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Hey everyone! My name is Kristen, I'm 20 and I'm a college junior studying pharmacy. I've been blessed with a really good life, and part of the reason for that is because I've learned to see GOOD in everything that happens to me. I love giving advice, and I've been told that I do a good job at it, but I'll let you decide! Feel free to ask me anything... don't be shy, that's why I'm here. I've been through a lot... moving from one country to another, leaving and finding new friends, break ups, boys, middle school, high school, college, self esteem issues... pretty much most things that people need help with.
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I don't know if I wanna go to college, but I know I'm at least gunna try it out. I'm not really the scholar though. I've taken tons of slack classes in highschool and stuff. A few questions...
1: If I find that college is not for me, what do I do with the rest of my life and work/money?
2: Is it true that businesses don't pay much attention to your college GPA? (Do they only care that you got a degree?)
Thanks!
hey!!well i think it's deffinitely a good idea to at least "try out" college because it is something that, if you finish it, will make the rest of your life soo much easier! not only that, but it's such a rewarding experience, and you get to learn so much about yourself and meet so many new people! it's unlike anything else you will experience in your life, so it is deffinitely worth it!
first of all, don't be discouraged just because your grades in high school were not so good. high school and college are two completely different things. you are an adult in college, and you are paying money to go there, so the professors leave all the responsibility to you. they won't make you do any work... it's all up to you, but they assume that if you are paying money to go there, you won't waste it and you will get something out of it. i know plenty of people who did not do so well in high school and then did really well in college. it's not the easiest thing in the world, but it's not hard either... i certainly think it's a lot easier, and will give you a lot more peace of mind than working 40 hours a week for minimum wage for the rest of your life and barely making ends meet. my dad always says that to make it in this country you either need to have your own business or have an education... otherwise life is very hard and all about work.
now as far as what businesses pay attention to, let's put it this way. they will appreciate the fact that you have a degree, but they will go ahead and look at your grades in case they have to compare you to another person trying to get the job. if you did a lot worse than the other person, and there are no other qualifications that make you stand out, chances are you won't get the job and will have to continue looking for one. basically if you are in a competitive field such as business, grades are important. but if you are in a field where skilled labor is in high demand (for example, i'm in pharmacy and i know they need a lot of pharmacists), then grades are not all that important because everyone will get a job. however, grades do matter in order to keep scholarships that you may have been given and to receive certain honors and so on.
basically, what i'm saying is that you should deffinitely give college a shot and try and succeed. yeah, you don't like school that much, but really who does? 4 years of a little hard work (along with a LOT of fun and life changing experiences) are deffinitely worth the peace of mind (and the money!) you will get in the future as a result!! :) good luck!
Ok, so I need to decide where I want to study abroad ASAP. Here's my choices:
Australia
New Zealand
Italy
All 3 awesome places...
Anyone been to any of these places?
Any opinions or suggestions?
OMG I cant wait! :)
I vote Australia... it sounds like a sweet place, and I once met a really nice guy at the Freaky Tiki from there who had the best accent ever! lol
HOw/where about do i go to get scholarships to study oversease.if anyone could help me it would be much appreciated.
The scholarship im really looking for is a performing arts scholarship.but any would do?its for a performing arts school in the states.
well i am not exactly 100% sure about the scholarship you are looking for, but here are 2 things you can do:
1) go to fastweb.com which is a website that you give your information to, and they match you up with scholarships that you are eligible for based on the info you provided. You can then apply for the ones that you like and hope that you get them!
2) the second thing you can do is google scholarships in general, scholarships for international students, and scholarships for students in performing arts schools! good luck!
Alright, I am a sophomore in high school but I have been researching information on various colleges. There a quite a lot of terms & other stuff of that sort that don't exactly make sense to me. Therefore, I'm hoping maybe some people who are in college or who know this information could help me, I'd really appreciate it.
Ok, this is about financial aid...
*What is the difference between: Federal Grants, State Grants, Institutional Grants, & Loans?
*Generally how do most people do college? For example do most people start off taking basic REQUIRED classes & THEN take majors of their choice?
-->Just any personal information or advice on college & searching for the right college in general would be so helpful!
Thanks for your time!!!
Hey! I'm almost done with my sophmore year in college right now, so I can probably help you out with this! Ok, here we go:
1) Anything that is a GRANT is something given to you that you do NOT have to pay back! Federal are given to you by the federal government, state grants are given to you by your state, and institutional grants are given to you by your college! The difference between them doesn't really matter... all you need to know is that it's free money that you don't have to pay back! A LOAN on the other hand is an amount of money that you DO NEED TO PAY BACK (usually you have to start paying them back 6 months after you graduate/drop out of college)! Once you fill out the FAFSA (you have to fill it out before every one of your college years), the government and your college will determine how much money to give you... grants and loans! You will pick what you want and don't want after they make you an offer! Of course you will take all the grants, but you may or may not need all the loans they offer you!
2) Usually the first 2 years of college, you take "core classes," which are classes that your university requires you to take no matter what your major is in order to graduate! They will give you a list of all the courses you need to take, and you will be able to pick when you want to take them, with what proffessors, and so on! If you know what you want to major in, you may take a few classes for your major, usually starting during the second year. If you don't know what you want to major in, usually the university lets you take "core classes" the first 2 years, after which you have to decide what your major will be.
3) Ok now for some general advice... first thing you have to decide is whether you want to stay close to home or go far away! A lot of people think they want to move far, but they later decide to stay close! From my own experience, and from what I've seen happen to other people, it's best to stay close... 4 hours away at most! Also, keep in mind that most colleges are cheaper if you live in the state in which they are located! So if you're from California, it will be cheaper for you to go to a college in California!
Also, decide on the size of school you want! Some schools have 2,000 people... others have 40,000! I go to one with 10,000 and I really like that, because it is big, but not too big! You also have to decide whether you want a school that is secluded... in the middle of nowhere, or if you want to be in the middle of a city!
Last, but not least, if you know what you want to major in, or if you have a general idea, you need to make sure that the school you choose has a good reputation for that major/field, and also make sure that they offer it!
Sorry, this is soo long but I couldn't answer this well with 2 sentences! You have plenty of time, so keep looking, decide what you want and don't want, and use all your resources! Talk to your guidance councelor and get help from her/him, and visit the schools of your choice to make sure you like them! It seems like a long process, but it's not that bad at all! Don't worry and don't be scared, you will love college! :)