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ok sorry if this is kinda long....this is really hard for me to talk about ive never talked about this with anyone other than my aunt...
ok so my 28 year old aunt came and visited me and we are really close...and i was telling her that i think my parents are growing apart...and she said "no offense sweetie, but ive kinda always had a theory that your dad is gay, i mean me and your mom talk and the last time they had sex was when your brother was concieved...10 years ago" and naturally, i did take offense but i didn't tell her...the truth is is that ive always kinda thought the same thing but i haven't told anyone. ive been thinking about it recently because i caught my dad flirting with his boss (who is gay and tells everyone that he is) and my parents haven't spent there last two anniversaries together! my mom was out of state so my dad decided to spend them with his boss!! my dad also uses phrases like "oh my gosh" and "whatever" in a velley girl way...and he is very into fashion...and he is very feminine in everything he does....i mean hes not tall and buff actually quite the opposite...hes about 5'3 and 160 lbs.! I don't know what to do...some of my friends have asked me if hes gay and it really hurts me...but now...im starting to believe them...please help me! What should i do?? should i talk to my mom about this???
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I would talk to your mom, and open up and be honest. I wouldn't just straight out go "is dad gay?" just let her know that you're concerned about their relationship and it's worrying you, and see what she has to say. You could also talk to your dad and see if he can open up to you. Hope I offered some sort of help!
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I am 16/f and my boyfriedn and I are planning to get married when I am 18, My bf is 21, but my mother said she wont except this marriage as i am too young and have to finish my education first. I dont want to hurt my mother as she is very upset. But i am absolutely in love with my bf and so is he. We are totally sure about this marriage. What should I do? (link)
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I think that if you are totally sure about this marriage and that if you love eachother this much, than you love each other enough to wait on one another. I would start collage and set plans for your future and be happy for the fact that you already have someone to spend the rest of your life with and that you don't have to search for someone. Your mom just wants to make sure you are setted. Maybe you could get married after you;ve been through a few years of collage so that you can also make your mom happy? it's up to you though, I would pray about whatever you decide to do also...
Good luck!
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My fourteen year old daughter has been going out with this nineteen year old boy since the beginning of January, first of all she lied to me saying that he was sixteen. I am quite worried about this. Can somebody help me and tell me what I should be doing. She is my only daughter, in fact my only child. I am worried. Help. (link)
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I'm around your daughter's age and I myself about flipped when I read this. 5 years of age difference is way too much of an age gap. And she knew that you wouldn't approve, which is way she told you he was 16. I'm not sure about what to do to get through to her, but I know what wouldn't work. Don't forbid her from seeing him. She would be SO mad at you. I would sit down and talk to her, and instead of jumping right in and trying to talk down the whole thing, ask her why she likes him so much. Maybe if you get to see her side, (whatever it might be) it will be easier for you to get her, to see your side. Then after that, I would let her know how much you don't approve of the whole situation, and why it probably won't last, and things she's going to miss out on. That's what would get through to me. I hope I helped and I will pray that you get through to your daughter.
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