know if yoga will be enough (i mostly stretch and breathe). any suggestions of something I can do to get motivated or a new kind of exercise I could try doing? I don't like to sweat if I don't like what I'm doing. Any help appreciated!
Horse riding =D

Its a great way to excercise muscles :)
If you horse ride then do some situps.

Or dog walking if you have a dog, go to the woods and jog about with your dog.

Or swimming with friends :)

Good Luck


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